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ceecee08 · 02-14-2012, 08:56 AM

Good Morning Ladies!!!

Yes it has been very busy for me the past few days. I am exhausted.

260.2 from the 2 pieces of cake and alcohol this past weekend. Gym yesterday and I will try to go today as well. I have been hungrier lately and I know it's from the carbs

Gotta get it back in check.

HAPPY VALENTINES DAY!!!!!! James and Janiyah had flowers delivered to my job

He is still in the dog house but he is trying. Still no word of a date yet! We will see.

I had a blast in Memphis this past weekend hanging with friends and catching up with old one's. Good Times.

Bejewelme · 02-14-2012, 11:28 AM

Happy V-day sweetie, enjoy your day!! I am glad he sent flowers he better get his arse in gear or he is going to get a kicking from mama soon, LOL

Martini72 · 02-14-2012, 11:39 AM

HAPPY

DAY!!!!

Tell James you need him to spend the evening with daughter because you are taking yourself on a date. Put on something short and heels that are high. LOL Did I mention he is on my nerves with this?

janetsbreeze · 02-14-2012, 12:35 PM

Happy Valentine's Day Ceecee!

kittycitygirl · 02-14-2012, 05:18 PM

Grrrrrrrrrr.......

I like Tini's idea.

you girl

Martini72 · 02-15-2012, 11:17 AM

Where are u? Heck did he do for Valentine's? AND IT BETTER BE GOOD!

pooticus · 02-15-2012, 11:26 AM

LOL, you tell him Tini!!!

CeeCee we wanna hear bout your night girl!!!

kittycitygirl · 02-15-2012, 05:32 PM

CC!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Bejewelme · 02-16-2012, 03:40 AM

Where is our girl!

kittycitygirl · 02-16-2012, 04:32 AM

Do we need to hunt her down?!!!

CC!!!!

janetsbreeze · 02-16-2012, 05:37 AM

Maybe she had such a great VD that she is still recovering?

ceecee08 · 02-16-2012, 07:43 AM

LOL... no V day was okay. He bought me flowers but nothing else. I was okay with that but usally he goes all out.

IDK what is happening to us. We were going to go out to dinner but we started arguing before hence no family dinner. I am at wits end. I don't know what much more to do. We talked afterwards and everything was fine but everyday we have an argument. I don't want a relationship like that where everything is an argument. *sigh* IDK.

And what's crazy is all of this just started happening. I mean we have had spats before but not this long and never have I not felt this unwanted.

pooticus · 02-16-2012, 08:01 AM

Someone has hurt feelings and is harboring a toad. The resentment grows each day it isn't killed (the toad).

You both have a choice. You either forgive whatever the other did and quit keeping score - then go on with the future loving each other and forgiving each day. Or...you get consumed by anger and resentment and a feeling of being shortchanged - discontent.

It's a huge decision. But sometimes it helps to remember why you fell in love with that person in the first place. The other thing to know is that by changing just one thing about yourself and what you do, you can totally rewrite your future.

and hang in there honey!

janetsbreeze · 02-16-2012, 08:14 AM

Ceecee, I'm so sorry. Rough patches are never fun and I do hope you two are able to turn it around

DesertGurl · 02-16-2012, 08:38 AM

Sending love and hugs honey.

I hope you two are able to talk it out and get things on the right track very quickly. Thinking of you! ♥

Martini72 · 02-16-2012, 11:41 AM

KILL THE TOAD!!!

I think you guys should agree that if you can't stop the fighting in the next few weeks we need a break. You think he is hurt from u not wanting to get married without losing the weight? Cheating? Unsure? Scared cause u are selling the house? Which I meant to mention you should keep if u can afford it. Gooosh I hate not knowing the source of a relationship issue. He needs to tell it!!

We we always want you here with us!!!

Try to feel better. This stinks

kittycitygirl · 02-16-2012, 03:09 PM

Oh, Hun.....Big hugs

You two really need to sit down and discuss where you both want to be in the near future...next year....5 years from now....He needs to know how you are feeling...unwanted

You are very wanted here....Don't ever forget

You both need to discuss how this is affecting that I'll doll baby of yours. She feels the tension too.

