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giJ 04-17-2013 07:07 AM

Reintroducing Myself -Not so good at Maintaining
 
Hey!

So, I'm back. I've been avoiding this place most of this year, because maintenance hasn't been going so well.... And we all know that it's easier to ignore (even when stepping on the scale daily AND pants getting WAY too tight) when not posting/reading here.

My maintenance plan had been a 5 lb "window" of safety. Which worked for the first few months, and then ... hasn't. As of Saturday morning, I was 10 lbs above my safety window, 15 lbs above my current low. I forced myself to do 3 days of good clean (by my standards, not Dr. Atkins LOL) eating, and then I could re-evaluate. And, of course, after 3 days, I'm good to go to stick with it. I'm down 6 of the 15 lbs, with 9 to go. Or, rather, 14 to go, since I've decided to lower goal by at least 5 lbs, probably more like 8.

So, there you have it. I am back. Back to losing - which, frankly, I'm really good at (I've done it enough times in my life :D ). Maintenance, as I've learned (again), not so good.

Looking forward to getting to know everyone again :)

raindroproses 04-17-2013 08:16 AM

Welcome back, and congrats for getting back on plan :welcome:

I'm actually quite afraid of maintenance myself, as I'm fairly close to it nowadays and I find it a bit intimidating to imagine allowing myself to have certain things that I've taken away from my diet while losing... or to imagine trying to find the "right" zone of upping my daily calories to in order to maintain properly :stars:

You're definitely not alone in the "not good at maintenance" section though, I've seen a lot of people say maintenance is an art form that needs perfecting... hopefully this time you'll go into that stage knowing even more than last time about what doesn't work, and you'll be set up for success :)

nera 04-17-2013 09:51 AM

I am impressed that once you made up your mind you went right to it and are doing so well.

I was on maintenance for years and a slow ongoing creep began after menopause. Now I am up 20 pounds and 2 sizes and have not been able to keep my eating clean for more than a week or two within having a binge. I am not giving up however as I really love how I look and feel when low-carbing. Thank you for sharing. It helps to know there are others with trouble in maintenance - now to just get back there!!

mom23kids 04-17-2013 10:43 AM

There's something like a 95% failure rate with long term weight loss success ie maintenance. So much focus is placed on losing the weight, but not a lot is placed on how to do maintenance, even though that's how we have to eat for the next 10, 20, 30+ years. A maintenance window is a great tool to help keep you on maintenance track-great job op for catching yourself after realizing that you had gone over your window and got back at it :high5: Another tool is the accountability of a support group, like this forum. Get plugged in again and use the forum as a way to keep you on track :)

giJ 04-17-2013 10:51 AM

Thanks Ladies!

I'm annoyed at myself for letting this happen, but step 1 is admitting you have a problem, right?

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Originally Posted by nera (Post 16378794)
I am impressed that once you made up your mind you went right to it and are doing so well.

Don't be. I made my mind up a few times. The other times, though, I told myself "2 weeks", and didn't make it a day. This time, I went with "3 days - Saturday through Monday". I think that made it less scary than even 2 measly weeks, but not so little as 1 day (which is easy to screw up and say "well, I'll make TOMORROW the 1 day").

princessmommy 04-17-2013 11:45 AM

Welcome back! I am Terrified of maintance! I'm about 10 lbs or so away from goal

rubidoux 04-17-2013 11:59 AM

Welcome back! It seems to me like you caught it in time. I think a lot of us have had the experience of letting it go much farther...

fsfty 04-17-2013 12:32 PM

i too was afraid of maintenance, but a 1 1/2 years later, I've remained in my 5# range (really 3). I've found that by adding back non-processed carbs, I haven't been a victim of carb creep. That being said, I am different than most people because the variety of foods i eat isn't large. I find things I like and stick with them; plenty of veggies, meat, nuts, yogurt and some fruit. Don't be afraid, just be vigilant.

lanita 04-17-2013 04:55 PM

I'm new to LC (5 weeks on Atkins) and I started with a 14 lb goal. I'm halfway there but Pre-Maintenance and Maintenance scare the crap out of me. I started my weight loss journey in Oct 2011 trying to lose 25 lbs. it has been so hard!! I think I am pretty resistant to weight loss. Even now, I can't go over about 15 g carbs a day or I stop losing.
Is there any advice you can give about Maintenance? What specific things would you have done differently knowing what you know now about Maintenance?
It's nice to meet you!!

fsfty 04-17-2013 05:31 PM

Add back healthy carbs very slowly, weigh everyday and stay away from processed food. Believe me, once you find the right type of carbs and number of carbs, you won't even have to think about it.

