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Old 06-07-2012, 06:45 AM   #631
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Ladies, thanks so much for your thoughtful words...I really appreciate it. Feeling better today...still sad, but trying to put things in perspective.

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Old 06-07-2012, 06:52 AM   #632
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Old 06-07-2012, 10:04 AM   #633
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Old 06-08-2012, 06:52 AM   #634
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Sorry to hear you're going through that, we've all been there and know how hard it is try to have some fun with your girlfriends. hopefully this will give you the motivation to push it even harder and get even hotter to have the confidence to find that one guy that you deserve
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Old 06-08-2012, 04:01 PM   #635
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The really sucky part is he broke up with me...just out of the blue. :-/ Things were going really well, and we had a minor argument (but he sucks at communicating) & he just cuts me off completely. Blah.

I did have a guy hit on me today while I was out to lunch, but I seriously don't feel like dating anyone else.
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Old 06-08-2012, 07:08 PM   #636
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Old 06-09-2012, 07:05 AM   #637
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Aww Jayce he is a big ****** bag that doesn't deserve you, someone better will come along, dust it off and its his loss, you are going to be fine!!! I know it doesnt make it any easier but there will be something better coming
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Old 06-11-2012, 08:22 AM   #638
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The really sucky part is he broke up with me...just out of the blue. :-/ Things were going really well, and we had a minor argument (but he sucks at communicating) & he just cuts me off completely. Blah.

I did have a guy hit on me today while I was out to lunch, but I seriously don't feel like dating anyone else.
Well i always try and put perspective on things. Break ups are NEVER easy. If he was unhappy then thats good of him to go ahead and be honest. I'd rather have a guy do that then to not do anything and keep me strung along, or worse cheat on me. some guys are such cowards they just cheat and lie vs just saying how they feel.

But straight out of the blue really leaves you with plenty of questions and confusion. I hope the weekend has shed some light on things for you.
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Old 06-11-2012, 08:26 AM   #639
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Morning JG!!!

Yea he is a ****** for sure. but he doesn't deserve you. And for him to leave with no explination is cray. Just begin focusing on you and the right deserving man will some along. Not some wolf in sheeps clothing. HMPH
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Old 06-11-2012, 01:09 PM   #640
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Honestly, I still miss him like crazy...I hate to admit it. I think he's emotionally unavailable for a long term relationship, even though he said he wanted one. How do you go from texting "Can't wait to see you" 2 days in a row, going out to dinner & movies, then calling me to break up 2 nights later? I just don't get it. I feel like if I could just figure out what happened, then I'd have more peace about it. I do tend to overanalyze things, but I'm a bit of a perfectionist so I can't really help it. :-/
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Old 06-11-2012, 05:10 PM   #641
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Oh I used to do that all the time. Analyze and try to figure it out. Its torture. Chin up girlie!!
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Old 06-11-2012, 09:11 PM   #642
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Thanks...I'm working on it. Congrats on getting to the 100s, Melanie!
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Old 06-12-2012, 05:35 AM   #643
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There is no figuring a stupid man, LOL Move on don't dwell that causes wrinkles, LOL Just get your sexy self ready for Mr. Right who will come along!!!
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Old 06-12-2012, 08:24 AM   #644
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LOL, Amber...I was thinking about it a lot last night, and I don't think he's a "******," per se, but I do think he's immature. So, even though it hurts how it ended, I can let it go, forgive him, and know that he let something really good go, which is a loss on his part. I still am not interested in dating anyone else right now, but I'm going to try focusing on things to make me happy and healthier. I was feeling mad at myself for crying when he broke up with me, but then I realized that I shouldn't be ashamed of that b/c at least I'm willing to be vulnerable and put myself out there for someone, which he was not willing to do.

213.6 this morning, which is my current low. Really want to break past 210! That would be awesome. I am so encouraged by Nikki and Melanie's recent breakthroughs into Onederland!

