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Glamour P! 11-26-2012 03:19 PM

I broke again...
 
Hi again all.

I don't really know what to say, but I'm back and need your support again. I miss these boards, and know how invaluable they are. Especially when you are just starting out, or when you fall, or when like me life throws another spiked ball at you, and you catch it but it leaves you with a few scratches.
Without trying to give you a poor me bio, I'll just tell you that I lost another baby and I have now had my hysterectomy.

I'm at my heaviest, and lowest. But I'm trying again, and really need to get better, physically and mentally. And they both go hand in hand.

Hubby and I are going on our first holiday EVER in April/May 2013 so there is my motivation. I will count on you an immense amount, because you got me there before, and I know you will again.

Thanks for listening. I've missed you friends.

GP X

SoHappy 11-26-2012 03:22 PM

I'm so sorry to hear this news but do hope that you will be feeling in much better health once you are well healed from your hysterectomy.

Going on a vacation in a few months is a wonderful goal to keep in sight and such a fun way to motivate yourself to stay with it, even during the Holiday Season now. I know you will be very successful again! You're on your way! :up:

Glamour P! 11-26-2012 03:34 PM

Pat, I thank you..honestly. This is why I came back. I tried and failed to do this alone, and kind of didn't want to come back as I felt ashamed and sad that I fell again. But I remembered what you all do for me, and how you have all helped me before. Thank you.

GP X

iluvbacon 11-26-2012 03:34 PM

I am so sorry for your loss. I admire your attitude and determination to succeed. We are here for you. Sending you many cyber hugs. Please be very kind to yourself.

3kidsandasheltie 11-26-2012 03:40 PM

I am so sorry for your loss

Glamour P! 11-26-2012 03:41 PM

Thank you ILuvBacon. Already so much support. Thanks all. It makes me wonder why I took so long to come back - I forgot there is no judgement here.

What an amazing place to be!

Glamour P! 11-26-2012 03:43 PM

Thanks 3kidsandasheltie. Thank you all..
:)

SoHappy 11-26-2012 03:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Glamour P! (Post 16100887)
Thank you ILuvBacon. Already so much support. Thanks all. It makes me wonder why I took so long to come back - I forgot there is no judgement here.

What an amazing place to be!

Only minor squabbles amongst ourselves, so just like a real family! :laugh:

Glad you're back *home*...:hugs:

Arctic_Mama 11-26-2012 03:48 PM

I'm so sorry you lost your baby and uterus! My heart goes out to you, I can't imagine how frustrating and heartbreaking that was :(

Welcome back to the boards - we all needs breaks on occasion, some good, some bad, but LCF is consistently here for support when it's needed. If you need encouragement, kicks in the butt, or hugs, let us know!

Glamour P! 11-26-2012 03:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SoHappy (Post 16100896)
Only minor squabbles amongst ourselves, so just like a real family! :laugh:

Glad you're back *home*...:hugs:

:laugh: absolutely. You're right I'm back home. Already I'm looking forward to this journey so so much more. It doesn't feel as daunting now.

AmplifiedHeart 11-26-2012 03:51 PM

I'm sorry that your going through such a tough time right now. It seems like you are on the right path to recovery though. You reached out for help. Things will get better. *Sending hugs your way*

Glamour P! 11-26-2012 03:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Arctic_Mama (Post 16100904)
I'm so sorry you lost your baby and uterus! My heart goes out to you, I can't imagine how frustrating and heartbreaking that was :(

Welcome back to the boards - we all needs breaks on occasion, some good, some bad, but LCF is consistently here for support when it's needed. If you need encouragement, kicks in the butt, or hugs, let us know!

Arctic, we have had 5 miscarriages. We lost twins last year, and then another baby last summer, and we miscarried for the final time this year. With the meds and the emotional eating I just ballooned. I'm back and I really won't fail this time. Its gonna be pretty tough going, but I'll walk it, and not run. I feel stronger...and more 'willing' if that makes sense? I don't know that time heals all, but I do know that we can heal ourselves with the love and support from others. We can't always do it alone, no matter how much we may want to or try to.

