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Old 04-10-2014, 09:35 AM   #1
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Most important thing(s) you have learned

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Old 04-10-2014, 09:46 AM   #2
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2014: It's more than just carbs (I'm solidly in the NK camp indefinitely)

After 8+ years, I am a knee jerk carb observer....while I haven't been clean the whole time, I have always been aware.
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Old 04-10-2014, 09:48 AM   #3
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Just how wrong all the so-called experts are. And, how bad I feel for all the people that suffer through low-fat diets because they don't know any better and won't listen when I try to tell them the benefits of eating a low-carb diet.
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Old 04-10-2014, 09:52 AM   #4
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To prepare ahead...keep palatable LC foods at home at all times.

To make every LC meal as delicious and special as possible.

To experiment and try different tweaks and approaches.

And so much, much more.
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Old 04-10-2014, 10:32 AM   #5
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Keeping it simple when weight loss stalls - I take that advice that I have seen here and it has been beneficial.
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Old 04-10-2014, 10:32 AM   #6
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That most big food companies would package and sell crushed glass as food if they could turn a profit from it.
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Old 04-10-2014, 12:30 PM   #7
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for some it's a slower process than others, and we are all unique, and we need to give it time. We just need to stick with it, and NOT feel like we failed when the scale doesn't budge for a few weeks. I'm a slow loser and that's OK with me, I'm still losing.
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Old 04-10-2014, 01:30 PM   #8
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Patience. And that high fat, low carb is really the way to eat. That big pharma and big food don't have my best interests at heart. That refined and processed foods are to be avoided. Be kind to myself, work the plan and just keep on, keeping on.
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Old 04-10-2014, 01:56 PM   #9
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The most important thing I've learned:

It's about long term health benefits first, weight loss second.

Good thing cuz the weight loss is slow going, but going none the less.

Other things: great recipes, coconut oil benefits, best products and info on everything (Lowcarbfriends are the smartest peeps evah ) and knowing that I am not alone on this journey.
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Old 04-10-2014, 02:14 PM   #10
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That trying to strive for 100% perfection is a receipe for disaster. That getting right back on plan after either a planned or unplanned cheat will equal long-term success as long as you are vigilent about not letting the cheats become a lifestyle.
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Old 04-10-2014, 04:36 PM   #11
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That patience and consistency are the keys to success for me.
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Old 04-10-2014, 05:29 PM   #12
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Finding out LOTS of us are in the same boat; and patience, which is NOT my strong suit!!
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Old 04-10-2014, 06:44 PM   #13
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Patience, prayer, planning ahead, shopping healthy, researching online.....
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Old 04-10-2014, 07:36 PM   #14
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This go round, I've changed my mindset from being on a diet with a certain time frame to drop the pounds to this being my new way of life. I've also not been so hard on myself when I've cheated. One cheat doesn't mean I can give myself permission to throw the whole LC plan out the window. It means I went off plan for one meal or snack and I need to get back on the wagon asap.
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Old 04-10-2014, 08:00 PM   #15
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This go round, I've changed my mindset from being on a diet with a certain time frame to drop the pounds to this being my new way of life. I've also not been so hard on myself when I've cheated. One cheat doesn't mean I can give myself permission to throw the whole LC plan out the window. It means I went off plan for one meal or snack and I need to get back on the wagon asap.
This.
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Old 04-10-2014, 08:22 PM   #16
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I'm with Bulldogmom. I have to start looking at this as part of my life, the way I eat. Not just some fad diet.

And I've learned that a cheat day cannot turn into a cheat week or a cheat season. It's happened to me too many times, and it just goes along with what I wrote above.