Why can't guys open up!

It would help so much if he could just say what is up

I think you need to give an ultimatum....we seek help to get this fixed by ______date or he starts talking on his own or you take a break

Prayers things improve Hun

shari · 02-17-2012, 03:44 AM

I'm sorry Ceecee, hope things get better for you.

janetsbreeze · 02-17-2012, 06:03 AM

Hope you have a great day day today Ceecee

pooticus · 02-17-2012, 07:00 AM

CeeCee, hope you have a lovely day honey!!!

godsbeloved79 · 02-17-2012, 07:02 AM

Good Morning ceecee, hope all is well.

This is my new journal. For some strange reason I think stating a new journal will help me get in gear and have a fresh start. We'll see. godsbeloved79's Fat to Fabulous Transition

DesertGurl · 02-17-2012, 11:57 AM

Have a good weekend honey!

Bejewelme · 02-18-2012, 05:18 AM

ceecee- geez I missed all this, not sure why it doesnt show on my work computer?
Ok GF its time you give James the low down and he can go walking this is crazy what is there to fight about, I never get that, me and Tony never fight, you have to communicate, that is where he seems to be holding back! He must open up and talk to you! I am sorry hun you have more stress to deal with with him!

ceecee08 · 02-20-2012, 05:12 AM

Good Morning Girls!!

266 this am.... Went out of town and had a lot of margaritas and sugary alcoholic beverages.

James and I have a date on Thursday. I have given him an ultimatum and we both agreed that if we can't get it worked out this go round then we are breaking up. Idk what it is but I know everytime I tell him I am not happy he says "it took you three years to realize that" but like I told him I was in a funk and I have told him this many times before. And he is no longer affectionate which hurts my heart because I am. Idk if we have changed over the years or what. But it's good to know he doesn't want to let go but like I told him I can't continue this unhappy.

Back on plan today.... Send a few prayers for my strength

shari · 02-20-2012, 06:08 AM

Aww Cee, I hope it works out...I've been there. It's rough...

janetsbreeze · 02-20-2012, 08:25 AM

Ceecee, I am so sorry.

Bejewelme · 02-20-2012, 08:46 AM

Aww hun, I am sorry you had to resort to this but I am proud of you--- you laid it out there and now finally a date, I think he wants to be together just doesn't know how anymore! I will pray for you hun!

Jayce · 02-20-2012, 08:59 AM

Hugs, girl.

DesertGurl · 02-20-2012, 09:56 AM

Sending lots of love and hugs Sweets!

Martini72 · 02-20-2012, 11:22 AM

Well let's just seeee about this date!!! Whatcha wearing? Where ya going? Relationships are hard work. The pound will melt back off. Hope you are having a chipper day!

02-14-2012, 08:56 AM	#211
ceecee08 Blabbermouth!!! Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: ATL Posts: 5,018 Gallery: ceecee08 Stats: 292.6/284.7/170 5'9 WOE: Atkins Start Date: Restart 1/4/2013	Good Morning Ladies!!! Yes it has been very busy for me the past few days. I am exhausted. 260.2 from the 2 pieces of cake and alcohol this past weekend. Gym yesterday and I will try to go today as well. I have been hungrier lately and I know it's from the carbs Gotta get it back in check. HAPPY VALENTINES DAY!!!!!! James and Janiyah had flowers delivered to my job He is still in the dog house but he is trying. Still no word of a date yet! We will see. I had a blast in Memphis this past weekend hanging with friends and catching up with old one's. Good Times. __________________ Cassidy My Journal Goals 1-Mar Down 20 lbs 20-Mar Down 30lbs -NYC TRIP 3-Apr Down 40lbs!!! 17-Apr Down 50lbs!

