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Old 01-16-2012, 06:11 AM   #1831
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Old 01-16-2012, 07:47 AM   #1832
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Sitting bedside. Breathing is very shallow. Not able to talk anymore. No pain meds to see if he would be more present. No pain either. He looks so peaceful. All us sisters are here with Mom and Dad. Just enjoying our last times all together.
Thank you all. You really are helping me.

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Old 01-16-2012, 07:53 AM   #1833
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Pray his transition remains peaceful, much love with virtual hugs.
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Old 01-16-2012, 08:26 AM   #1834
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Pray his transition remains peaceful, much love with virtual hugs.
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Old 01-16-2012, 04:28 PM   #1835
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Old 01-16-2012, 06:50 PM   #1836
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Old 01-17-2012, 05:24 AM   #1837
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Old 01-17-2012, 06:09 AM   #1838
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Deb, I started to weep as I read ur post. Lord, meet Deb's father right where he is. Let ur will be done and whatever happens, we know that you dont make any mistakes.

Praying for comfort and peace during this difficult time.

AMEN!

Deb, you're father and your family are all in my prayers!
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Old 01-17-2012, 06:35 AM   #1839
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Old 01-17-2012, 07:39 AM   #1840
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Thank you wonderful friends. Some of you are my friends on Facebook and my sister posted some old pictures of us and my wonderful Dad. I'm on my cell phone or I would post some. Still bedside.
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Old 01-17-2012, 07:43 AM   #1841
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I'm not a friend on fb but I know they're lovely.
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Old 01-17-2012, 03:09 PM   #1842
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I will post some when I get back home. Thank you Shari. He was a looker in his day. A handsome man. Good, kind. Best Dad ever.
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Old 01-17-2012, 04:13 PM   #1843
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I saw the pics, and your right, dad is handsome. All you girls have beautiful blonde hair
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Old 01-17-2012, 04:22 PM   #1844
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i LOVE the pics! Beautiful family Deb! Hugs honey!
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Old 01-17-2012, 09:13 PM   #1845
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Thank you so much ladies tonight he is about done with this journey. He sat up and yelled Open the door! Twice. Scared me to death and we told him the door was open. Go through Dad. He calmed down and fell back to sleep. This journey is sad but I feel blessed to be a part of it. Rest peacefully Dad.
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Old 01-18-2012, 12:56 AM   #1846
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Thank you so much ladies tonight he is about done with this journey. He sat up and yelled Open the door! Twice. Scared me to death and we told him the door was open. Go through Dad. He calmed down and fell back to sleep. This journey is sad but I feel blessed to be a part of it. Rest peacefully Dad.
Sounds like there is some comfort in knowing what's happening and getting to say goodbye. Love you honey! Let me know if you need anything (you will hear that phrase a LOT but i actually mean it).
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Old 01-18-2012, 02:34 AM   #1847
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Thank you so much ladies tonight he is about done with this journey. He sat up and yelled Open the door! Twice. Scared me to death and we told him the door was open. Go through Dad. He calmed down and fell back to sleep. This journey is sad but I feel blessed to be a part of it. Rest peacefully Dad.
I agree with Tyl, you all are able to say goodbye and let him know what a great Dad he is. I'm praying for you all.
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Old 01-18-2012, 05:09 AM   #1848
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I too agree 100% with Tyl. You are all still in my thoughts and prayers....
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Old 01-18-2012, 05:34 AM   #1849
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Old 01-18-2012, 06:56 AM   #1850
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Thanks you beautiful friends!!! He is one tough guy!! Still hanging on. May be some unfinished business. However we are giving him permission to go. No more suffering.

You all are right in that having this time to say goodbye is priceless. I so much appreciate your support. Back soon to join you on the losing path.
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Old 01-18-2012, 07:01 AM   #1851
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Thanks you beautiful friends!!! He is one tough guy!! Still hanging on. May be some unfinished business. However we are giving him permission to go. No more suffering.

You all are right in that having this time to say goodbye is priceless. I so much appreciate your support. Back soon to join you on the losing path.
The time you are spending with your father and family is just what you need. Words cannot express my deepest sympathy for you and your family during this time.
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Old 01-18-2012, 08:02 AM   #1852
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After reading Pati's journal, I didn't know anything was wrong. I'm so sorry you're going through this. My FIL passed at home in the middle of the night. He had hospice come to the house and set up a hospital bed there. We were all there that evening and my MIL and my FIL's mother stayed up with him til about 3 am. It seemed right when they fell asleep he passed. It was like he didn't want anyone to see him go. Take comfort knowing he will be in good hands and you will have your own guardian angel. I am so sorry, Deb.
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Old 01-18-2012, 09:04 AM   #1853
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Thank you both that is very comforting.
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Old 01-18-2012, 10:06 AM   #1854
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I can't stop thinking about you all. As Magie said, words can't express my deepest sympathy. I really appreciate you coming here and keeping us posted. I tend to run away, but that's when you need everyone, in person and virtual around you...heartfelt prayers are the strongest when being sent by multiple people.

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Old 01-18-2012, 12:44 PM   #1855
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Shari that was so touching. Thank you. I also tend to run away but this feels ok to me. I know when someone disappears I wonder and worry about them.
Just wanted you all to know I am ok. This is hard to just let go. However being surrounded by such love makes these days bearable.
We are sitting bedside telling silly childhood stories and I know he hears us. We giggle through our tears. It helps.
Love to you all. I'm so sincere when I tell you how much this helps me.
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Old 01-18-2012, 12:52 PM   #1856
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Deb, I can not imagine how difficult this must be for you and your family! I pray the transition is a peaceful one for your father. I do worry about your mom, tho. How is she doing?
Please know I am here if you need ANYTHING! ANYTHING AT ALL!!!
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Old 01-18-2012, 01:11 PM   #1857
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Aweee Pati. Thank you hon. You have been so comforting. Your very lucky family should be proud. Mom is taking this very hard today. He is fighting to hang on and she wants him to release. She has had little sleep in a month. Prayers for my momma.
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Old 01-18-2012, 01:26 PM   #1858
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I'm just reading everything now, but Meek lmk what was happening in your family. I pray for your Dad, & for comfort & continued peace for you, your mom & family. We all love you here & are here for you, Deb.
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Old 01-18-2012, 03:57 PM   #1859
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Thank you sweet Dessa. I am so blessed. I have another amazing story to share soon. Back later. Much love
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Old 01-19-2012, 03:57 AM   #1860
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