Who (besides me) Stopped Wearing Dresses When They Got Fat?

[hot-in-texas]

Originally Posted by JayLynn

I don't like the look of my legs either, but they're looking better all the time. Maybe I can wear some shorts or capris this spring...summer! And a dress? Wow, i can only dream..... I would love to wear a cute little summer dress...sleeveless and fitted. I got some pounds and toning to do for that one!

those are great goals! They're mine too Also, want to wear shorts so badly.

[PassionateFire]

Originally Posted by Librarygirl

I like the tip about boxer shorts, but they would have to have a very flat waist band to not add extra poundage, lol, like I need that!

A little invisible antiperspirant on the inside of the thighs works wonders & no worries about extra waist bands!

[Librarygirl]

Originally Posted by Flutter

What is this thing you call a dress?

[adillenal]

Originally Posted by deedee

Having never been "thin" in my life, I've always wondered, do thin girls not have the thigh rub? Even at my lowest weight where I was a size 8, I still had this problem. Bike shorts or corn starch were my solution but it could be killer in the summer heat.

I have never had thigh rub although I have just lost 38 pounds. Was thin most of life and my thighs never even touched so no rub. Other body types might be a different story.

[JayLynn]

You are lucky, Adi. I think most of us have experienced the dreaded thigh rub at some point while being too big. I've lost a lot of weight and the rub isn't so bad anymore. Now I just want shapelier legs. I used to hate my ankles but they're almost normal now! lol

[sorenkkg]

A dressmaker told me a long time ago-- get the bigger size, so that you can alter it down to fit you. So, wherever there's doubt, that's what I do now...

Cindy-- I know that LB sells stuff from both kiyonna and igigi, but they have their own sites too, and on those sites (at least at igigi, I think) you can have a wish list, so that if something is out of stock in your size, you'll get an email if/when they bring it back. And they do!
The dress I"m wearing in my avi <--------- was sold out right away, and I did the above, and got an email, and totally snapped it up.

as for a certain style, not sure what help I can be there, I just keep checking the sites, and I get their email so I'm up to date on what they have and what I might like... this might've led to me having SO MANY DRESSES... there's a blue paisely one I'm dying for now...

S.

eta: fwiw, igigi runs a bit big, and kiyonna is right on, for sizing.

[Librarygirl]

I'm going to try finding it directly at kiyonna. I tried to post a picture of the dress, but couldn't.

[Alison]

Originally Posted by Librarygirl

Well, then I'm not the only one! Went to bed kind of early after posting this last night, so just seeing your replies. I guess I really notice it at my work because I am the only female that never wears dresses. I love feminine clothes and am excited about being able to buy dresses (one day) again. I like the tip about boxer shorts, but they would have to have a very flat waist band to not add extra poundage, lol, like I need that!

Carly, I would like to see your picture with DW. Haha, at cradle robber. I guess I am too as bf is 32.

Usually the fitted boxer briefs have a thinner and non-gathered waistband. I prefer those but I'll wear regular boxers of his in a pinch AND if the dress is looser around the midsection.

[Librarygirl]

Originally Posted by sorenkkg

A dressmaker told me a long time ago-- get the bigger size, so that you can alter it down to fit you. So, wherever there's doubt, that's what I do now...

Cindy-- I know that LB sells stuff from both kiyonna and igigi, but they have their own sites too, and on those sites (at least at igigi, I think) you can have a wish list, so that if something is out of stock in your size, you'll get an email if/when they bring it back. And they do!
The dress I"m wearing in my avi <--------- was sold out right away, and I did the above, and got an email, and totally snapped it up.

as for a certain style, not sure what help I can be there, I just keep checking the sites, and I get their email so I'm up to date on what they have and what I might like... this might've led to me having SO MANY DRESSES... there's a blue paisely one I'm dying for now...

S.

eta: fwiw, igigi runs a bit big, and kiyonna is right on, for sizing.

Turns out it is a LB dress, but came up with the kiyonna brand. Since it is a sweater dress it's not likely to be available again this year. I hope I won't need to shop at LB next fall!

[vanilla_latte]

Dress. Dress. D-r-e-s-s. D-u-r-e-s-s? I think I used to wear those things but they caused me duress, so it's been ages since I've worn one.

... wait ... My DH would love to see me in one ...

[Librarygirl]

Originally Posted by deedee

Having never been "thin" in my life, I've always wondered, do thin girls not have the thigh rub? Even at my lowest weight where I was a size 8, I still had this problem. Bike shorts or corn starch were my solution but it could be killer in the summer heat.

I'll never forget the last time I wore a dress to work (in the summer). I had such a terrible case of rash on my thighs I had to take a huge dose of benedryl when I got home and go straight to bed!

[mamadodge]

I used to wear dresses and skirts all the time. I have pretty muscular legs, and they were always more comfortable than pants. NOW, I don't wear them at all, and really miss them! I am HOPING to be able to wear them again.


Just and FYI, Wal-mart has this stuff and it is FANTASTIC to avoid chafing!!!!

[Librarygirl]

I have that now, Jenn, LOL, and guess what? It also doubles as a foundation primer!!! Gives your face the smoothest feel and finish! Who knew?!