02-16-2012, 08:01 AM	#223
pooticus Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: May 2004 Location: somewhere over the rainbow Posts: 21,051 Gallery: pooticus Stats: 314/220.4/150 WOE: PersonalPlan Start Date: Nov.20, 2007 (restart)	Someone has hurt feelings and is harboring a toad. The resentment grows each day it isn't killed (the toad). You both have a choice. You either forgive whatever the other did and quit keeping score - then go on with the future loving each other and forgiving each day. Or...you get consumed by anger and resentment and a feeling of being shortchanged - discontent. It's a huge decision. But sometimes it helps to remember why you fell in love with that person in the first place. The other thing to know is that by changing just one thing about yourself and what you do, you can totally rewrite your future. and hang in there honey! __________________ 10/20/07-314; 11/26/07-275 Surgery - Tot.Hyst.; 08/5/10-275.0; 09/1-271.8-(Started JUDDD); 10/2-260.4; 3/1/12-231.0lbs 5/25/12-227.2lbs; 8/19/12-222.8lbs I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. ~ Philippians 4:13 "Life moves pretty fast. If you don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." Ferris Bueller Visit my blog. Visit My JUDDD Menus Subscribe To FluffyChixCook Facebook Page

02-16-2012, 11:41 AM	#226
Martini72 Major LCF Poster! Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Carbville, MD Posts: 2,498 Gallery: Martini72 Stats: ut ohh/aww shucks/wow WOE: low carbs Start Date: September 201o	KILL THE TOAD!!! I think you guys should agree that if you can't stop the fighting in the next few weeks we need a break. You think he is hurt from u not wanting to get married without losing the weight? Cheating? Unsure? Scared cause u are selling the house? Which I meant to mention you should keep if u can afford it. Gooosh I hate not knowing the source of a relationship issue. He needs to tell it!! We we always want you here with us!!! Try to feel better. This stinks Last edited by Martini72; 02-16-2012 at 11:45 AM..

02-16-2012, 03:09 PM	#227
kittycitygirl Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Near The Burgh! :) Posts: 11,533 Gallery: kittycitygirl Stats: 215/152.6/150 5'9" WOE: Low Carb: my way;) Start Date: April 3, 2010	Oh, Hun.....Big hugs You two really need to sit down and discuss where you both want to be in the near future...next year....5 years from now....He needs to know how you are feeling...unwanted You are very wanted here....Don't ever forget You both need to discuss how this is affecting that I'll doll baby of yours. She feels the tension too. Why can't guys open up! It would help so much if he could just say what is up I think you need to give an ultimatum....we seek help to get this fixed by ______date or he starts talking on his own or you take a break Prayers things improve Hun __________________ My attempt at journaling

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02-14-2012, 11:28 AM	#212
Bejewelme Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Reading/PA Posts: 13,535 Gallery: Bejewelme Stats: 350+/221.4/198 (5'10) WOE: Atkins Start Date: restarted 9/27/2010	Happy V-day sweetie, enjoy your day!! I am glad he sent flowers he better get his arse in gear or he is going to get a kicking from mama soon, LOL

02-14-2012, 11:39 AM	#213
Martini72 Major LCF Poster! Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Carbville, MD Posts: 2,498 Gallery: Martini72 Stats: ut ohh/aww shucks/wow WOE: low carbs Start Date: September 201o	HAPPY DAY!!!! Tell James you need him to spend the evening with daughter because you are taking yourself on a date. Put on something short and heels that are high. LOL Did I mention he is on my nerves with this?

02-14-2012, 12:35 PM	#214
janetsbreeze Very Gabby LCF Member!!! Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: Midwest Posts: 4,575 Gallery: janetsbreeze Stats: 197/186.6/130; 5'2" WOE: Atkins Start Date: January 19, 2011	Happy Valentine's Day Ceecee!

02-14-2012, 05:18 PM	#215
kittycitygirl Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Near The Burgh! :) Posts: 11,533 Gallery: kittycitygirl Stats: 215/152.6/150 5'9" WOE: Low Carb: my way;) Start Date: April 3, 2010	Grrrrrrrrrr....... I like Tini's idea. you girl

02-15-2012, 11:17 AM	#216
Martini72 Major LCF Poster! Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Carbville, MD Posts: 2,498 Gallery: Martini72 Stats: ut ohh/aww shucks/wow WOE: low carbs Start Date: September 201o	Where are u? Heck did he do for Valentine's? AND IT BETTER BE GOOD!

