The Big Reveal - Page 22

Jayce · 06-07-2012, 06:45 AM

Ladies, thanks so much for your thoughtful words...I really appreciate it. Feeling better today...still sad, but trying to put things in perspective.

213.6 this morning.

ceecee08 · 06-07-2012, 06:52 AM

I am glad you are feeling better JG. You mood will improve overtime.

All things happen for a reason.

DesertGurl · 06-07-2012, 10:04 AM

Scale is movin down down down!

Chin up lady, you just haven't found the person that deserves you yet!

lexiann21 · 06-08-2012, 06:52 AM

Sorry to hear you're going through that, we've all been there and know how hard it is

try to have some fun with your girlfriends. hopefully this will give you the motivation to push it even harder and get even hotter to have the confidence to find that one guy that you deserve

Jayce · 06-08-2012, 04:01 PM

The really sucky part is he broke up with me...just out of the blue. :-/ Things were going really well, and we had a minor argument (but he sucks at communicating) & he just cuts me off completely. Blah.

I did have a guy hit on me today while I was out to lunch, but I seriously don't feel like dating anyone else.

Happy2be · 06-08-2012, 07:08 PM

Love your profile picture!!! Chin up girlie!!!

Bejewelme · 06-09-2012, 07:05 AM

Aww Jayce he is a big douche bag that doesn't deserve you, someone better will come along, dust it off and its his loss, you are going to be fine!!! I know it doesnt make it any easier but there will be something better coming

lexiann21 · 06-11-2012, 08:22 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jayce

The really sucky part is he broke up with me...just out of the blue. :-/ Things were going really well, and we had a minor argument (but he sucks at communicating) & he just cuts me off completely. Blah.

I did have a guy hit on me today while I was out to lunch, but I seriously don't feel like dating anyone else.

Well i always try and put perspective on things. Break ups are NEVER easy. If he was unhappy then thats good of him to go ahead and be honest. I'd rather have a guy do that then to not do anything and keep me strung along, or worse cheat on me. some guys are such cowards they just cheat and lie vs just saying how they feel.

But straight out of the blue really leaves you with plenty of questions and confusion. I hope the weekend has shed some light on things for you.

ceecee08 · 06-11-2012, 08:26 AM

Morning JG!!!

Yea he is a douche for sure.

but he doesn't deserve you. And for him to leave with no explination is cray. Just begin focusing on you and the right deserving man will some along. Not some wolf in sheeps clothing. HMPH

Jayce · 06-11-2012, 01:09 PM

Honestly, I still miss him like crazy...I hate to admit it. I think he's emotionally unavailable for a long term relationship, even though he said he wanted one. How do you go from texting "Can't wait to see you" 2 days in a row, going out to dinner & movies, then calling me to break up 2 nights later? I just don't get it. I feel like if I could just figure out what happened, then I'd have more peace about it. I do tend to overanalyze things, but I'm a bit of a perfectionist so I can't really help it. :-/

Happy2be · 06-11-2012, 05:10 PM

Oh I used to do that all the time. Analyze and try to figure it out. Its torture.

Chin up girlie!!

Jayce · 06-11-2012, 09:11 PM

Thanks...I'm working on it. Congrats on getting to the 100s, Melanie!

Bejewelme · 06-12-2012, 05:35 AM

There is no figuring a stupid man, LOL Move on don't dwell that causes wrinkles, LOL Just get your sexy self ready for Mr. Right who will come along!!!

Jayce · 06-12-2012, 08:24 AM

LOL, Amber...I was thinking about it a lot last night, and I don't think he's a "douche," per se, but I do think he's immature. So, even though it hurts how it ended, I can let it go, forgive him, and know that he let something really good go, which is a loss on his part. I still am not interested in dating anyone else right now, but I'm going to try focusing on things to make me happy and healthier. I was feeling mad at myself for crying when he broke up with me, but then I realized that I shouldn't be ashamed of that b/c at least I'm willing to be vulnerable and put myself out there for someone, which he was not willing to do.

213.6 this morning, which is my current low. Really want to break past 210! That would be awesome. I am so encouraged by Nikki and Melanie's recent breakthroughs into Onederland!

DesertGurl · 06-12-2012, 09:48 AM

Jayce, you wrote exactly what I was gonna tell you! Get outta my head lady!

In all seriousness, you deserve to have it ALL and you deserve to get it on your terms. Never be ashamed or angry at yourself for allowing yourself to FEEL. Men are horrible communicators all the way around for sure, but they can be trained.

