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Old 09-22-2007, 07:20 PM   #571
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When I see those kinds of posts, you know what I'm thinking about as I'm snickering? I'm thinking about when I had lost 150 pounds and was a very active poster in the main lobby here. My weight had stalled out about 30 pounds from goal and I posted up asking for help. I'm remembering how Miss Pants on Fire lambasted me and called me a liar about how much freakin cream I put in my coffee! I'm thinking about how she took over my safe haven and place of support and turned it into her own personal liar's den where she ridiculed and attacked others at every turn. I'm thinking about how she ruined the whole main lobby and took away all my support and how I felt like I had no place to go when the pounds started creeping back on. I'm thinking about all the multitudes of people who she made to feel "less" than in order to build herself up over the last many years. There is no longer record of just how nasty she could get here on the ML because it would get so bad that those threads would end up getting deleted by admins.
Oh, YEAH!!!

Remember the post titled (ironically) 'We the undersigned'? It was a great post by someone who suggested that no matter what plan we were on, we would agree to support each other in their efforts. Many, many folks replied to the thread and agreed it was a great idea. Somewhere along the line, you-know-who replied 'Sounds great, if you live in Stepford'.

Stepford? For allowing others to think and feel for themselves and make up their own mind? Well, the comment from you-know-who set off a firestorm of responses, and in the end, the thread was deleted and not only that, several knowledgeable, kind posters were fed up and left LCF. Many for good.

I've said it before, but the best thing to happen to LCF was when the Ask Kimmer thread was moved out of the ML. You-know-who threw a hissy fit and left not long after.
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Old 09-22-2007, 07:26 PM   #572
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Seem like I have a silencing effect piekins hehe. Also I'd like to add that I didn't see a single fat joke in any of those pics. Just because a person uses a picture of heidi in a joke picture does not make it a fat joke. The dominoes picture was perfectly acceptable because it dealt with a key point of her fake diet.

Also to expand on what Diva said, Heidi was mean, really mean to fat people, it stands to reason her karma would be having people say mean things about her. It's the give and take of the world.

And I meant to disrespect to any poster with my thoughts. But again for us to say who can and can't say what on this site makes us no better than heidi. Just a thought.

Missi, glad you're back. You know we all love you here.
As for the pics, people have the right to express themselves however they wish. They were hilarious and I have nothing against anyone who created them, laughed at them, or enjoyed them. My intent was not to come across as "holier than thou" because I certainly can't claim it.

I am so sorry that you felt like you needed to stay away. Just remember, sick as she is, Heidi knows exactly how to cut to the quick - don't be suckered in by it again. We missed you!!!!!!
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Old 09-22-2007, 07:27 PM   #573
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No who? (that was to elloise for her repeated you know who lines hehehe)

I just think it's hilarious that they have the PR director developing the maint plan. If they want someone who actually HAS maintained without admitted fasting (she's not on maintn) then why not get someone who actually can do it???? Taking diet tips from those people is like asking Paris Hiltons mom for parenting tips. Sheesh

Thank you Amad! I appreciate it.

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Old 09-22-2007, 07:28 PM   #574
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Ok that just made me see that post in a whole new light. I could have read "Hey you two when you are done updating your journal can you please go and write a review on the bbb site? Thanks"
Perfect!!!

I'm sure that once that post makes the rounds to all the low carb sites, for every one KK member who posts on BBB, there will be 10 more who post against it.
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Old 09-22-2007, 07:31 PM   #575
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Oh, YEAH!!!

Remember the post titled (ironically) 'We the undersigned'? It was a great post by someone who suggested that no matter what plan we were on, we would agree to support each other in their efforts. Many, many folks replied to the threat and agreed it was a great idea. Somewhere along the line, you-know-who replied 'Sounds great, if you live in Stepford'.

Stepford? For allowing others to think and feel for themselves and make up their own mind? Well, the comment from you-know-who set off a firestorm of responses, and in the end, the thread was deleted and not only that, several knowledgeable, kind posters were fed up and left LCF. Many for good.

