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Tylar_Connar · 11-14-2006, 07:24 AM

Thanks everyone. I try to stray from atkins, only to come back. I have it in my head that carbs are EVIL!! and I just cant make myself eat them and it be ok. Like trying another plan as in weight watchers. And to say its ok to have this spaghettie...I still feel as I have cheated myself and weightloss I could have it only I stick to atkins.

Also, I talked to dh about Fl. He really didnt put up as much fight as I thought. But being their Christmas Day really was being avoided. He was all about going before or after...which ever I wanted to do.

So at any rate we will be in FL in December....so maybe that will give me the motivation I want??

Sadler_Girl · 11-14-2006, 08:36 AM

yup it is warm down there, no hiding in a sweater or jacket.
Not that youy need to anyways You look great!

heidi21062 · 11-14-2006, 06:34 PM

Hey Sweetie!

Glad your DH didn't diss going to Florida for Christmas. I know you'll have a great time!

Talk to you tomorrow!

Vikktorea · 11-17-2006, 04:34 AM

Hi Tonia - I hope you have a really great Friday. Hope you're able to play around the board

YoYoGirl · 11-17-2006, 10:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tylar_Connar

Thanks everyone. I try to stray from atkins, only to come back. I have it in my head that carbs are EVIL!! and I just cant make myself eat them and it be ok. Like trying another plan as in weight watchers. And to say its ok to have this spaghettie...I still feel as I have cheated myself and weightloss I could have it only I stick to atkins.

Also, I talked to dh about Fl. He really didnt put up as much fight as I thought. But being their Christmas Day really was being avoided. He was all about going before or after...which ever I wanted to do.

So at any rate we will be in FL in December....so maybe that will give me the motivation I want??

Hey...I'm right there with 'ya. I can't seem to be able to try Scaresdale or any other WOE because every time I put noodles or cereal in my mouth, I feel like I'm blowing it. Plus, I KNOW from past experience, that those foods trigger me to be ravenous for more... I think I'll just stick with Atkins for now...get to goal and then work on adding in fruits... then whole grain breads...but that will be it. I don't think my body will allow me more than that and some occasional cheats...'cause I am not giving up chocolate for the rest of my life!

Tylar_Connar · 11-20-2006, 10:32 AM

Well I have lost 2 of the 5 lbs that i have gained...like i said on MMFM yo yo dieting at its best!!
I swear my dh depresses me to death!!

Does my dh ever not be a a$$?? ok, so yesterday we went to church, then to his parents to eat, and then to the mall to watch a movie. No plans for the movie. I was like sure lets go. So, we went. Ds2 has been running a fever off and on since THursday night. And was not feeling at his best yesterday. So we went to see Santa Clause 3. Walked in the thearte ds2 started crying. Went and sat down thinking he would calm down....did this like 5 times....i told dh that I was going and enjoy the movie. he is like its loud enough in here no one will hear him. i am like NO, I am going I dont want to interupt everyone else fun and the movie with a crying baby. I think it must have scared him.
so today i was talking to my mom and on Thanksgiving we usually go to the movies. so she ask if we wanted to go. i ask dh if he wanted to go on thanksgiving and he said no, i will just let you go and i will keep connar
i was like you neverdo anything with my family. The last time he was there was for Halloween and before that was~I dunno...whatever holiday is before that. He said well you couldnt go with mine this weekend and i complained and he said that is fine, if he makes one little sound i will just leave
I was like dh i tried to go and he kept crying....i was like i came in there like 5 times and he cried. He made it like it was my fault i couldnt watch the movie with them.

Am I just being sensitive or does it seem that way?

heidi21062 · 11-20-2006, 11:33 AM

Sadler_Girl · 11-20-2006, 08:36 PM

I am sorry that happened to you. Sounds like you made all the right choices.

JoyInHope · 11-21-2006, 09:35 PM

Tonia... I read on the Challenge thread that the Chicken Pox is visiting your house. So sorry to hear that! I'll be hoping the little ones recover quickly and that you are able to get some rest during this stressful time (it's always so hard to watch our children suffer when they're sick!). Take care!
~ Cathy

Vikktorea · 11-23-2006, 09:25 PM

Hi Sweetie - I hope you had a great Thanksgiving day. I am sorry for the tough times you are going through Tonia. It seems like you really struggle in your marriage. I know there is a lot of advice out here for you some thinking stick it out, it's not always easy. I say you need to really take a step out and look in. Marriage takes two. I tried to make mine work all on my own and I only made myself miserable trying. Though I never would have pictured myself divorced I am so much happier.