You just need to find the one that comes along that actually deserves YOU. Take care of you, live your life happy and nurture yourself. Spoil yourself rotten!

You'll be reachin that 199 before you know it. So close!!!!

ceecee08 · 06-12-2012, 11:28 AM

Yes... Dani said it best!!!! Focus on you and everything else will fall into place.

Oh and I overanalyze EVERYTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! But I honestly think that is most women.

You can soooooo get to Onderland. I am pushing to get there too but I have a ways to go

nikkiluvslowcarb · 06-12-2012, 12:59 PM

Hey Jacye, I second what Danni said! Take care of yourself and be happy with you.

You'll be joining us in Onederland soon.

ceecee08 · 06-13-2012, 07:35 AM

Morning JG.

What you got going today girl?

lexiann21 · 06-13-2012, 09:26 AM

Girl you want the 210's like i want the 2-teens where you are right now!! lol

want it SO BAD I CAN TASTE IT!

Jayce · 06-14-2012, 05:35 AM

Morning, ladies! Thanks for your continued support...I think I've turned a corner as far as getting over the break-up. It probably was a good thing for a few reasons.

I'm 213.2 this morning...new low. I claim every iota of loss the scale will give me...lol! Off today & tomorrow, so I need to clean a bit.

lexiann21 · 06-14-2012, 06:37 AM

UGH CLEANING!! I hate cleaning, my sons first bday party is next weekend and we have to clean our house and our screened in back porch for the party. NOT looking forward to it. I'll definitely have to do it in stages. I may just clean the bathrooms this weekend just to get it done with so i'll we'll have to do is vacuuming and the kitchen.

glad you've turned the corner just in time for the weekend, you should plan a girls night and go out, you are free and have no one to answer to! There are pros and cons to both sides, this is definitely a pro.

ceecee08 · 06-14-2012, 07:34 AM

Pro You are indeed.

Yea I have to clean this weekend too.... and do laundry!!!!! UUUUGGGGHHH my nemisis

YAY!!!!!!!!!! new low... Probably came from dropping the dead weight. LOL

Jayce · 06-14-2012, 07:48 AM

Lol, Cassidy, why did this dude at work ask me how much my ex weighed, and then said, "Well, you just lost like 170 lbs. of dead weight!" Lol. It did make me laugh.

DesertGurl · 06-14-2012, 09:13 AM

Great job on the loss hon!

Glad you're feeling better today!

ceecee08 · 06-14-2012, 09:19 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jayce

Lol, Cassidy, why did this dude at work ask me how much my ex weighed, and then said, "Well, you just lost like 170 lbs. of dead weight!" Lol. It did make me laugh.

Cuz you did!!!! LOL That guy just wasn't thinking. LOSER!!!

Jayce · 06-14-2012, 05:23 PM

I sooooo need to do laundry, Cass, but I've been putting it off. Now I literally need to do like 6 loads! Ugh. Lol

So I tried on some smaller jeans I'd put away in a trunk & I can fit into 3 pairs! One of the pairs I last remember wearing in Spring of '06, so that excited me. Too happy when I can get my butt in smaller things! Lol. I want to go do the elliptical in the a.m. This totally gave me more motivation!

shari · 06-15-2012, 05:37 AM

Congrats on the smaller jeans! You're so close to goal.

Glad to see you're feeling better..it just takes time.

ChristineCQ · 06-15-2012, 05:49 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jayce

Lol, Cassidy, why did this dude at work ask me how much my ex weighed, and then said, "Well, you just lost like 170 lbs. of dead weight!" Lol. It did make me laugh.

That's exactly what I was thinking! Newcomer to your journal, so hi!

ceecee08 · 06-15-2012, 07:55 AM

YES!!!!!!!!!!!! Fitting into old jeans is a PLUS and MAJOR motivator!!!!!!!!! Go get em on the elliptical skinny minny!!!

lexiann21 · 06-15-2012, 08:55 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jayce

So I tried on some smaller jeans I'd put away in a trunk & I can fit into 3 pairs! One of the pairs I last remember wearing in Spring of '06, so that excited me. Too happy when I can get my butt in smaller things! Lol. I want to go do the elliptical in the a.m. This totally gave me more motivation!

Don't you love that? I have a pair of silver jeans that i'm hoping to fit into by august! i can button them but they are tight!