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Old 06-12-2012, 09:48 AM   #645
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Jayce, you wrote exactly what I was gonna tell you! Get outta my head lady! In all seriousness, you deserve to have it ALL and you deserve to get it on your terms. Never be ashamed or angry at yourself for allowing yourself to FEEL. Men are horrible communicators all the way around for sure, but they can be trained. You just need to find the one that comes along that actually deserves YOU. Take care of you, live your life happy and nurture yourself. Spoil yourself rotten!

You'll be reachin that 199 before you know it. So close!!!!
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Old 06-12-2012, 11:28 AM   #646
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Yes... Dani said it best!!!! Focus on you and everything else will fall into place.

Oh and I overanalyze EVERYTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! But I honestly think that is most women.

You can soooooo get to Onderland. I am pushing to get there too but I have a ways to go
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Old 06-12-2012, 12:59 PM   #647
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Hey Jacye, I second what Danni said! Take care of yourself and be happy with you.

You'll be joining us in Onederland soon.
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Old 06-13-2012, 07:35 AM   #648
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Morning JG.

What you got going today girl?
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Girl you want the 210's like i want the 2-teens where you are right now!! lol want it SO BAD I CAN TASTE IT!
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Morning, ladies! Thanks for your continued support...I think I've turned a corner as far as getting over the break-up. It probably was a good thing for a few reasons.

I'm 213.2 this morning...new low. I claim every iota of loss the scale will give me...lol! Off today & tomorrow, so I need to clean a bit.
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Old 06-14-2012, 06:37 AM   #651
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UGH CLEANING!! I hate cleaning, my sons first bday party is next weekend and we have to clean our house and our screened in back porch for the party. NOT looking forward to it. I'll definitely have to do it in stages. I may just clean the bathrooms this weekend just to get it done with so i'll we'll have to do is vacuuming and the kitchen.

glad you've turned the corner just in time for the weekend, you should plan a girls night and go out, you are free and have no one to answer to! There are pros and cons to both sides, this is definitely a pro.
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Pro You are indeed.

Yea I have to clean this weekend too.... and do laundry!!!!! UUUUGGGGHHH my nemisis

YAY!!!!!!!!!! new low... Probably came from dropping the dead weight. LOL
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Old 06-14-2012, 07:48 AM   #653
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Lol, Cassidy, why did this dude at work ask me how much my ex weighed, and then said, "Well, you just lost like 170 lbs. of dead weight!" Lol. It did make me laugh.
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Lol, Cassidy, why did this dude at work ask me how much my ex weighed, and then said, "Well, you just lost like 170 lbs. of dead weight!" Lol. It did make me laugh.
Cuz you did!!!! LOL That guy just wasn't thinking. LOSER!!!
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I sooooo need to do laundry, Cass, but I've been putting it off. Now I literally need to do like 6 loads! Ugh. Lol

So I tried on some smaller jeans I'd put away in a trunk & I can fit into 3 pairs! One of the pairs I last remember wearing in Spring of '06, so that excited me. Too happy when I can get my butt in smaller things! Lol. I want to go do the elliptical in the a.m. This totally gave me more motivation!
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Lol, Cassidy, why did this dude at work ask me how much my ex weighed, and then said, "Well, you just lost like 170 lbs. of dead weight!" Lol. It did make me laugh.
That's exactly what I was thinking! Newcomer to your journal, so hi!
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YES!!!!!!!!!!!! Fitting into old jeans is a PLUS and MAJOR motivator!!!!!!!!! Go get em on the elliptical skinny minny!!!
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So I tried on some smaller jeans I'd put away in a trunk & I can fit into 3 pairs! One of the pairs I last remember wearing in Spring of '06, so that excited me. Too happy when I can get my butt in smaller things! Lol. I want to go do the elliptical in the a.m. This totally gave me more motivation!
Don't you love that? I have a pair of silver jeans that i'm hoping to fit into by august! i can button them but they are tight!
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