[mamadodge]

Originally Posted by Librarygirl

I have that now, Jenn, LOL, and guess what? It also doubles as a foundation primer!!! Gives your face the smoothest feel and finish! Who knew?!

Oh how cool!!!! Thanks for that lil tidbit!!!

[Librarygirl]

If you google it, you will see all kinds of testimonials. It has the same ingredients as high dollar primers. I tried it and it does work very nicely.

[Carlye]

I haven't really worn many dresses over the past (gulp) 18 years, except for the odd wedding, but lately I've been buying heaps of dresses. And even though they are fitting me, I'm still scared to wear them. If I wear a dress ppl make such a big deal about me not wearing pants, and I hate drawing attn to myself!

[Librarygirl]

I know what you mean Carlye. If I show up in a dress, it will start a riot.

[KeirasMom]

Originally Posted by Librarygirl

I have that now, Jenn, LOL, and guess what? It also doubles as a foundation primer!!! Gives your face the smoothest feel and finish! Who knew?!

I also bought this just for the primer aspect. It's great. Thankfully, I've never had to deal with the thigh rub thing. That may only be because I almost always wear pants.

[Librarygirl]

You probably just have thinner legs, Dawn. I've always had bigger thighs and hips, even when not overweight.

[calichris]

I really couldn't find a dress that looked good at all at my highest weight, so I would avoid wearing one at all costs! Now, I'm finding some that I think look good, but I am still not wearing one unless it's a wedding or something. I see more dresses in my future as I lose, and I'm really looking forward to it. Ultimate: I dream of being able to wear a sleeveless summer dress!

[jacci48]

I havent worn a dress or a skirt for about 9 years...I cannot wait to look good in one again!! I used to love wearing dresses...hopefully in the summer!!

[WantToBeSlim]

Meeee! I am pretty much stuck in leggings because they stretch nicely.

Originally Posted by Librarygirl

not to mention the thigh-rubbing factor. I know I could wear spanx or panty hose, but all that stuff is extremely uncomfortable when you're obese.

I remember when I was slim I still got some sores on the upper inner thighs, it seems no matter what weight I am the very top part of my thighs (just below the lady parts) rub together . I sometimes would wear slimming shorts under a skirt but when I walked I could hear a swiping sound and I worried others would know what I was wearing underneath and more so that my thighs rubbed together!

Originally Posted by Librarygirl

I am so looking forward to rocking some summer "frocks"!!

Oh me too me too! I am already on the hunt for a maxi dress. I have wanted to wear one for years but I'm a bit too early... all shops have right now is autumn winter stuff, bring on the spring and summer clothes.

[Librarygirl]

Since I posted this thread I've become a bit obsessed with dresses! I found this wonderful company that makes the most gorgeous dresses, in ALL sizes, that look as if they would be perfect for plus sizes or curvy women. They range in price from $$ to $, some less than 50.00 and the look is quality. If you want to drool, check out Modcloth.

[mamadodge]

Originally Posted by jacci48

I havent worn a dress or a skirt for about 9 years...I cannot wait to look good in one again!! I used to love wearing dresses...hopefully in the summer!!

Agree 100000000%!!!

[Carly]

Originally Posted by Librarygirl

Since I posted this thread I've become a bit obsessed with dresses! I found this wonderful company that makes the most gorgeous dresses, in ALL sizes, that look as if they would be perfect for plus sizes or curvy women. They range in price from $$ to $, some less than 50.00 and the look is quality. If you want to drool, check out Modcloth.

I ordered 2 cute tops. I got medium, but sizes are a real guess for me at this time. They said both blouse run true to size so we shall see.

[casmira]

Originally Posted by hot-in-texas

I haven't worn a dress, skirt or pair of shorts in years. This is the main reason I'm losing. I need to figure out an exercise routine though, for toning.

I know a lot of people aren't crazy about her, but I find the Tracy Anderson DVDs are pretty amazing for toning.

[LadyKT]

I wear a LOT of dresses/skirts (see my avi!) but it's because i'm in between sizes! The size 10 dress pants are big on me and the 8s are like stuffed sausage. Ick.

Hopefully i'll be a loose size 8 by the time I finish this silly challenge at the gym (starts 2/11)!

[ishy]

I would love to wear a dress but feel to shy now that I've gained weight I am really working hard to get it off though so hopefully this summer I'll wear them

[sterlinggirl]

Ive not wore a dress since my wedding 11 years ago.. and dont plan to wear one any time soon! I bought a goal dress that i will NEVER EVER wear! IT very sexy red and black BUT it has no sleeves,, and since ive lost my arms which kept me from wearing short sleeve shirts in the past are WORST than before!!1 My dream of tank tops has been shattered.. But i look at it this way.. I have lost weight and look better in my three quarter legnth sleeves now!

[hot-in-texas]

Originally Posted by Librarygirl

Since I posted this thread I've become a bit obsessed with dresses! I found this wonderful company that makes the most gorgeous dresses, in ALL sizes, that look as if they would be perfect for plus sizes or curvy women. They range in price from $$ to $, some less than 50.00 and the look is quality. If you want to drool, check out Modcloth.

They were cute! I want the Landscape, Good to Go, Cutie Doodle, Make a Wisteria and Fireworks of Art. Thanks for the suggestion! Their website is going to be great motivation for me.