06-11-2012, 01:09 PM	#640
Jayce Major LCF Poster! Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Chesapeake, VA Posts: 1,572 Gallery: Jayce Stats: 255/229.8/225 2nd goal WOE: Tracking & Exercise Start Date: Orig 8/10; Restart 2/13	Honestly, I still miss him like crazy...I hate to admit it. I think he's emotionally unavailable for a long term relationship, even though he said he wanted one. How do you go from texting "Can't wait to see you" 2 days in a row, going out to dinner & movies, then calling me to break up 2 nights later? I just don't get it. I feel like if I could just figure out what happened, then I'd have more peace about it. I do tend to overanalyze things, but I'm a bit of a perfectionist so I can't really help it. :-/ __________________ JG's Journal The thing that is really hard & really amazing is giving up on being perfect & beginning the work of becoming yourself. -- Anna Quindlen Wake up with determination; Go to bed with satisfaction. 30 miles in May 11.24/30

06-12-2012, 08:24 AM	#644
Jayce Major LCF Poster! Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Chesapeake, VA Posts: 1,572 Gallery: Jayce Stats: 255/229.8/225 2nd goal WOE: Tracking & Exercise Start Date: Orig 8/10; Restart 2/13	LOL, Amber...I was thinking about it a lot last night, and I don't think he's a "douche," per se, but I do think he's immature. So, even though it hurts how it ended, I can let it go, forgive him, and know that he let something really good go, which is a loss on his part. I still am not interested in dating anyone else right now, but I'm going to try focusing on things to make me happy and healthier. I was feeling mad at myself for crying when he broke up with me, but then I realized that I shouldn't be ashamed of that b/c at least I'm willing to be vulnerable and put myself out there for someone, which he was not willing to do. 213.6 this morning, which is my current low. Really want to break past 210! That would be awesome. I am so encouraged by Nikki and Melanie's recent breakthroughs into Onederland! Last edited by Jayce; 06-12-2012 at 08:27 AM..

06-12-2012, 09:48 AM	#645
DesertGurl Very Gabby LCF Member!!! Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: Scottsdale, AZ Posts: 4,865 Gallery: DesertGurl Stats: 257.4/229.4/140 WOE: JUDDD: 243.5; Atkins: 233.2 Start Date: JUDDD:10/28/12; Atkins:3/18/13	Jayce, you wrote exactly what I was gonna tell you! Get outta my head lady! In all seriousness, you deserve to have it ALL and you deserve to get it on your terms. Never be ashamed or angry at yourself for allowing yourself to FEEL. Men are horrible communicators all the way around for sure, but they can be trained. You just need to find the one that comes along that actually deserves YOU. Take care of you, live your life happy and nurture yourself. Spoil yourself rotten! You'll be reachin that 199 before you know it. So close!!!! __________________ Danielle My Journal: ♥...Living The Low Carb Life...♥ Slimmer By Summer 231.2/230.4/216.2

06-14-2012, 06:37 AM	#651
lexiann21 Senior LCF Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Lincoln, Nebraska Posts: 852 Gallery: lexiann21 Stats: 256/221.4/175 WOE: Weight Watchers/5:2 diet/exercise Start Date: March 2013	UGH CLEANING!! I hate cleaning, my sons first bday party is next weekend and we have to clean our house and our screened in back porch for the party. NOT looking forward to it. I'll definitely have to do it in stages. I may just clean the bathrooms this weekend just to get it done with so i'll we'll have to do is vacuuming and the kitchen. glad you've turned the corner just in time for the weekend, you should plan a girls night and go out, you are free and have no one to answer to! There are pros and cons to both sides, this is definitely a pro. __________________ http://www.lowcarbfriends.com/bbs/we...s-journal.html Start Weight: 256 Current Weight: 221.4 goal weight 229 achieved 04/26/13!!! goal weight 219 by 06/01/13 Vacation 06/06/13. back on the wagon ASAP and be in onederland by August 1st!!!

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06-07-2012, 06:45 AM	#631
Jayce Major LCF Poster! Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Chesapeake, VA Posts: 1,572 Gallery: Jayce Stats: 255/229.8/225 2nd goal WOE: Tracking & Exercise Start Date: Orig 8/10; Restart 2/13	Ladies, thanks so much for your thoughtful words...I really appreciate it. Feeling better today...still sad, but trying to put things in perspective. 213.6 this morning.