I've also learned to be patient. This WOE works, if you give it time.
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Old 04-10-2014, 08:23 PM   #17
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Patience....consistency...exercise ( thin and FIT!!!!).....the scale is NOT my enemy...BUT it need not be my master..a mindset that maintenance IS the goal.....weight loss....part of the journey but NOT the goal....this has totally changed my way of thinking this time....In 1995 I lost 109 lbs with Atkins...since then I have gained...20 to 30+ lbs several times.....this time I asked my BFF what she had noticed in the long periods of time I have maintained...she told me that when I was consistently active my weight was
stable....I am a carb addict.....that has never changed....cheating may happen but I can never predict which cheat derails me in the long term..JMHO
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Old 04-10-2014, 08:41 PM   #18
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Old 04-10-2014, 08:49 PM   #19
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Don't fear fat. Don't eat processed foods, even those labeled "low carb".
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Old 04-10-2014, 09:51 PM   #20
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Patience. Kindness to myself when I am not perfect. When in doubt, DONT. Listen to my "gut" and not everyone else.

Be gentle to others who do not understand the LC culture instead of criticizing them

Never underestimate how strong we really are, our minds are a beautiful thing.

Processed ANYTHING is no good for me. Too many ingredients freaks me out.

I have kitchen anxiety-- lol!!

Lastly, by being LC, I have learned that this who I am and I feel "GOOD" being true to myself. Now, I am ready to meet a partner who will share this lifestyle with me or at least honor it.

Phew--- that was a lot!! lol
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Old 04-10-2014, 10:15 PM   #21
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That I need to eat this way for the rest of my life. But that that also does not mean PERFECT. It's not all or nothing.
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Old 04-11-2014, 05:38 AM   #22
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Restaurants and food companies will add sugar to everything, including meat and vegetables. The best food is the food you prepare for yourself.
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Old 04-11-2014, 12:02 PM   #23
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Be gentle to others who do not understand the LC culture instead of criticizing them
Word. This is what makes LCF a really special place.
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Old 04-11-2014, 12:41 PM   #24
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That you can't make yourself crazy worrying about every little piece of sugar you eat, accidentally or on purpose. Those who obssess about eating clean and who poo poo those who eat LC bars or other so called frankenfoods tend to disappear from this website afer a while, never to be heard from again.

I have been lcing for the most part for ten years now and have maintained my weight and good health. I eat lc bars once in a while and eat at restaurants once in a while. I try to do eat clean most of the time but will indulge on vacations and special occasions.

The key is to be flexible.
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Old 04-11-2014, 12:48 PM   #25
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I have been lcing for the most part for ten years now and have maintained my weight and good health. I eat lc bars once in a while and eat at restaurants once in a while. I try to do eat clean most of the time but will indulge on vacations and special occasions.

The key is to be flexible.
Wow, I could have written this. Me to a T.
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Old 04-11-2014, 01:13 PM   #26
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I've learned a LOT of things...but something that comes to mind right off hand is that when it comes to weight-loss, it's often easier to say, "no" than it is to deal with the weight gain associated with saying "yes."
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Old 04-11-2014, 01:21 PM   #27
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I've learned a LOT of things...but something that comes to mind right off hand is that when it comes to weight-loss, it's often easier to say, "no" than it is to deal with the weight gain associated with saying "yes."
I need to tattoo that on the hand I use for reaching for the pasta jars.....

(No, seriously).
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Old 04-11-2014, 05:57 PM   #28
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I've learned a LOT of things...but something that comes to mind right off hand is that when it comes to weight-loss, it's often easier to say, "no" than it is to deal with the weight gain associated with saying "yes."
I love that!
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Old 04-11-2014, 06:50 PM   #29
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I am tired of starting over, so I am going to stop quitting.

Most LC people can eat out and still stay LC. As a hard core carb addict this is something I can't do. I have stopped eating out.
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Old 04-11-2014, 08:56 PM   #30
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I am tired of starting over, so I am going to stop quitting.

Most LC people can eat out and still stay LC. As a hard core carb addict this is something I can't do. I have stopped eating out.

I have the opposite problem- I eat more when I am home and have a hard time not staying low carb. When I eat out, I feel more comfortable for some reason and I stop eating when i am full.

Not good for the pocketbook-- though. It truly is a work in progress.
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