I've said it before, but the best thing to happen to LCF was when the Ask Kimmer thread was moved out of the ML. You-know-who threw a hissy fit and left not long after.
i remember that thread...it was spring of 2006.

i didn't realize people left lcf over it though.
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Old 09-22-2007, 07:33 PM   #576
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Shouldn't that say irregardless?
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Old 09-22-2007, 07:33 PM   #578
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So I wonder now that faith has left there will she change her bbb post? I still wonder if folks who left after a positive review edited their reviews to negative???
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I'm thinking she is going to come back here and say that she was just working UNDERCOVER to get the Kimkins site to be less dangerous and more healthy, and she had to make Heidi THINK she was on her side so that she could make these changes, but actually she was NEVER working to further Kimmer's objectives and site and was really doing her best to get members to do less Kimkins and more of other plans so they would eat more and not starve, etc. because ....well, whatever.
I know I wouldn't believe that simply because she is going out of her way to try and interfere with peoples paypal/legal disputes by doing that pathetic excuse of an ebook etc

Theres no reason to do that ebook other then to cover someones not very nice bottom!.
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This was just posted on Kimkins by SingingLass:

Hi Everyone,

As some of you may know and remember, opposing sites for the last couple of weeks have been linking to, and giving people instructions to leave negative reviews for kimkins on the BBB site. The result is, that many people who have never even tried this diet, or purchased a membership, are leaving reviews parroting a list of things to say....regardless if they are true ( such as saying we promote starvation, laxative abuse etc...).

Many of you posted your own positive reveiws at the start of this tactic, and that was very kind, and much appreciated. However, the situation is still on-going due to those other sites once more prompting people to attack us/ this community in that way. We do not like having to make a public request of this sort, but in light of the situation....the only way to combat what they are doing is to continue to leave reviews of our own. So, if through this WOE and online community you have had positive experiences in your life, health, weight loss...or even just have made good friends here and would like to put a good word in to try to balance things out......please visit the below link to leave a review. Please note that the default rating is three stars, so you have to click/ change that to leave a different rating ( I saw some previous very nice and positive comments left by members who maybe did not realize they had to change that default setting).
Did anyone report this too BBB? they are not allowed to solicit reviews.
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Old 09-22-2007, 07:42 PM   #581
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I know I wouldn't believe that simply because she is going out of her way to try and interfere with peoples paypal/legal disputes by doing that pathetic excuse of an ebook etc

Theres no reason to do that ebook other then to cover someones not very nice bottom!.


Wouldn't you love to hear the conversation. "Um hey since we are gonna get sued for that I'm gonna go ahead and write the ebook then they have nothing to sue us for. Oh and btw, I'm gonna tweak the diet until it's Atkins so we can't get sued for it being dangerous."
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No who? (that was to elloise for her repeated you know who lines hehehe)
I couldn't help it. I just re-read all seven Harry Potter books and He Who Must Not Be Named is stuck in my mind.
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My bad....I missread
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Missi any thoughts I had of her possible sincerity totally flew out the window when she did that ebook.
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I don't understand - so now we are finding out that it seems that ALL of the admins at Kimkins who were SUCCESSFUL at losing, "cycled" on and off of Kimkins, with "refeeds" or "fat fasts" or "Atkins Induction" instead of doing just K/E or straight Kimkins. Why isn't that part of the plan then? I was stalled for WEEKS on Kimkins, exercising my butt off, eating next to nothing and getting nowhere, and it turns out that what I needed to do to break my stall was to STOP DOING KIMKINS - huh? Tippy Toes - why are you still there and defending Kimmer? I don't get it. You've seen the facts, you know she is a fraud. If you think you are helping people by staying "on the inside" to "help" the members, you aren't. You're just propping up a "diet" plan that doesn't work, and doesn't tell people the truth about what they need to do to lose weight unless we come somewhere like here and discover the truth.
I think I understand how you feel. I didn't realize that all of the admins there have done the cycling thing. Interesting. If that was the case there really should have been honesty about it.

The reality is that Kimkins plans do work for a lot of people, but not everybody, and not all the time. Same goes for Atkins and just about any other plan out there. All weight loss plans carry risks, can cause thyroid problems, can stall out after a while, and can be abused or misunderstood. To this day I often hear people refer to Atkins as a no carb diet, or think that 20 grams carbs is the limit for everyone through the whole thing.