02-15-2012, 11:26 AM	#217
pooticus Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: May 2004 Location: somewhere over the rainbow Posts: 21,051 Gallery: pooticus Stats: 314/220.4/150 WOE: PersonalPlan Start Date: Nov.20, 2007 (restart)	LOL, you tell him Tini!!! CeeCee we wanna hear bout your night girl!!!

02-15-2012, 05:32 PM	#218
kittycitygirl Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Near The Burgh! :) Posts: 11,533 Gallery: kittycitygirl Stats: 215/152.6/150 5'9" WOE: Low Carb: my way;) Start Date: April 3, 2010	CC!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

02-16-2012, 03:40 AM	#219
Bejewelme Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Reading/PA Posts: 13,535 Gallery: Bejewelme Stats: 350+/221.4/198 (5'10) WOE: Atkins Start Date: restarted 9/27/2010	Where is our girl!

02-16-2012, 04:32 AM	#220
kittycitygirl Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Near The Burgh! :) Posts: 11,533 Gallery: kittycitygirl Stats: 215/152.6/150 5'9" WOE: Low Carb: my way;) Start Date: April 3, 2010	Do we need to hunt her down?!!! CC!!!!

02-16-2012, 05:37 AM	#221
janetsbreeze Very Gabby LCF Member!!! Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: Midwest Posts: 4,575 Gallery: janetsbreeze Stats: 197/186.6/130; 5'2" WOE: Atkins Start Date: January 19, 2011	Maybe she had such a great VD that she is still recovering?

02-20-2012, 08:59 AM	#238
Jayce Major LCF Poster! Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Chesapeake, VA Posts: 1,572 Gallery: Jayce Stats: 255/229.8/225 2nd goal WOE: Tracking & Exercise Start Date: Orig 8/10; Restart 2/13	Hugs, girl.

02-16-2012, 07:43 AM	#222
ceecee08 Blabbermouth!!! Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: ATL Posts: 5,018 Gallery: ceecee08 Stats: 292.6/284.7/170 5'9 WOE: Atkins Start Date: Restart 1/4/2013	LOL... no V day was okay. He bought me flowers but nothing else. I was okay with that but usally he goes all out. IDK what is happening to us. We were going to go out to dinner but we started arguing before hence no family dinner. I am at wits end. I don't know what much more to do. We talked afterwards and everything was fine but everyday we have an argument. I don't want a relationship like that where everything is an argument. sigh IDK. And what's crazy is all of this just started happening. I mean we have had spats before but not this long and never have I not felt this unwanted.

02-16-2012, 08:14 AM	#224
janetsbreeze Very Gabby LCF Member!!! Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: Midwest Posts: 4,575 Gallery: janetsbreeze Stats: 197/186.6/130; 5'2" WOE: Atkins Start Date: January 19, 2011	Ceecee, I'm so sorry. Rough patches are never fun and I do hope you two are able to turn it around

02-16-2012, 08:38 AM	#225
DesertGurl Very Gabby LCF Member!!! Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: Scottsdale, AZ Posts: 4,868 Gallery: DesertGurl Stats: 257.4/229.4/140 WOE: JUDDD: 243.5; Atkins: 233.2 Start Date: JUDDD:10/28/12; Atkins:3/18/13	Sending love and hugs honey. I hope you two are able to talk it out and get things on the right track very quickly. Thinking of you! ♥

02-17-2012, 03:44 AM	#228
shari Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 11,683 Gallery: shari Stats: 252-'04/197-'09/168.8/145 WOE: whatever works!	I'm sorry Ceecee, hope things get better for you.

02-17-2012, 06:03 AM	#229
janetsbreeze Very Gabby LCF Member!!! Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: Midwest Posts: 4,575 Gallery: janetsbreeze Stats: 197/186.6/130; 5'2" WOE: Atkins Start Date: January 19, 2011	Hope you have a great day day today Ceecee

02-17-2012, 07:00 AM	#230
pooticus Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: May 2004 Location: somewhere over the rainbow Posts: 21,051 Gallery: pooticus Stats: 314/220.4/150 WOE: PersonalPlan Start Date: Nov.20, 2007 (restart)	CeeCee, hope you have a lovely day honey!!!