I know you have children and that makes it an even tougher decision. Children can't make a marriage though they can enhance one. I wish you and DH could really go and talk to someone. I want you to be happy.

I hope the kids are doing good today. We are here for you honey!!!

Sadler_Girl · 11-26-2006, 01:22 AM

Just thinking about you, wishing I could send a big 'ole

your way.

Vikktorea · 11-30-2006, 05:22 AM

Good Morning Tonia - I just wanted you to know you are missed

Tylar_Connar · 11-30-2006, 06:02 AM

ok, sorry I have been MIA and thanks for noticing. I just have become TO obsessed with dieting and it had made me totally go over board the WRONG way. I started doing slim fast Saturday the 25. I started at 173

and today, Thursday the 30th I am 168!! Thank Goodness...I so hated seing the 170's again. I really think this suits me better. I can have pretty much whatever I want to eat. Like yesterday...I had the shake for breakfast, a chicken sandwhich and some fries for lunch, and then a had a banana and a half for dinner. Those are things that I LOVE!! Better than eggs, chicken (with out bread) and hamburger. I know I know~dont make the fries a habit. But I have better control over my eating right now...and that what I was in the search for. So far, slim fast is working and what I intend on doing for awhile...hopefully to goal which is 18 lbs away. BUT I feel like Adrian on Biggest Loser though....it will be a struggle to get out of the 160's and and I am destined to always be that fat girl...but i will give it a big ole huge attempt to be provedn WRONG...and in this situation...doesnt sound to bad!!

Shirlgirl · 11-30-2006, 06:12 AM

Hi Tylar:
We do what we feel is best for us if slimfast is the way to your goal then do it just stick with your plan no matter what the plan is it's working for you so stick with it
good luck luv you will get there my friend
take care
Shirl

Sadler_Girl · 12-01-2006, 04:49 AM

If slim fast is working and you are happy that is what matters.
Glad you are having a better time.

Tylar_Connar · 12-01-2006, 08:59 AM

tHANKS. i AM SO MUCH HAPPIER. I ATE LUNCH WITH MY MOM YESTERDAY AT JAPANESE...OUR PERSONAL FAV. AND ENJOY GOING TOGETHER...AND DIDN EAT ANYTHING ELSE BUT THE SHAKES THE REST OF THE DAY!! AND SAME WEIGHT TODAY...AND REALLY THIRSTY FROM THE JAPANESE!!

Sadler_Girl · 12-01-2006, 10:05 AM

Drink your water and I am sure the thirst will go away!
Glad you are happier!

KarbieGrl · 12-01-2006, 10:16 AM

If slimfast works for you then that is great.
Drink your water and then wait for a visit from the whooosh fairy.
Luv ya girl!

Sadler_Girl · 12-04-2006, 08:45 AM

Hope you are having a great Monday!

Vikktorea · 12-05-2006, 02:30 PM

Hey girl. I've really missed you. It was good to see you here today

Sadler_Girl · 12-05-2006, 04:23 PM

Glad to see you back on.

YoYoGirl · 12-06-2006, 10:08 PM

Tonia!

How is the Slim Fast working for you? --I never could do that route because I'd drink the shakes and still be hungry...and then I'd start binging. So...what's the scoop! If the shakes are working for you...more power to you!

Mel78 · 12-07-2006, 07:24 AM

Just dropping in cause I've been missin' you!!!

Hope you are doing well and enjoying the Holiday Season!!!

Tylar_Connar · 12-07-2006, 02:45 PM

Thanks Mel. I am doing good!! I hope you are doing well too. I miss posting but I will get back to posting some. Congrats on the date!!!!!

Sadler_Girl · 12-07-2006, 06:59 PM

Glad to see you postting , I hope all is well with for you.

YoYoGirl · 12-07-2006, 10:06 PM

Hey Cutie-Pie! What cha up to? Hope all is well.

