Oh no, Joseph is gone... - Page 11

divinem · 02-07-2007, 09:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by gentylwind

I have made Joseph's website private from this point forward. If anyone wants access to it please try to go to his website and send me a request through the link that comes up. You will need to explain to me who you are, where I know you from, what nickname you use and why you want access. I have had problems from the beginning with an individual who I suspect gets there from LCF, so I will be VERY VERY stringent in who I let in. Thanks for your understanding. I hate it that it had to come to this.

What kind of pathetic moron would do something like that?! I'm so sorry, Sheri. I understand fully if we can only support you from this stickie.

1Life2Live · 02-08-2007, 12:03 AM

Just wanting to send some hugs to you and your family. I am so sorry that someone is giving you problems. Some people!

God Bless You and Your Family Sheri.

Lori · 02-08-2007, 03:42 AM

I am so sorry someone is causing trouble too, Sheri.

Please come back to this site when you can and post with us.

Sending support and prayers. Thinking of you often.

Lori

AFwife · 02-08-2007, 04:01 AM

OH THAT ANGERS ME!

WHY would anyone cause her more grief? Sheri is going through a lot and doesn't need this crap.

Thinking of you Sheri and sending prayers daily your way.

CarbyCurse · 02-08-2007, 07:06 AM

Who could BE so nasty? I lurk on another board from time to time, and someone had to pull a whole thread about a premature baby because a member had started stalking the family.

jobun · 02-08-2007, 07:50 AM

how awful Sheri.

wendyg · 02-08-2007, 09:22 AM

Because I don't know you personally, but just through LCF, I won't request access, but I do hope that someone who is a real friend to you will keep us updated from time to time, or that you'll come by and visit. We miss you here, Sheri, and I'm sorry that some thoughtless jerk had to try to ruin what I'm sure is a very cathartic outlet for you.

Even though I don't post much, you're still very much in my thoughts and prayers.

jedswife · 02-08-2007, 09:45 AM

gentylwind

that really sucks that somebody is messing with the site and you. some people have no shame or respect for anything.

i did want to say to you that i have followed the journal and you have a great gift of writing. you should seriously consider publishing the journal as a book for other people who have had to go through a similar fight. your writing is absolutely beautiful and heartfelt and it was a privelege to share in your story.

jennifer-in-wv · 02-08-2007, 01:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Stormyskies

Yes, I posted a request, too, but I totally understand if you don't grant me permission. I remember when you were having trouble with an idiot who was being cruel.

I'm in the same boat too. I posted a request and hope I'm granted permission, but will understand if you don't.

Jennifer

FurkidsMom · 02-08-2007, 06:45 PM

Me too. I've followed Sheri's journal for so long, I feel like it is a part of me.

sunset · 02-08-2007, 09:03 PM

I don't know how someone can be so unkind when another person is greiving. I don't know Sheri personally only through this site. Would those who get access just let us know how Sheri is doing? I have been going to Joseph's site everday since he has had it. His story has touched my life in so many ways. I understand why Sheri had to make it private. It just makes me sad and mad that there are mean and cruel people in this world who like to cause more pain on others than what they are already enduring.

gentylwind · 02-09-2007, 12:34 PM

sunset, email me and I will add you.

parrot · 02-09-2007, 04:54 PM

Keep doing what you're doing, Sheri. Don't let one pathetic person get you down.

heidi21062 · 02-09-2007, 05:17 PM

Sherri,

I'm so sorry this is happening...I just don't understand what type of sick individual would do something like that....

emmie · 02-09-2007, 06:37 PM

Sheri - I'm so sorry this additional stress is being added. I'm glad you're taking control of the situation. And, I'm glad to see you posting here again. It's been a long time!

qtip1269 · 02-10-2007, 03:56 AM

Sheri,

I just went to the site to see how you were doing. I understand why you have to make it private and I think it stinks that it had to come to that point for you. I did put a request thru but will understand if its denied. I am not a frequent poster but I have followed your journey. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers daily.

AngelaL · 02-11-2007, 01:15 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jennifer-in-wv

I'm in the same boat too. I posted a request and hope I'm granted permission, but will understand if you don't.

Jennifer

Same here. I am terribly sorry that someone wants to cause you more pain.

AFwife · 02-12-2007, 02:11 AM

I can't believe it's been a bit over a month already.

I'm so happy to read Sheri is feeling stronger. In her journaling, see below, I can feel her strength.

We love you Sheri!

SUNDAY, FEBRUARY 11, 2007 07:31 AM, CST

Yesterday was an exhausting but surprisingly good day. It marked one month since Joseph died, and I took myself to the cemetery, stopping to buy some sunflowers and a little "I love you" Valentine's day balloon on a stick thingie. I left those at Joseph's grave. I only had a short window to visit and I think that served me well. I had a good cry again at Joseph's gravesite. I look forward to grass being planted there come the spring. The next row is filled in now, all covered with flowers from this week's funeral services. All of Joseph's row has their headstones up now except for the blank spot reserved for Stewart when his time comes, right next to Joseph. There was a man about five headstones down who apparently lost his wife two days after Joseph died. He didn't stay long and we didn't speak. So many broken hearts.

But then I went up to Dad's grave on the hillside. He is in a truly beautiful spot. There is a two year old girl buried just diagonally behind him. The one year anniversary of her death was on Feb 02 and there were pretty flowers on her grave. My heart hurt for her family. When I go to Joseph's grave, I cannot speak. I am struck dumb and there is really no feeling of comfort other than pushing my brain a little closer to accepting this reality. But when I go up to Dad's, the words flow so freely and I feel him so near to me. It is easy to talk to him and easy to feel the comfort of his protective presence. Interestingly, when I got back in my car to drive to Alexander's basketball game, the inside of my car smelled like popcorn. It was the strangest thing. After my grandpa died (my Mom's father) I would sometimes smell popcorn here and there. He made the most tremendously delicious homegrown popcorn and I always associated that with him. Dad and I were both popcorn fanatics and I associated that scent and taste with warm memories of him now too. And the last food Joseph tasted on this earth was popcorn. It made me wonder if they were telling me they are all together with one another. I hope so.

Alex had a wonderful basketball game and scored many times. He is so athletic! But he is very worn out from the flu and took a tumble that brought tears, which is unusual for him. He had a good game. He says he wants to play baseball next and Mom plans to pay for him to join a team this spring as his birthday present. He has his birthday party today, even though his birthday isn't until the 14th. But that is Valentine's Day and we didn't think too many people would be open to a skating party on that day, so we are doing it early.

Then Mom and I went out shopping for pots for the plants from Joseph's funeral baskets. They were too crowded and needed to be separated out and allowed to breathe and grow. They are so special to me. So we bought pottery and then last night spent time repotting them. It was cathartic. I love growing things.

So really yesterday was probably the first really good day I have had since Joseph died. Plenty of tears, but feeling a little stronger. I miss him so much. But missing him kind of feels good.

Stormyskies · 02-12-2007, 11:48 AM

It's hard to imagine that things will ever get better, but they will, Sheri. My friend lost her son 6 months ago and while she still has her bad days, over all she's doing much better.

to you and your family.

gentylwind · 02-13-2007, 11:36 AM

Thanks everyone. I really would prefer though at this point that my posts on the journal not be cut and pasted outside of that website. Thanks so much. This is a much more private time now. I have been incredibly grateful for all of your support.

Lori · 02-13-2007, 03:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by gentylwind

Thanks everyone. I really would prefer though at this point that my posts on the journal not be cut and pasted outside of that website. Thanks so much. This is a much more private time now. I have been incredibly grateful for all of your support.

I understand, Sheri. Please come back here and post every once in a while.

tyler43836 · 02-13-2007, 08:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by gentylwind

Thanks everyone. I really would prefer though at this point that my posts on the journal not be cut and pasted outside of that website. Thanks so much. This is a much more private time now. I have been incredibly grateful for all of your support.

Totally understandable. Thanks for allowing us to share what you've been through. Please check in and let us know how you're doing from time to time. You know we are here for you.

AFwife · 02-14-2007, 05:30 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by gentylwind

Thanks everyone. I really would prefer though at this point that my posts on the journal not be cut and pasted outside of that website. Thanks so much. This is a much more private time now. I have been incredibly grateful for all of your support.

Oops my bad Sheri. Sorry!

We've shared so many of your post in here I thought it was ok. But I totally understand. Especially with that individual that was posting mean things to you.

Continuing to pray for you and your family.

Nanner · 02-14-2007, 12:09 PM

I've been off the PG for a while but just wanted to let you know, Sheri, how sorry I am for your family's loss.

02-12-2007, 02:11 AM	#318
AFwife Blabbermouth!!! Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: South Carolina Posts: 6,769 Gallery: AFwife Stats: Yeah/About/That WOE: Atkins Start Date: November 5, 2003	I can't believe it's been a bit over a month already. I'm so happy to read Sheri is feeling stronger. In her journaling, see below, I can feel her strength. We love you Sheri! SUNDAY, FEBRUARY 11, 2007 07:31 AM, CST Yesterday was an exhausting but surprisingly good day. It marked one month since Joseph died, and I took myself to the cemetery, stopping to buy some sunflowers and a little "I love you" Valentine's day balloon on a stick thingie. I left those at Joseph's grave. I only had a short window to visit and I think that served me well. I had a good cry again at Joseph's gravesite. I look forward to grass being planted there come the spring. The next row is filled in now, all covered with flowers from this week's funeral services. All of Joseph's row has their headstones up now except for the blank spot reserved for Stewart when his time comes, right next to Joseph. There was a man about five headstones down who apparently lost his wife two days after Joseph died. He didn't stay long and we didn't speak. So many broken hearts. But then I went up to Dad's grave on the hillside. He is in a truly beautiful spot. There is a two year old girl buried just diagonally behind him. The one year anniversary of her death was on Feb 02 and there were pretty flowers on her grave. My heart hurt for her family. When I go to Joseph's grave, I cannot speak. I am struck dumb and there is really no feeling of comfort other than pushing my brain a little closer to accepting this reality. But when I go up to Dad's, the words flow so freely and I feel him so near to me. It is easy to talk to him and easy to feel the comfort of his protective presence. Interestingly, when I got back in my car to drive to Alexander's basketball game, the inside of my car smelled like popcorn. It was the strangest thing. After my grandpa died (my Mom's father) I would sometimes smell popcorn here and there. He made the most tremendously delicious homegrown popcorn and I always associated that with him. Dad and I were both popcorn fanatics and I associated that scent and taste with warm memories of him now too. And the last food Joseph tasted on this earth was popcorn. It made me wonder if they were telling me they are all together with one another. I hope so. Alex had a wonderful basketball game and scored many times. He is so athletic! But he is very worn out from the flu and took a tumble that brought tears, which is unusual for him. He had a good game. He says he wants to play baseball next and Mom plans to pay for him to join a team this spring as his birthday present. He has his birthday party today, even though his birthday isn't until the 14th. But that is Valentine's Day and we didn't think too many people would be open to a skating party on that day, so we are doing it early. Then Mom and I went out shopping for pots for the plants from Joseph's funeral baskets. They were too crowded and needed to be separated out and allowed to breathe and grow. They are so special to me. So we bought pottery and then last night spent time repotting them. It was cathartic. I love growing things. So really yesterday was probably the first really good day I have had since Joseph died. Plenty of tears, but feeling a little stronger. I miss him so much. But missing him kind of feels good. __________________ 'Worry looks around, Sorry looks back, Faith looks up.' LILY "Everyone is entitled to MY opinion."

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02-08-2007, 12:03 AM	#302
1Life2Live Very Gabby LCF Member!!! Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Puyallup, Washington Posts: 3,957 Gallery: 1Life2Live Stats: :( 306~275.8~200 WOE: WW ~ Flex ~ 35Pts Start Date: February 21, 2008	Just wanting to send some hugs to you and your family. I am so sorry that someone is giving you problems. Some people! God Bless You and Your Family Sheri.

02-08-2007, 03:42 AM	#303
Lori Eachday Join Date: May 2003 Location: New York Posts: 14,518 Gallery: Lori Stats: 20lbs goal/16lbs down/ 4 to go WOE: High Stress Diet	I am so sorry someone is causing trouble too, Sheri. Please come back to this site when you can and post with us. Sending support and prayers. Thinking of you often. Lori

02-08-2007, 04:01 AM	#304
AFwife Blabbermouth!!! Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: South Carolina Posts: 6,769 Gallery: AFwife Stats: Yeah/About/That WOE: Atkins Start Date: November 5, 2003	OH THAT ANGERS ME! WHY would anyone cause her more grief? Sheri is going through a lot and doesn't need this crap. Thinking of you Sheri and sending prayers daily your way.

02-08-2007, 07:06 AM	#305
CarbyCurse Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Midwest Posts: 22,731 Gallery: CarbyCurse Stats: Big/smaller/bigger again WOE: Atkins	Who could BE so nasty? I lurk on another board from time to time, and someone had to pull a whole thread about a premature baby because a member had started stalking the family.

02-08-2007, 07:50 AM	#306
jobun Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: New York Posts: 11,283 Gallery: jobun Stats: 165/165/130	how awful Sheri.

02-08-2007, 09:22 AM	#307
wendyg Blabbermouth!!! Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Where I can see for a long way... Posts: 5,131 Gallery: wendyg Stats: 282/258.0/140 WOE: moderate carbs Start Date: 7/1/2004	Because I don't know you personally, but just through LCF, I won't request access, but I do hope that someone who is a real friend to you will keep us updated from time to time, or that you'll come by and visit. We miss you here, Sheri, and I'm sorry that some thoughtless jerk had to try to ruin what I'm sure is a very cathartic outlet for you. Even though I don't post much, you're still very much in my thoughts and prayers.

02-08-2007, 09:45 AM	#308
jedswife MAJOR LCF POSTER! Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Texas Posts: 2,896 Gallery: jedswife Stats: 220/160/140 WOE: Body By Atkins	gentylwind that really sucks that somebody is messing with the site and you. some people have no shame or respect for anything. i did want to say to you that i have followed the journal and you have a great gift of writing. you should seriously consider publishing the journal as a book for other people who have had to go through a similar fight. your writing is absolutely beautiful and heartfelt and it was a privelege to share in your story.

02-08-2007, 06:45 PM	#310
FurkidsMom Blabbermouth!!! Join Date: Jun 2002 Location: Somewhere in the tumbleweeds of cat and dog hair! Posts: 5,786 Gallery: FurkidsMom WOE: Atkins	Me too. I've followed Sheri's journal for so long, I feel like it is a part of me.

02-08-2007, 09:03 PM	#311
sunset Blabbermouth!!! Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 6,014 Gallery: sunset	I don't know how someone can be so unkind when another person is greiving. I don't know Sheri personally only through this site. Would those who get access just let us know how Sheri is doing? I have been going to Joseph's site everday since he has had it. His story has touched my life in so many ways. I understand why Sheri had to make it private. It just makes me sad and mad that there are mean and cruel people in this world who like to cause more pain on others than what they are already enduring.

02-09-2007, 12:34 PM	#312
gentylwind Blabbermouth!!! Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: south Posts: 7,238 Gallery: gentylwind Stats: 274/228.5/135 WOE: Atkins Start Date: Jan 2004	sunset, email me and I will add you.

02-09-2007, 04:54 PM	#313
parrot Senior LCF Member Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 383 Gallery: parrot	Keep doing what you're doing, Sheri. Don't let one pathetic person get you down.

02-09-2007, 05:17 PM	#314
heidi21062 Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: Transplanted to NC...but my hearts in Hampton, VA.... Posts: 14,573 Gallery: heidi21062 Stats: 190/176/110 - 5'3" WOE: Atkins..no WW's...wait a minute....what day is it? Start Date: Started WW 07/28/08 @ 178.6 lbs	Sherri, I'm so sorry this is happening...I just don't understand what type of sick individual would do something like that....

02-09-2007, 06:37 PM	#315
emmie Senior LCF Member Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Raleigh, North Carolina Posts: 508 Gallery: emmie Stats: 195?/133/140 WOE: Atkins - maintenance Start Date: March 2003	Sheri - I'm so sorry this additional stress is being added. I'm glad you're taking control of the situation. And, I'm glad to see you posting here again. It's been a long time!

02-10-2007, 03:56 AM	#316
qtip1269 Senior LCF Member Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Upstate NY Posts: 152 Gallery: qtip1269 Stats: 212/193.0/150 WOE: South Beach Start Date: 10/30/07	Sheri, I just went to the site to see how you were doing. I understand why you have to make it private and I think it stinks that it had to come to that point for you. I did put a request thru but will understand if its denied. I am not a frequent poster but I have followed your journey. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers daily.

02-12-2007, 11:48 AM	#319
Stormyskies Notorious Veteran who doesn't know when to stop! Join Date: Jun 2002 Location: Where I wish I could see my reflection in the snow covered hills... Posts: 20,086 Gallery: Stormyskies Stats: Too embarrassed to tell ya! WOE: Mostly Atkins, but not as strick as I should be!!! Start Date: Over and over and over and over...	It's hard to imagine that things will ever get better, but they will, Sheri. My friend lost her son 6 months ago and while she still has her bad days, over all she's doing much better. to you and your family.

02-13-2007, 11:36 AM	#320
gentylwind Blabbermouth!!! Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: south Posts: 7,238 Gallery: gentylwind Stats: 274/228.5/135 WOE: Atkins Start Date: Jan 2004	Thanks everyone. I really would prefer though at this point that my posts on the journal not be cut and pasted outside of that website. Thanks so much. This is a much more private time now. I have been incredibly grateful for all of your support.

02-14-2007, 12:09 PM	#324
Nanner Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Someplace you've probably never been Posts: 10,854 Gallery: Nanner Stats: 219/215.5/160 WOE: my own plan Start Date: 01/03/05	I've been off the PG for a while but just wanted to let you know, Sheri, how sorry I am for your family's loss.