I haven't had any bread, flour or rice in nearly 2 years and I'm not even tempted to eat it now. Another thing that has helped is I started exercising when I started maintaining. I look good, feel great and don't even have to think about my "diet" anymore. You will do fine maintaining...

kiwistars 04-17-2013 05:34 PM

My mum has maintained her loss for ten years by just not eating any 'visible' carbs except dark green veges.
It just fits her maintenance carb count even with the carbs hidden in sauces etc.She doesn't have to really think about it.

Darkginger 04-18-2013 05:09 AM

Welcome back! I'm approaching maintenance myself, and I was worried about it because I'd previously maintained for 3 years, but then got complacent and put all my loss back on plus some more! So - this time, I've chosen 5 foods to add - and apart from those I'll be continuing to eat as I have been during the loss period. Those 5 foods are: peas, carrots, black pudding and white pudding (it's an Irish thing), and legumes. I have never heard of anyone gaining weight because they ate too many peas, and I doubt if I will, either. I chose those foods because they a) don't have much sugar in them, b) have plenty of fibre, c) I really enjoy them, and d) they're not really the sort of thing I'd binge on.

So far, I'm allowing myself 2 servings of peas and one of carrots per week, a slice of each pudding each morning, and have yet to introduce the legumes (still got a few lbs to go to goal). I'm still losing, though very slowly - which is OK. I'm not feeling any hungrier than I was, still eating 2 meals a day and feeling satisfied, so I think I'm on the right track. Time will tell!

Patience 04-18-2013 05:19 AM

I like your thinking darkginger. I am still too far from goal, but the peas sound like a good idea to me. (don't have any idea about those puds :) I like pea soup in the winter, with just a few carrots, and hamhocks. I feel like I need more nourishment in the winter and I am already considering my choices for next winter, because it's hard for me. Portion control will be the deal, though. I love peanuts, but have difficulty controlling quanties, but I'd like to be able to have some peanuts in soups. Yum. Well that's enough drolling for, back to my eggs and coffee.

baileygirl3 04-18-2013 09:49 AM

Welcome back! I am about 5 pounds from where I want to be. It seems like I will never get there, for some reason my body is stalling out on me. Maybe getting ready for maintenance? Who knows, I just go with the flow and take it as me practicing for it if the day ever gets here.

mom23kids 04-18-2013 11:23 AM

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Originally Posted by baileygirl3 (Post 16380904)
Welcome back! I am about 5 pounds from where I want to be. It seems like I will never get there, for some reason my body is stalling out on me. Maybe getting ready for maintenance? Who knows, I just go with the flow and take it as me practicing for it if the day ever gets here.

I stalled in March, went from losing 6+lbs a month to nothing. Took a maintenance break for a few weeks and just let my body rest. Then I went back to weight loss mode and blew my goal out of the water :D You might want to try maintenance for a few weeks and then work on losing your last few pounds :)

kiwistars 04-18-2013 12:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Bella (Post 16380225)
I like your thinking darkginger. I am still too far from goal, but the peas sound like a good idea to me. (don't have any idea about those puds :) .

The reason you probably don't know about those puddings is because,for example,black pudding is a breakfast sausage made from blood:)

It is seems to be something that only countries with an irish/scottish/english connection do.I quite like it but it is an acquired taste.

giJ 04-18-2013 12:59 PM

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Originally Posted by mom23kids (Post 16381102)
I stalled in March, went from losing 6+lbs a month to nothing. Took a maintenance break for a few weeks and just let my body rest. Then I went back to weight loss mode and blew my goal out of the water :D You might want to try maintenance for a few weeks and then work on losing your last few pounds :)

That's pretty much what I did last summer. So I figured I had maintenance DOWN. I knew what I could and could not handle.

For 3 months.

Just like summer.

So I'll need to come up with another strategy, and I'm definitely going to think about the ones mentioned here - thanks so much, everyone, for your suggestions!!

In the meantime, I think I'm going to focus on relosing the 9 lbs and 5 or 6 more. That should take a few months anyway.

debstin 04-18-2013 06:06 PM

Confession is good for the soul. lol Welcome back! I am afraid it is going to take me quite awhile to ever get to maintenance as i seem to be on hold where i am, and i guess not too willing to go back to induction phase. Will be nice to have you share your wisdom with us.


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