ScarletBlonde · 12-12-2006, 05:10 AM

Just letting you know that you've been missed. I read around somewhere,

that you're having a bad time. So I'm offering a couple of these

and

You know my e-mail if you wanna chat.

Hope everything is looking better this week!

Sadler_Girl · 12-12-2006, 10:22 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ScarletBlonde

Just letting you know that you've been missed. I read around somewhere,

that you're having a bad time. So I'm offering a couple of these

and

You know my e-mail if you wanna chat.

Hope everything is looking better this week!

Same gose for me plus you have my yahoo

11-23-2006, 09:25 PM	#160
Vikktorea MAJOR LCF POSTER! Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Shenandoah Valley, VA Posts: 1,980 Gallery: Vikktorea Stats: 179/170/135 WOE: Modified M&E Start Date: 9/17/06	Hi Sweetie - I hope you had a great Thanksgiving day. I am sorry for the tough times you are going through Tonia. It seems like you really struggle in your marriage. I know there is a lot of advice out here for you some thinking stick it out, it's not always easy. I say you need to really take a step out and look in. Marriage takes two. I tried to make mine work all on my own and I only made myself miserable trying. Though I never would have pictured myself divorced I am so much happier. I know you have children and that makes it an even tougher decision. Children can't make a marriage though they can enhance one. I wish you and DH could really go and talk to someone. I want you to be happy. I hope the kids are doing good today. We are here for you honey!!! __________________ Victoria My Journal On the road to a happier me Proud Member Gutter Girls: 30-in-3 Challenge (Mar 1-May 31)

11-14-2006, 07:24 AM	#151
Tylar_Connar Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 12,434 Gallery: Tylar_Connar Stats: 198177150 WOE: 27 lbs to go for now Start Date: 10/14/06-165, 11/23/07 180	Thanks everyone. I try to stray from atkins, only to come back. I have it in my head that carbs are EVIL!! and I just cant make myself eat them and it be ok. Like trying another plan as in weight watchers. And to say its ok to have this spaghettie...I still feel as I have cheated myself and weightloss I could have it only I stick to atkins. Also, I talked to dh about Fl. He really didnt put up as much fight as I thought. But being their Christmas Day really was being avoided. He was all about going before or after...which ever I wanted to do. So at any rate we will be in FL in December....so maybe that will give me the motivation I want??

11-14-2006, 08:36 AM	#152
Sadler_Girl Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: sarasota florida Posts: 15,825 Gallery: Sadler_Girl Stats: 282 start Start Date: 3/5/2006 (full into on the 9th) for the last time	yup it is warm down there, no hiding in a sweater or jacket. Not that youy need to anyways You look great!

11-14-2006, 06:34 PM	#153
heidi21062 Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: Transplanted to NC...but my hearts in Hampton, VA.... Posts: 14,573 Gallery: heidi21062 Stats: 190/176/110 - 5'3" WOE: Atkins..no WW's...wait a minute....what day is it? Start Date: Started WW 07/28/08 @ 178.6 lbs	Hey Sweetie! Glad your DH didn't diss going to Florida for Christmas. I know you'll have a great time! Talk to you tomorrow!

11-17-2006, 04:34 AM	#154
Vikktorea MAJOR LCF POSTER! Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Shenandoah Valley, VA Posts: 1,980 Gallery: Vikktorea Stats: 179/170/135 WOE: Modified M&E Start Date: 9/17/06	Hi Tonia - I hope you have a really great Friday. Hope you're able to play around the board

11-20-2006, 10:32 AM	#156
Tylar_Connar Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 12,434 Gallery: Tylar_Connar Stats: 198177150 WOE: 27 lbs to go for now Start Date: 10/14/06-165, 11/23/07 180	Well I have lost 2 of the 5 lbs that i have gained...like i said on MMFM yo yo dieting at its best!! I swear my dh depresses me to death!! Does my dh ever not be a a$$?? ok, so yesterday we went to church, then to his parents to eat, and then to the mall to watch a movie. No plans for the movie. I was like sure lets go. So, we went. Ds2 has been running a fever off and on since THursday night. And was not feeling at his best yesterday. So we went to see Santa Clause 3. Walked in the thearte ds2 started crying. Went and sat down thinking he would calm down....did this like 5 times....i told dh that I was going and enjoy the movie. he is like its loud enough in here no one will hear him. i am like NO, I am going I dont want to interupt everyone else fun and the movie with a crying baby. I think it must have scared him. so today i was talking to my mom and on Thanksgiving we usually go to the movies. so she ask if we wanted to go. i ask dh if he wanted to go on thanksgiving and he said no, i will just let you go and i will keep connar i was like you neverdo anything with my family. The last time he was there was for Halloween and before that was~I dunno...whatever holiday is before that. He said well you couldnt go with mine this weekend and i complained and he said that is fine, if he makes one little sound i will just leave I was like dh i tried to go and he kept crying....i was like i came in there like 5 times and he cried. He made it like it was my fault i couldnt watch the movie with them. Am I just being sensitive or does it seem that way?