02-17-2012, 07:02 AM	#231
godsbeloved79 Atkineer For Life Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Pompano Bch, FL Posts: 18,889 Gallery: godsbeloved79 Stats: 247/240/160 WOE: Atkins Start Date: 4/22/13	Good Morning ceecee, hope all is well. This is my new journal. For some strange reason I think stating a new journal will help me get in gear and have a fresh start. We'll see. godsbeloved79's Fat to Fabulous Transition

02-17-2012, 11:57 AM	#232
DesertGurl Very Gabby LCF Member!!! Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: Scottsdale, AZ Posts: 4,868 Gallery: DesertGurl Stats: 257.4/229.4/140 WOE: JUDDD: 243.5; Atkins: 233.2 Start Date: JUDDD:10/28/12; Atkins:3/18/13	Have a good weekend honey!

02-18-2012, 05:18 AM	#233
Bejewelme Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Reading/PA Posts: 13,535 Gallery: Bejewelme Stats: 350+/221.4/198 (5'10) WOE: Atkins Start Date: restarted 9/27/2010	ceecee- geez I missed all this, not sure why it doesnt show on my work computer? Ok GF its time you give James the low down and he can go walking this is crazy what is there to fight about, I never get that, me and Tony never fight, you have to communicate, that is where he seems to be holding back! He must open up and talk to you! I am sorry hun you have more stress to deal with with him!

02-20-2012, 05:12 AM	#234
ceecee08 Blabbermouth!!! Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: ATL Posts: 5,018 Gallery: ceecee08 Stats: 292.6/284.7/170 5'9 WOE: Atkins Start Date: Restart 1/4/2013	Good Morning Girls!! 266 this am.... Went out of town and had a lot of margaritas and sugary alcoholic beverages. James and I have a date on Thursday. I have given him an ultimatum and we both agreed that if we can't get it worked out this go round then we are breaking up. Idk what it is but I know everytime I tell him I am not happy he says "it took you three years to realize that" but like I told him I was in a funk and I have told him this many times before. And he is no longer affectionate which hurts my heart because I am. Idk if we have changed over the years or what. But it's good to know he doesn't want to let go but like I told him I can't continue this unhappy. Back on plan today.... Send a few prayers for my strength

02-20-2012, 06:08 AM	#235
shari Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 11,683 Gallery: shari Stats: 252-'04/197-'09/168.8/145 WOE: whatever works!	Aww Cee, I hope it works out...I've been there. It's rough...

02-20-2012, 08:25 AM	#236
janetsbreeze Very Gabby LCF Member!!! Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: Midwest Posts: 4,575 Gallery: janetsbreeze Stats: 197/186.6/130; 5'2" WOE: Atkins Start Date: January 19, 2011	Ceecee, I am so sorry.

02-20-2012, 08:46 AM	#237
Bejewelme Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Reading/PA Posts: 13,535 Gallery: Bejewelme Stats: 350+/221.4/198 (5'10) WOE: Atkins Start Date: restarted 9/27/2010	Aww hun, I am sorry you had to resort to this but I am proud of you--- you laid it out there and now finally a date, I think he wants to be together just doesn't know how anymore! I will pray for you hun!

02-20-2012, 09:56 AM	#239
DesertGurl Very Gabby LCF Member!!! Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: Scottsdale, AZ Posts: 4,868 Gallery: DesertGurl Stats: 257.4/229.4/140 WOE: JUDDD: 243.5; Atkins: 233.2 Start Date: JUDDD:10/28/12; Atkins:3/18/13	Sending lots of love and hugs Sweets!

02-20-2012, 11:22 AM	#240
Martini72 Major LCF Poster! Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Carbville, MD Posts: 2,498 Gallery: Martini72 Stats: ut ohh/aww shucks/wow WOE: low carbs Start Date: September 201o	Well let's just seeee about this date!!! Whatcha wearing? Where ya going? Relationships are hard work. The pound will melt back off. Hope you are having a chipper day!