06-07-2012, 06:52 AM	#632
ceecee08 Blabbermouth!!! Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: ATL Posts: 5,018 Gallery: ceecee08 Stats: 292.6/284.7/170 5'9 WOE: Atkins Start Date: Restart 1/4/2013	I am glad you are feeling better JG. You mood will improve overtime. All things happen for a reason.

06-07-2012, 10:04 AM	#633
DesertGurl Very Gabby LCF Member!!! Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: Scottsdale, AZ Posts: 4,865 Gallery: DesertGurl Stats: 257.4/229.4/140 WOE: JUDDD: 243.5; Atkins: 233.2 Start Date: JUDDD:10/28/12; Atkins:3/18/13	Scale is movin down down down! Chin up lady, you just haven't found the person that deserves you yet!

06-08-2012, 06:52 AM	#634
lexiann21 Senior LCF Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Lincoln, Nebraska Posts: 852 Gallery: lexiann21 Stats: 256/221.4/175 WOE: Weight Watchers/5:2 diet/exercise Start Date: March 2013	Sorry to hear you're going through that, we've all been there and know how hard it is try to have some fun with your girlfriends. hopefully this will give you the motivation to push it even harder and get even hotter to have the confidence to find that one guy that you deserve

06-08-2012, 04:01 PM	#635
Jayce Major LCF Poster! Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Chesapeake, VA Posts: 1,572 Gallery: Jayce Stats: 255/229.8/225 2nd goal WOE: Tracking & Exercise Start Date: Orig 8/10; Restart 2/13	The really sucky part is he broke up with me...just out of the blue. :-/ Things were going really well, and we had a minor argument (but he sucks at communicating) & he just cuts me off completely. Blah. I did have a guy hit on me today while I was out to lunch, but I seriously don't feel like dating anyone else.

06-08-2012, 07:08 PM	#636
Happy2be Major LCF Poster! Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Ohio Posts: 1,942 Gallery: Happy2be Stats: 261 (220.8 re)/205.2/150 WOE: Atkins Start Date: March 2, 2009 Restart: 1-3-12	Love your profile picture!!! Chin up girlie!!!

06-09-2012, 07:05 AM	#637
Bejewelme Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Reading/PA Posts: 13,535 Gallery: Bejewelme Stats: 350+/221.4/198 (5'10) WOE: Atkins Start Date: restarted 9/27/2010	Aww Jayce he is a big douche bag that doesn't deserve you, someone better will come along, dust it off and its his loss, you are going to be fine!!! I know it doesnt make it any easier but there will be something better coming

06-11-2012, 08:26 AM	#639
ceecee08 Blabbermouth!!! Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: ATL Posts: 5,018 Gallery: ceecee08 Stats: 292.6/284.7/170 5'9 WOE: Atkins Start Date: Restart 1/4/2013	Morning JG!!! Yea he is a douche for sure. but he doesn't deserve you. And for him to leave with no explination is cray. Just begin focusing on you and the right deserving man will some along. Not some wolf in sheeps clothing. HMPH

06-11-2012, 05:10 PM	#641
Happy2be Major LCF Poster! Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Ohio Posts: 1,942 Gallery: Happy2be Stats: 261 (220.8 re)/205.2/150 WOE: Atkins Start Date: March 2, 2009 Restart: 1-3-12	Oh I used to do that all the time. Analyze and try to figure it out. Its torture. Chin up girlie!!

06-11-2012, 09:11 PM	#642
Jayce Major LCF Poster! Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Chesapeake, VA Posts: 1,572 Gallery: Jayce Stats: 255/229.8/225 2nd goal WOE: Tracking & Exercise Start Date: Orig 8/10; Restart 2/13	Thanks...I'm working on it. Congrats on getting to the 100s, Melanie!

06-12-2012, 05:35 AM	#643
Bejewelme Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Reading/PA Posts: 13,535 Gallery: Bejewelme Stats: 350+/221.4/198 (5'10) WOE: Atkins Start Date: restarted 9/27/2010	There is no figuring a stupid man, LOL Move on don't dwell that causes wrinkles, LOL Just get your sexy self ready for Mr. Right who will come along!!!