11-20-2006, 11:33 AM	#157
heidi21062 Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: Transplanted to NC...but my hearts in Hampton, VA.... Posts: 14,573 Gallery: heidi21062 Stats: 190/176/110 - 5'3" WOE: Atkins..no WW's...wait a minute....what day is it? Start Date: Started WW 07/28/08 @ 178.6 lbs

11-20-2006, 08:36 PM	#158
Sadler_Girl Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: sarasota florida Posts: 15,825 Gallery: Sadler_Girl Stats: 282 start Start Date: 3/5/2006 (full into on the 9th) for the last time	I am sorry that happened to you. Sounds like you made all the right choices.

11-21-2006, 09:35 PM	#159
JoyInHope Senior LCF Member Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: Pacific Northwest Posts: 768 Gallery: JoyInHope Stats: 206/181/169 (37yo, 5'8") Start Date: LC succes in 2004, back at it in 2007!	Tonia... I read on the Challenge thread that the Chicken Pox is visiting your house. So sorry to hear that! I'll be hoping the little ones recover quickly and that you are able to get some rest during this stressful time (it's always so hard to watch our children suffer when they're sick!). Take care! ~ Cathy

11-26-2006, 01:22 AM	#161
Sadler_Girl Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: sarasota florida Posts: 15,825 Gallery: Sadler_Girl Stats: 282 start Start Date: 3/5/2006 (full into on the 9th) for the last time	Just thinking about you, wishing I could send a big 'ole your way.

11-30-2006, 05:22 AM	#162
Vikktorea MAJOR LCF POSTER! Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Shenandoah Valley, VA Posts: 1,980 Gallery: Vikktorea Stats: 179/170/135 WOE: Modified M&E Start Date: 9/17/06	Good Morning Tonia - I just wanted you to know you are missed

11-30-2006, 06:02 AM	#163
Tylar_Connar Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 12,434 Gallery: Tylar_Connar Stats: 198177150 WOE: 27 lbs to go for now Start Date: 10/14/06-165, 11/23/07 180	ok, sorry I have been MIA and thanks for noticing. I just have become TO obsessed with dieting and it had made me totally go over board the WRONG way. I started doing slim fast Saturday the 25. I started at 173 and today, Thursday the 30th I am 168!! Thank Goodness...I so hated seing the 170's again. I really think this suits me better. I can have pretty much whatever I want to eat. Like yesterday...I had the shake for breakfast, a chicken sandwhich and some fries for lunch, and then a had a banana and a half for dinner. Those are things that I LOVE!! Better than eggs, chicken (with out bread) and hamburger. I know I know~dont make the fries a habit. But I have better control over my eating right now...and that what I was in the search for. So far, slim fast is working and what I intend on doing for awhile...hopefully to goal which is 18 lbs away. BUT I feel like Adrian on Biggest Loser though....it will be a struggle to get out of the 160's and and I am destined to always be that fat girl...but i will give it a big ole huge attempt to be provedn WRONG...and in this situation...doesnt sound to bad!!

11-30-2006, 06:12 AM	#164
Shirlgirl MAJOR LCF POSTER! Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Missouri Posts: 1,908 Gallery: Shirlgirl Stats: 212/?/150 WOE: ATKINS-K I S S Start Date: 6/13/08	Hi Tylar: We do what we feel is best for us if slimfast is the way to your goal then do it just stick with your plan no matter what the plan is it's working for you so stick with it good luck luv you will get there my friend take care Shirl

12-01-2006, 04:49 AM	#165
Sadler_Girl Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: sarasota florida Posts: 15,825 Gallery: Sadler_Girl Stats: 282 start Start Date: 3/5/2006 (full into on the 9th) for the last time	If slim fast is working and you are happy that is what matters. Glad you are having a better time.