I've tried just about every plan on the planet now, and Atkins and Kimkins have been the only ones that worked. Atkins does not work for weight loss for me now, so that leaves Kimkins, which i do when I feel like taking off a few more pounds. I still have 65 pounds to lose and I'm so glad I have Kimkins diet to take that weight off.

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This was just posted on Kimkins by SingingLass:

Hi Everyone,

As some of you may know and remember, opposing sites for the last couple of weeks have been linking to, and giving people instructions to leave negative reviews for kimkins on the BBB site. The result is, that many people who have never even tried this diet, or purchased a membership, are leaving reviews parroting a list of things to say....regardless if they are true ( such as saying we promote starvation, laxative abuse etc...).

Many of you posted your own positive reveiws at the start of this tactic, and that was very kind, and much appreciated. However, the situation is still on-going due to those other sites once more prompting people to attack us/ this community in that way. We do not like having to make a public request of this sort, but in light of the situation....the only way to combat what they are doing is to continue to leave reviews of our own. So, if through this WOE and online community you have had positive experiences in your life, health, weight loss...or even just have made good friends here and would like to put a good word in to try to balance things out......please visit the below link to leave a review. Please note that the default rating is three stars, so you have to click/ change that to leave a different rating ( I saw some previous very nice and positive comments left by members who maybe did not realize they had to change that default setting).
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Did anyone report this too BBB? they are not allowed to solicit reviews.
Also wanted to add that it would be a good idea if someone took a screen shot and forwarded it to the BBB.
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Also wanted to add that it would be a good idea if someone took a screen shot and forwarded it to the BBB.
Oh, I'm SURE I'm not the only one who has contacted them!!!
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She’s duped a lot of people out of money, and so far, she hasn‘t been stopped. It’s frustrating, and it’s sad. I work hard every day, and while 60.00 isn’t a lot of money to me, it can be a lot of money to a lot of people, and she’s apparently felt no guilt about taking it.
This has nothing to do with the pictures here. I just wanted to reply after reading the above quote.
I would still be as mad as I am right now if it had cost me 10 cents to join that site instead of the $60 because she doesn't deserve not even a dime from me or anyone. She didn't earn it, she stole it. I paid that money in exchange for what was supposed to be a healthy diet plan where you could lose weight faster than on other plans. She knew what she was doing. She knows what someone who needs to lose weight wants and she played every damn angle of it with fake pictures, fake information, fake stories, and fake promises. And when it appeared I was no longer playing the game according to her rules she threw me out like yesterday's garbage. I was a suspected problem. I didn't even need to do anything wrong. All she needed was the suspicion that I could cause trouble and I was gone but my money was allowed to stay. According to her emails to others banned, they got what they paid for ... it's electronic media. Pfft. BS! Not one person who joined that site got what they paid for. Not even the ones who think they did.
She now stocks the place with administrators who view people the same way she does. No matter how many sweetly said sentiments they deliver they are still willing to go along with the plot, get rid of anyone who may dare to speak out, and clean it all up for Heidi. Does that sound like people concerned for the members? It sure doesn't to me.
My long, thick curly hair is falling out. I'm not the only one. What do they say over there? Oh, I doubt anyone's hair is falling out in "clumps" and they blow it off like it's no big deal. I mean, really ... does it truly matter to them if it's not happening to them? And here I am taking a ton of supplements, paying over $100 for special shampoos and scalp treatments and adjusting wide scarf/headbands around the top of my hair because I'm embarrassed of how thin it is.
Then there are the people who I encouraged to join. I can't even adequately express how awful/guilty/ashamed I feel about that. I feel responsible for them losing their $, and possibly their health. It sickens me to even think about it.
She had the nerve to mockingly talk with Singinglass about how she would accidentally ban me. There was no concern for my welfare, my emotions, my rights, or even my innocence. I was nothing more than someone who had already handed over my money and so was now dispensable.
Like I said before, she doesn't deserve a dime of my money. Hell, she doesn't deserve a penny.
And that's just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to how I feel about Kimkins/Kimmer/Heidi Diaz, and her ever-faithful, current "staff."
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This has nothing to do with the pictures here. I just wanted to reply after reading the above quote.
I would still be as mad as I am right now if it had cost me 10 cents to join that site instead of the $60 because she doesn't deserve not even a dime from me or anyone. She didn't earn it, she stole it. I paid that money in exchange for what was supposed to be a healthy diet plan where you could lose weight faster than on other plans. She knew what she was doing. She knows what someone who needs to lose weight wants and she played every damn angle of it with fake pictures, fake information, fake stories, and fake promises. And when it appeared I was no longer playing the game according to her rules she threw me out like yesterday's garbage. I was a suspected problem. I didn't even need to do anything wrong. All she needed was the suspicion that I could cause trouble and I was gone but my money was allowed to stay. According to her emails to others banned, they got what they paid for ... it's electronic media. Pfft. BS! Not one person who joined that site got what they paid for. Not even the ones who think they did.
She now stocks the place with administrators who view people the same way she does. No matter how many sweetly said sentiments they deliver they are still willing to go along with the plot, get rid of anyone who may dare to speak out, and clean it all up for Heidi. Does that sound like people concerned for the members? It sure doesn't to me.
My long, thick curly hair is falling out. I'm not the only one. What do they say over there? Oh, I doubt anyone's hair is falling out in "clumps" and they blow it off like it's no big deal. I mean, really ... does it truly matter to them if it's not happening to them? And here I am taking a ton of supplements, paying over $100 for special shampoos and scalp treatments and adjusting wide scarf/headbands around the top of my hair because I'm embarrassed of how thin it is.
Then there are the people who I encouraged to join. I can't even adequately express how awful/guilty/ashamed I feel about that. I feel responsible for them losing their $, and possibly their health. It sickens me to even think about it.
She had the nerve to mockingly talk with Singinglass about how she would accidentally ban me. There was no concern for my welfare, my emotions, my rights, or even my innocence. I was nothing more than someone who had already handed over my money and so was now dispensable.
Like I said before, she doesn't deserve a dime of my money. Hell, she doesn't deserve a penny.
And that's just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to how I feel about Kimkins/Kimmer/Heidi Diaz, and her ever-faithful, current "staff."
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Oh, I'm SURE I'm not the only one who has contacted them!!!
Glad you did that. I can't figure out how to do a screen shot. Any suggestioins/directions out there?