Arctic_Mama 11-26-2012 04:07 PM

Your attitude is perfect, I agree completely. And five miscarriages would be terrible! I've had two, along with three live births and my current pregnancy, and that has been emotionally challenging. So many losses would probably drive me to emotional eating, too! After my last miscarriage in Oct 2011 I know I spent a week comfort eating and still don't feel guilty for it, I really needed a break from *everything* to process and grieve, and at that point it was the best response I could muster.

Big, big hugs :(

jhbyrd 11-26-2012 04:21 PM

Only been through one death of a child-8mths, hardest thing I even been through!! My heart goes out to you sending you many:hugs:!!! You are on the right path by coming here-no judgement and LOTS of support, as we all need it at times!! Good luck and take it easy you have been through a lot, give yourself time to heal both mentally and phycially!!MORE :hugs:!!!

LucilleMcgill 11-26-2012 04:46 PM

I'm so sorry for your losses. I've miscarried too and it can be devastating. Big hugs to you. Wishing you all the best for healing and happiness.

sfmom 11-26-2012 05:19 PM

I am sorry for the loss of your babies, I can't imagine the physical and emotional toll that has taken on you and your DH. We are here to support you every step of the way :hugs:

Audrey

princessmommy 11-26-2012 05:39 PM

Oh sweetie i'm So sorry for your loss. As a mama who's lost a baby it's the hardest thing i've ever gone through, then a hysterectomy on top of it my heart hurts so much for you.
We are All here for you!

Luca 11-26-2012 06:19 PM

I've been through something VERY similar-and I can tell you have the right attitude. "One day at a time" has been the motto that has gotten me thru some very dark days...:console:
We are here for you! :) You-we-can do this!

Trigger828 11-26-2012 07:59 PM

wow that is very rough time for you. sorry for your loss and your medical troubles. absolutely a hard time!

funny---I too have a vacation planned for May 2013. end of may. 14 days at a florida beach. that is my goal. almost the same as yours!!! we can and will do it!

sports_mom 11-27-2012 02:13 AM

I'm so sorry for your loss, but like others have said, your attitude is going to be your biggest asset. :console: You can do this! Have you decided which plan you're going to use?

baileygirl3 11-27-2012 07:58 AM

I am also sorry for your loss. I lost a baby many years ago and I know the pain you must feel. Good luck to you on your weight loss journey, I know you can do this.

Spark 11-27-2012 08:14 AM

Your inner strength is coming through. You are stronger than you know, I can feel it. You are going to do this sweetie. I can't wait to read about your happily ever after. (Hugs)

abby! 11-27-2012 09:04 AM

Gosh. So sorry. You WILL do this though. We are so here for you. :hugs:

Also please concentrate on healing and being good to you. Your body has been tough a lot and needs rest and healing.

mummy 11-27-2012 09:13 AM

Aw, so very sorry for all your losses. I'm glad you are here to get support but also consider seeking support outside of this forum too. I can't imagine how deep your wounds are right now.

May your perfect children be in the most beautiful place.

Hugs.

tina1973 11-27-2012 10:57 AM

I am so sorry for all you've been through. Big :console: to you.

I'm glad you're here. You can do this.

flatferenghi 11-27-2012 12:22 PM

sorry about the loss.
 
the vacation will be a great bad mood breaker. it is much better to begin a new plan when your spirits are soaring. Enjoy it! Love & Profits: FLATFERENGHI

TexasMommy 11-27-2012 12:35 PM

I am truly sorry for your losses. Having been through 3 miscarriages myself, I can understand some of what you are feeling. With my last miscarriage in November 2009, I was at goal weight until the loss of the baby at 12 weeks. After that, my hormones were so off that I gained back all of my lost weight. I'm glad you have came back here for support, and I wish you much success on your journey back to a good place - mentally and physically. :hugs:

Glamour P! 11-27-2012 12:53 PM

Friends... I'm tearing up...but for all the right reasons. Gosh this much support? Why did I ever wait so long to vome back. Thank you, from the bottom of my heart, Thank you, Thank you, Thank you.

zombiegoat2000 11-27-2012 08:31 PM

:hugs: Glad ur back, who says you cant go back home again!;)

Snoangel 11-28-2012 11:34 AM

SO sorry for your losses! My heart goes out to you. I'm glad you came back and we're all here to support you every step of the way! :console:


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