12-01-2006, 08:59 AM	#166
Tylar_Connar Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 12,434 Gallery: Tylar_Connar Stats: 198177150 WOE: 27 lbs to go for now Start Date: 10/14/06-165, 11/23/07 180	tHANKS. i AM SO MUCH HAPPIER. I ATE LUNCH WITH MY MOM YESTERDAY AT JAPANESE...OUR PERSONAL FAV. AND ENJOY GOING TOGETHER...AND DIDN EAT ANYTHING ELSE BUT THE SHAKES THE REST OF THE DAY!! AND SAME WEIGHT TODAY...AND REALLY THIRSTY FROM THE JAPANESE!!

12-01-2006, 10:05 AM	#167
Sadler_Girl Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: sarasota florida Posts: 15,825 Gallery: Sadler_Girl Stats: 282 start Start Date: 3/5/2006 (full into on the 9th) for the last time	Drink your water and I am sure the thirst will go away! Glad you are happier!

12-01-2006, 10:16 AM	#168
KarbieGrl Blabbermouth!!! Join Date: Apr 2004 Posts: 7,345 Gallery: KarbieGrl	If slimfast works for you then that is great. Drink your water and then wait for a visit from the whooosh fairy. Luv ya girl!

12-04-2006, 08:45 AM	#169
Sadler_Girl Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: sarasota florida Posts: 15,825 Gallery: Sadler_Girl Stats: 282 start Start Date: 3/5/2006 (full into on the 9th) for the last time	Hope you are having a great Monday!

12-05-2006, 02:30 PM	#170
Vikktorea MAJOR LCF POSTER! Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Shenandoah Valley, VA Posts: 1,980 Gallery: Vikktorea Stats: 179/170/135 WOE: Modified M&E Start Date: 9/17/06	Hey girl. I've really missed you. It was good to see you here today

12-05-2006, 04:23 PM	#171
Sadler_Girl Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: sarasota florida Posts: 15,825 Gallery: Sadler_Girl Stats: 282 start Start Date: 3/5/2006 (full into on the 9th) for the last time	Glad to see you back on.

12-06-2006, 10:08 PM	#172
YoYoGirl Senior LCF Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Iowa Posts: 739 Gallery: YoYoGirl Stats: 197/154 (159)/140 WOE: Atkins Start Date: July 31, 2006	Tonia! How is the Slim Fast working for you? --I never could do that route because I'd drink the shakes and still be hungry...and then I'd start binging. So...what's the scoop! If the shakes are working for you...more power to you!

12-07-2006, 07:24 AM	#173
Mel78 Big Yapper!!!! Join Date: Jun 2002 Posts: 9,137 Gallery: Mel78	Just dropping in cause I've been missin' you!!! Hope you are doing well and enjoying the Holiday Season!!!

12-07-2006, 02:45 PM	#174
Tylar_Connar Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 12,434 Gallery: Tylar_Connar Stats: 198177150 WOE: 27 lbs to go for now Start Date: 10/14/06-165, 11/23/07 180	Thanks Mel. I am doing good!! I hope you are doing well too. I miss posting but I will get back to posting some. Congrats on the date!!!!!

12-07-2006, 06:59 PM	#175
Sadler_Girl Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: sarasota florida Posts: 15,825 Gallery: Sadler_Girl Stats: 282 start Start Date: 3/5/2006 (full into on the 9th) for the last time	Glad to see you postting , I hope all is well with for you.

12-07-2006, 10:06 PM	#176
YoYoGirl Senior LCF Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Iowa Posts: 739 Gallery: YoYoGirl Stats: 197/154 (159)/140 WOE: Atkins Start Date: July 31, 2006	Hey Cutie-Pie! What cha up to? Hope all is well.

12-12-2006, 05:10 AM	#177
ScarletBlonde Big Yapper!!!! Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Puerto Rico Posts: 7,564 Gallery: ScarletBlonde	Just letting you know that you've been missed. I read around somewhere, that you're having a bad time. So I'm offering a couple of these and You know my e-mail if you wanna chat. Hope everything is looking better this week!