Been reading all the discussion about the jokes. Seems to me that posting pictures of Heidi/Kimmer and pointing out the irony/lies, etc is NOT making fun of her, Or anyone else's, size or shape. It is simply pointing out the inconsistencies in a humorous manner. Other comments that get mean aren't helpful, but understandable since she has been so mean to so many people and there are hurt feelings. This should be a place where people can voice their frustrations within reason. My .02.

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This has nothing to do with the pictures here. I just wanted to reply after reading the above quote.
I would still be as mad as I am right now if it had cost me 10 cents to join that site instead of the $60 because she doesn't deserve not even a dime from me or anyone. She didn't earn it, she stole it. I paid that money in exchange for what was supposed to be a healthy diet plan where you could lose weight faster than on other plans. She knew what she was doing. She knows what someone who needs to lose weight wants and she played every damn angle of it with fake pictures, fake information, fake stories, and fake promises. And when it appeared I was no longer playing the game according to her rules she threw me out like yesterday's garbage. I was a suspected problem. I didn't even need to do anything wrong. All she needed was the suspicion that I could cause trouble and I was gone but my money was allowed to stay. According to her emails to others banned, they got what they paid for ... it's electronic media. Pfft. BS! Not one person who joined that site got what they paid for. Not even the ones who think they did.
She now stocks the place with administrators who view people the same way she does. No matter how many sweetly said sentiments they deliver they are still willing to go along with the plot, get rid of anyone who may dare to speak out, and clean it all up for Heidi. Does that sound like people concerned for the members? It sure doesn't to me.
My long, thick curly hair is falling out. I'm not the only one. What do they say over there? Oh, I doubt anyone's hair is falling out in "clumps" and they blow it off like it's no big deal. I mean, really ... does it truly matter to them if it's not happening to them? And here I am taking a ton of supplements, paying over $100 for special shampoos and scalp treatments and adjusting wide scarf/headbands around the top of my hair because I'm embarrassed of how thin it is.
Then there are the people who I encouraged to join. I can't even adequately express how awful/guilty/ashamed I feel about that. I feel responsible for them losing their $, and possibly their health. I