06-12-2012, 11:28 AM	#646
ceecee08 Blabbermouth!!! Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: ATL Posts: 5,018 Gallery: ceecee08 Stats: 292.6/284.7/170 5'9 WOE: Atkins Start Date: Restart 1/4/2013	Yes... Dani said it best!!!! Focus on you and everything else will fall into place. Oh and I overanalyze EVERYTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! But I honestly think that is most women. You can soooooo get to Onderland. I am pushing to get there too but I have a ways to go

06-12-2012, 12:59 PM	#647
nikkiluvslowcarb Very Gabby LCF Member!!! Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Oklahoma girl living in Louisiana Posts: 3,144 Gallery: nikkiluvslowcarb Stats: 315 /164.4/ 155 WOE: WW Points Plus Start Date: June 7th 2011	Hey Jacye, I second what Danni said! Take care of yourself and be happy with you. You'll be joining us in Onederland soon.

06-13-2012, 07:35 AM	#648
ceecee08 Blabbermouth!!! Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: ATL Posts: 5,018 Gallery: ceecee08 Stats: 292.6/284.7/170 5'9 WOE: Atkins Start Date: Restart 1/4/2013	Morning JG. What you got going today girl?

06-13-2012, 09:26 AM	#649
lexiann21 Senior LCF Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Lincoln, Nebraska Posts: 852 Gallery: lexiann21 Stats: 256/221.4/175 WOE: Weight Watchers/5:2 diet/exercise Start Date: March 2013	Girl you want the 210's like i want the 2-teens where you are right now!! lol want it SO BAD I CAN TASTE IT!

06-14-2012, 05:35 AM	#650
Jayce Major LCF Poster! Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Chesapeake, VA Posts: 1,572 Gallery: Jayce Stats: 255/229.8/225 2nd goal WOE: Tracking & Exercise Start Date: Orig 8/10; Restart 2/13	Morning, ladies! Thanks for your continued support...I think I've turned a corner as far as getting over the break-up. It probably was a good thing for a few reasons. I'm 213.2 this morning...new low. I claim every iota of loss the scale will give me...lol! Off today & tomorrow, so I need to clean a bit.

06-14-2012, 07:34 AM	#652
ceecee08 Blabbermouth!!! Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: ATL Posts: 5,018 Gallery: ceecee08 Stats: 292.6/284.7/170 5'9 WOE: Atkins Start Date: Restart 1/4/2013	Pro You are indeed. Yea I have to clean this weekend too.... and do laundry!!!!! UUUUGGGGHHH my nemisis YAY!!!!!!!!!! new low... Probably came from dropping the dead weight. LOL

06-14-2012, 07:48 AM	#653
Jayce Major LCF Poster! Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Chesapeake, VA Posts: 1,572 Gallery: Jayce Stats: 255/229.8/225 2nd goal WOE: Tracking & Exercise Start Date: Orig 8/10; Restart 2/13	Lol, Cassidy, why did this dude at work ask me how much my ex weighed, and then said, "Well, you just lost like 170 lbs. of dead weight!" Lol. It did make me laugh.

06-14-2012, 09:13 AM	#654
DesertGurl Very Gabby LCF Member!!! Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: Scottsdale, AZ Posts: 4,865 Gallery: DesertGurl Stats: 257.4/229.4/140 WOE: JUDDD: 243.5; Atkins: 233.2 Start Date: JUDDD:10/28/12; Atkins:3/18/13	Great job on the loss hon! Glad you're feeling better today!

06-14-2012, 05:23 PM	#656
Jayce Major LCF Poster! Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Chesapeake, VA Posts: 1,572 Gallery: Jayce Stats: 255/229.8/225 2nd goal WOE: Tracking & Exercise Start Date: Orig 8/10; Restart 2/13	I sooooo need to do laundry, Cass, but I've been putting it off. Now I literally need to do like 6 loads! Ugh. Lol So I tried on some smaller jeans I'd put away in a trunk & I can fit into 3 pairs! One of the pairs I last remember wearing in Spring of '06, so that excited me. Too happy when I can get my butt in smaller things! Lol. I want to go do the elliptical in the a.m. This totally gave me more motivation!

06-15-2012, 05:37 AM	#657
shari Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 11,682 Gallery: shari Stats: 252-'04/197-'09/168.8/145 WOE: whatever works!	Congrats on the smaller jeans! You're so close to goal. Glad to see you're feeling better..it just takes time.

06-15-2012, 07:55 AM	#659
ceecee08 Blabbermouth!!! Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: ATL Posts: 5,018 Gallery: ceecee08 Stats: 292.6/284.7/170 5'9 WOE: Atkins Start Date: Restart 1/4/2013	YES!!!!!!!!!!!! Fitting into old jeans is a PLUS and MAJOR motivator!!!!!!!!! Go get em on the elliptical skinny minny!!!