I think im going to be sick!

OurLuvsFromAbove · 09-13-2007, 03:48 PM

Ugh I think this is just a little vent..
Im happily married with a kid but still blahhhh....
Im at work and a few of us girls were showing eachother our "ugly" exes on myspace..
anyway this one girl went first blah blah, the other girl went blah.. then I told the girl to type in my exes name to see if he has a page.. and OMG I use to always be the skinny one, when I was with him I had a 6pack and was skinny! and he was like pushing 300lbs and like 5'10. Well anyway I saw his new pictures in his myspace and hes like 160lbs! I threwup in my mouth! Theres a bad chance that I am going to run into him the end of this month at a night club we were both regulars at (they are having a classics party) and it happens to be 2 of my close friends bdays and so i have to go (they both came to mine and we already have tickets)
There is no way in hell He can see me, and i'm not as hot as I use to be! I'm only 18lbs more then I was when we were dating, I wonder if its possible to atleast lose 10lbs by the end of the month if i'm really strict? the party is the 29th.
I know this is tmi, but im so nervous my stomach is in knots, and I feel the squirts comming on

any imput?

XOXO
Kerry

Mrs.Johnson · 09-13-2007, 04:12 PM

being happily married, having a child and only being up 18 lbs since that time are Great Great things, Give your self a big pat on the back .... seriously... you've shown great determination and success with your life you should be very proud!

if you could try to be happy for him, Maybe he'll be happy for you too... stranger things have happened...

cut your self a little slack

You Look Beautiful!

SwitzBride · 09-13-2007, 04:28 PM

...and who says his MySpace pic is really current anyways??

Be brave, be Bold - And show off that wedding ring!! And baby too...

Smile like you're the happiest thing on earth and KNOW he'll always regret he ever let you go! :P

LadyJulieAnn · 09-13-2007, 05:21 PM

He's an "ex" and you have moved on in your life. Why work yourself up over the past and how he would view you now?

~*Christy*~ · 09-13-2007, 05:48 PM

You are gorgeous! I wouldnt worry about being 18 pounds heavier since you last saw him.

fourbeaglesmom · 09-13-2007, 07:25 PM

Girl, you have so much to be proud of. If you squirt anything, let it be bleach on his pants (accidentally of course). Hugs to you!

angelo212 · 09-14-2007, 09:52 PM

He's an ex and your gorgeous. Who cares.

Debralynn · 09-15-2007, 01:04 AM

Treat yourself to a new outfit, and go out there as proud and confident as you can be. You look great, nothing can beat that!

CRosie · 09-15-2007, 08:51 AM

If I were you, I would try reading some of the other posts here on this board for perspective.

It might help you feel a lot better about your situation.

Best wishes, Rosie

09-13-2007, 03:48 PM	#1
OurLuvsFromAbove Very Gabby LCF Member!!! Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Brooklyn Ny Posts: 3,168 Blog Entries: 4 Gallery: OurLuvsFromAbove Stats: 182/148/125 (restart) use to be 227) WOE: Low Carb and Eggcreaming it up! Start Date: Restart March 2008	I think im going to be sick! Ugh I think this is just a little vent.. Im happily married with a kid but still blahhhh.... Im at work and a few of us girls were showing eachother our "ugly" exes on myspace.. anyway this one girl went first blah blah, the other girl went blah.. then I told the girl to type in my exes name to see if he has a page.. and OMG I use to always be the skinny one, when I was with him I had a 6pack and was skinny! and he was like pushing 300lbs and like 5'10. Well anyway I saw his new pictures in his myspace and hes like 160lbs! I threwup in my mouth! