A special thank you, I'm touched by your kindess

CaliforniaGirl · 12-26-2004, 10:29 AM

Several days ago Splenda posted a request asking for positive thoughts and prayers for her friend Scott. Scott was my dear husband.

In late October he was diagnosed with cancer. We immediately began an aggressive fight in hopes to control the cancer. Sadly, we did not win.

We were married on 12/10 and admitted to the hospital on 12/11. After two long weeks in the ICU his battle ended yesterday on Christmas Day. He fought all the way to the end and never lost his determination or stubborn ways. I'm so proud to have been his wife, even if it was only for two weeks. I know he's in a better place now but I wish his "better place" were still to be here with me.

Thank you very much for your positive thoughts and prayers. I haven't had a chance to read through the entire thread but I plan to do so over the next few days. Thank you very much, I'll never forget the kindness of friends on the PG.

Susan

Jormy · 12-26-2004, 10:32 AM

I'm so sorry for your loss

CandidCam · 12-26-2004, 10:32 AM

Oh, Cali...my heart is breaking for you. It's so hard for me to put into words how much I wish I could take away some of the heartache I know you are enduring. Please let me know if there is anything we can do to make things better for you. You and Scott have never been very far from my thoughts and always in my heart. This will not change any time soon.

k

that1redhead · 12-26-2004, 10:32 AM

I am so sorry. I am glad you found each other and were able to share part of your lives with each other.

Skinnymocah · 12-26-2004, 10:33 AM

(((((((((((((Susan)))))))))))))))))

My thoughts and prayers are with you. Love and strength to you and your family and Scott's family as well.

collrob2101 · 12-26-2004, 10:33 AM

What a wonderful and blessed event that you were able to be husband and wife before Scott passed.

Mrs.MacPhisto · 12-26-2004, 10:35 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by CaliforniaGirl
I'm so proud to have been his wife, even if it was only for two weeks. I know he's in a better place now but I wish his "better place" were still to be here with me.

And Scott was so blessed to have you as his wife, and to have you by his side. It will someday be a source of comfort for you...that you were there, holding his hand.

(I'm so sad that this has to be a cyber hug)

I love you Susan, and my heart is breaking for you.

Shirrell · 12-26-2004, 10:36 AM

Gunner · 12-26-2004, 10:39 AM

I am so sorry for your loss.

surfergirl · 12-26-2004, 10:40 AM

I am so sorry

heidi21062 · 12-26-2004, 10:40 AM

Susan,

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Today is the 9th anniversary of my mother's passing away. I don't know how it is for everyone, but for me it never got easier, it just became bearable. If that makes sense.

I know exactly how you feel ~ I know she is in a better place and no longer in pain, but I'm selfish, I want her here.

I'm glad that you did get to be his wife if only for two weeks ~ cherish your memories.

Jannybunny · 12-26-2004, 10:42 AM

I am so sorry.

realtor · 12-26-2004, 10:42 AM

How incredibly sad for you and your family. Hopes for you and your family to be able to get through this together. I am so sorry for your loss.

Weedydidi · 12-26-2004, 10:42 AM

I'm so very sorry for your loss. How very brave you both are for fighting this fight together.

May you find peace and comfort in the love you shared.

snickerdoodle · 12-26-2004, 10:44 AM

Ohhhhh my.

I can't even think of words to say to you. My heart aches. I'm so very, very sorry.

toomuchbooty · 12-26-2004, 10:45 AM

I am speechless.

AliMay · 12-26-2004, 10:46 AM

(((Susan)))

You've been in my thoughts and prayers constantly over the last few months. Scott was such a lucky man to have someone like you by his side.

What you said about wishing his "better place" was with you reminded me of this song...

[COLOR=darkblue]
You're in a better place, I've heard a thousand times
And at least a thousand times I've rejoiced for you
But the reason why I'm broken, the reason why I cry
Is how long must I wait to be with you

I close my eyes and I see your face
If home's where my heart is then I'm out of place
Lord, won't you give me strength to make it through somehow
I've never been more homesick than now

Help me Lord cause I don't understand your ways
The reason why I wonder if I'll ever know
But, even if you showed me, the hurt would be the same
Cause I'm still here so far away from home

I close my eyes and I see your face
If home's where my heart is then I'm out of place
Lord, won't you give me strength to make it through somehow
I've never been more homesick than now[/COLOR]

We love you, Susan.

Tharoe · 12-26-2004, 10:46 AM

I'm so sorry Susan. I've been thinking about you guys.

Peace for Scott and peace for you.

auntiem59 · 12-26-2004, 10:47 AM

Susan, Please know that our shoulders will be here for you to lean on in the coming days, weeks and months. You and Scott are well loved by many here. We grieve for and with you Susan.

Ann

LadyBeloved · 12-26-2004, 10:47 AM

Susan,

I send you love and hopes for peace. Love and lightness surround you.

B

(((Susan)))

Queen Mab · 12-26-2004, 10:49 AM

I'm so sorry.

gonnagetthin · 12-26-2004, 10:51 AM

OH my God!!

I'm SOOO sorry Susan, you are such a great person and I can NOT believe this. I truly don't know what to say.. I am very very very sorry for your loss, oh my God. God bless you and his family.

Di- · 12-26-2004, 10:52 AM

I am so sorry for your loss. May you find peace in his loving memory.

Diane

Miz Grits · 12-26-2004, 10:52 AM

Susan, may you find peace and comfort in all of the wonderful memories you shared with your friend and husband, Scott.

Susana · 12-26-2004, 10:53 AM

I am so, so sorry

. I pray for peace for you and your whole family

.

Besos · 12-26-2004, 10:54 AM

So sorry

bothofus · 12-26-2004, 10:56 AM

Dear (((Suan)))

I am so very sorry for your loss. I hope you can take comfort from the fact that you GAVE such comfort to your husband during his battle, and that you were there with him each step of the way.

May time bring you lovely memories.

Rachel

Morpheus · 12-26-2004, 11:00 AM

Ancient Egyptians believed that upon death they would be asked two questions and their answers would determine whether they could continue their journey in the afterlife. The first question was, "Did you bring joy?" The second was, "Did you find joy?"
--Leo Buscaglia

I would say Scott can answer a definite yes to both questions. I am incredibly sorry for your loss.

hereslizz · 12-26-2004, 11:21 AM

((((Susan))))

I cannot put into words how I feel. I am so sorry for your loss. You have been so brave and so strong. My heart aches for you. Scott was a very lucky man to have you as his wife. May your coming days, months and years be filled with peace and love.

love you! If you need, just ask.

melantine · 12-26-2004, 11:24 AM

So sorry for your loss.

12-26-2004, 10:29 AM	#1
CaliforniaGirl Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: Nov 2000 Location: Los Angeles, CA Posts: 32,478 Gallery: CaliforniaGirl	A special thank you, I'm touched by your kindess Several days ago Splenda posted a request asking for positive thoughts and prayers for her friend Scott. Scott was my dear husband. In late October he was diagnosed with cancer. We immediately began an aggressive fight in hopes to control the cancer. Sadly, we did not win. We were married on 12/10 and admitted to the hospital on 12/11. After two long weeks in the ICU his battle ended yesterday on Christmas Day. He fought all the way to the end and never lost his determination or stubborn ways. I'm so proud to have been his wife, even if it was only for two weeks. I know he's in a better place now but I wish his "better place" were still to be here with me. Thank you very much for your positive thoughts and prayers. I haven't had a chance to read through the entire thread but I plan to do so over the next few days. Thank you very much, I'll never forget the kindness of friends on the PG. Susan __________________ . What you leave behind is not what is engraved in stone monuments, but what is woven into the lives of others. ~Pericles ♥♥♥ In Loving Memory of Scott 5/24/69 - 12/25/04 ♥♥♥ "The way is not in the sky. The way is in the heart." ~Buddha

12-26-2004, 10:46 AM	#17
AliMay Highly Caffeinated Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: searching for my mind Posts: 23,078 Gallery: AliMay Stats: :( WOE: BFL	(((Susan))) You've been in my thoughts and prayers constantly over the last few months. Scott was such a lucky man to have someone like you by his side. What you said about wishing his "better place" was with you reminded me of this song... [COLOR=darkblue] You're in a better place, I've heard a thousand times And at least a thousand times I've rejoiced for you But the reason why I'm broken, the reason why I cry Is how long must I wait to be with you I close my eyes and I see your face If home's where my heart is then I'm out of place Lord, won't you give me strength to make it through somehow I've never been more homesick than now Help me Lord cause I don't understand your ways The reason why I wonder if I'll ever know But, even if you showed me, the hurt would be the same Cause I'm still here so far away from home I close my eyes and I see your face If home's where my heart is then I'm out of place Lord, won't you give me strength to make it through somehow I've never been more homesick than now[/COLOR] We love you, Susan. __________________ *[color=green]~[/color][color=deepskyblue][/color][color=darkorchid]♥[/color][color=darkorchid]~[/color][color=magenta][/color][color=deeppink]♥[/color][color=green]~[/color][color=deepskyblue][/color][color=royalblue]♥[/color][color=green]~[/color][color=deepskyblue][/color][color=darkorchid]♥[/color][color=darkorchid]~[/color][color=magenta][/color][color=deeppink]♥[/color][color=green]~[/color][color=deepskyblue][/color][color=royalblue]♥[/color][color=green]~[/color][color=deepskyblue][/color][color=deeppink] allison [/color]*[color=deepskyblue][/color][color=green]~[/color][color=royalblue]♥[/color][color=deepskyblue][/color][color=green]~[/color][color=deeppink]♥[/color][color=magenta][/color][color=darkorchid]~[/color][color=darkorchid]♥[/color][color=deepskyblue][/color][color=green]~[/color][color=royalblue]♥[/color][color=deepskyblue][/color][color=green]~[/color][color=deeppink]♥[/color][color=magenta][/color][color=darkorchid]~[/color][color=darkorchid]♥[/color][color=deepskyblue][/color][color=green]~[/color]** [color=deeppink]SGOTN[/color]

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12-26-2004, 10:32 AM	#2
Jormy Gym and Tonic Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Austin, TX Posts: 16,129 Gallery: Jormy Stats: 226/190/150 WOE: Atkins/BFL Start Date: June 4th, 2003	I'm so sorry for your loss

12-26-2004, 10:32 AM	#3
CandidCam Body By Johnsonville Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: Posin' all sexy-like for diddidit.... Posts: 13,759 Gallery: CandidCam Stats: 181/124/120 5'4" ~ size 14-16/4-6/2-4 WOE: Atkins pre-maintenance/modified carb-cycling Start Date: -57#s since 9/4/03 -- 4 to go!	Oh, Cali...my heart is breaking for you. It's so hard for me to put into words how much I wish I could take away some of the heartache I know you are enduring. Please let me know if there is anything we can do to make things better for you. You and Scott have never been very far from my thoughts and always in my heart. This will not change any time soon. k

12-26-2004, 10:32 AM	#4
that1redhead Very Gabby LCF Member!!! Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: North Dakota Posts: 4,855 Gallery: that1redhead Stats: 235/235/145 WOE: Not sure Start Date: 1/8/04	I am so sorry. I am glad you found each other and were able to share part of your lives with each other.

12-26-2004, 10:33 AM	#5
Skinnymocah aka Miss Latte Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Gone. Posts: 41,456 Gallery: Skinnymocah Stats: WOE: Start Date:	(((((((((((((Susan))))))))))))))))) My thoughts and prayers are with you. Love and strength to you and your family and Scott's family as well.

12-26-2004, 10:33 AM	#6
collrob2101 Big Yapper!!!! Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Somewhere over the rainbow Posts: 7,883 Gallery: collrob2101 Stats: 142/136.5/125 Height 5'5 small frame WOE: back to low carb Start Date: 06/2/2007	What a wonderful and blessed event that you were able to be husband and wife before Scott passed.

12-26-2004, 10:36 AM	#8
Shirrell Very Gabby LCF Member!!! Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: NC Posts: 4,155 Gallery: Shirrell Stats: crap/ok/sigh WOE: Atkins Start Date: July 2000

12-26-2004, 10:39 AM	#9
Gunner crazy dog lady Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: On my livingroom floor doing core workout every day since 4/1/05 Posts: 4,602 Gallery: Gunner Stats: ugh/hmmm/schwing! WOE: Atkins ~ whole foods Start Date: over n' over..cheat free since 3/20/05	I am so sorry for your loss.

12-26-2004, 10:40 AM	#10
surfergirl Hanging 10 Till I hit 110! Join Date: May 2003 Location: Somewhere where its warm and the surf is good Posts: 5,339 Gallery: surfergirl Stats: 293/181/135 WOE: what works for me Start Date: when i did	I am so sorry

12-26-2004, 10:40 AM	#11
heidi21062 Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: Transplanted to NC...but my hearts in Hampton, VA.... Posts: 14,573 Gallery: heidi21062 Stats: 190/176/110 - 5'3" WOE: Atkins..no WW's...wait a minute....what day is it? Start Date: Started WW 07/28/08 @ 178.6 lbs	Susan, I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Today is the 9th anniversary of my mother's passing away. I don't know how it is for everyone, but for me it never got easier, it just became bearable. If that makes sense. I know exactly how you feel ~ I know she is in a better place and no longer in pain, but I'm selfish, I want her here. I'm glad that you did get to be his wife if only for two weeks ~ cherish your memories.

12-26-2004, 10:42 AM	#12
Jannybunny Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: in the middle of Lake Washington & sunny Sequim Posts: 30,562 Gallery: Jannybunny Stats: 175/120/115 WOE: Atkins Start Date: 1/4/2008	I am so sorry.

12-26-2004, 10:42 AM	#13
realtor Blabbermouth!!! Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Farmington, MN Posts: 5,121 Gallery: realtor Stats: A fresh start WOE: Atkins Start Date: restart 3/28/05	How incredibly sad for you and your family. Hopes for you and your family to be able to get through this together. I am so sorry for your loss.

12-26-2004, 10:42 AM	#14
Weedydidi Big Yapper!!!! Join Date: May 2003 Location: Columbus Posts: 9,199 Gallery: Weedydidi WOE: Atkins OWL Start Date: April 22, 2003	I'm so very sorry for your loss. How very brave you both are for fighting this fight together. May you find peace and comfort in the love you shared.

12-26-2004, 10:44 AM	#15
snickerdoodle Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: Apr 2004 Posts: 10,664 Gallery: snickerdoodle Start Date: Jan 2001	Ohhhhh my. I can't even think of words to say to you. My heart aches. I'm so very, very sorry.

12-26-2004, 10:45 AM	#16
toomuchbooty Big Yapper!!!! Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: Vancouver, BC Posts: 8,190 Gallery: toomuchbooty Start Date: 04/12/04	I am speechless.

12-26-2004, 10:46 AM	#18
Tharoe Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: Aug 2001 Posts: 10,322 Gallery: Tharoe	I'm so sorry Susan. I've been thinking about you guys. Peace for Scott and peace for you.

12-26-2004, 10:47 AM	#19
auntiem59 Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Where everything is big...including my butt! Posts: 11,171 Gallery: auntiem59 WOE: Let me count the ways.. Start Date: Every day at 8:00 a.m. sharp!	Susan, Please know that our shoulders will be here for you to lean on in the coming days, weeks and months. You and Scott are well loved by many here. We grieve for and with you Susan. Ann

12-26-2004, 10:47 AM	#20
LadyBeloved And stay away from my beloved: Lenny Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Sparkling & glittering in serene light Posts: 25,492 Gallery: LadyBeloved Stats: GOAL is a perfect fit in sz 26 True Religions WOE: Casual ~ I no longer need a commitment from food.	Susan, I send you love and hopes for peace. Love and lightness surround you. B (((Susan)))

12-26-2004, 10:49 AM	#21
Queen Mab Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Where everything is wonderful Posts: 36,302 Gallery: Queen Mab Stats: 7/06 174 lbs. - 3/09 131 lbs.	I'm so sorry.

12-26-2004, 10:51 AM	#22
gonnagetthin Very Gabby LCF Member!!! Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: FL Posts: 3,608 Gallery: gonnagetthin Stats: 207.5/193.5/140 goal WOE: LC Start Date: 1/5/04---back 2/1/09!	OH my God!! I'm SOOO sorry Susan, you are such a great person and I can NOT believe this. I truly don't know what to say.. I am very very very sorry for your loss, oh my God. God bless you and his family.

12-26-2004, 10:52 AM	#23
Di- MAJOR LCF POSTER! Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 2,079 Gallery: Di- Stats: yikes/getting there/alrighty then WOE: Atkins Start Date: May 2000	I am so sorry for your loss. May you find peace in his loving memory. Diane

12-26-2004, 10:52 AM	#24
Miz Grits Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: Feb 2004 Posts: 31,450 Gallery: Miz Grits Stats: Current goal: To make it through today WOE: Slow Death Flu Diet Start Date: Tomorrow	Susan, may you find peace and comfort in all of the wonderful memories you shared with your friend and husband, Scott.

12-26-2004, 10:53 AM	#25
Susana Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: Jun 2002 Location: Tallahassee, Florida Posts: 20,471 Gallery: Susana Stats: 170/141/125 WOE: Generic Low Carb Start Date: 2000 originally/this time January 2, 2007	I am so, so sorry . I pray for peace for you and your whole family .

12-26-2004, 10:54 AM	#26
Besos Very Gabby LCF Member!!! Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Mpls, Mn Posts: 3,097 Gallery: Besos Start Date: March 2004	So sorry

12-26-2004, 10:56 AM	#27
bothofus Guest Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Maryland Posts: 2,358 Gallery: bothofus	Dear (((Suan))) I am so very sorry for your loss. I hope you can take comfort from the fact that you GAVE such comfort to your husband during his battle, and that you were there with him each step of the way. May time bring you lovely memories. Rachel

12-26-2004, 11:00 AM	#28
Morpheus I LIKE BEER Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 5,140 Gallery: Morpheus	Ancient Egyptians believed that upon death they would be asked two questions and their answers would determine whether they could continue their journey in the afterlife. The first question was, "Did you bring joy?" The second was, "Did you find joy?" --Leo Buscaglia I would say Scott can answer a definite yes to both questions. I am incredibly sorry for your loss.

12-26-2004, 11:21 AM	#29
hereslizz Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: The State That Time Forgot Posts: 22,860 Gallery: hereslizz Stats: 172/160/162 WOE: SouthBeachBeeyotch! Start Date: 11.06.2005	((((Susan)))) I cannot put into words how I feel. I am so sorry for your loss. You have been so brave and so strong. My heart aches for you. Scott was a very lucky man to have you as his wife. May your coming days, months and years be filled with peace and love. love you! If you need, just ask.

12-26-2004, 11:24 AM	#30
melantine Stacy's Mom Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: BFE Nebraska Posts: 8,366 Gallery: melantine Stats: 178/140 (ugh holiday weight)/ 130 WOE: strict l/c Start Date: July 5, 2004	So sorry for your loss.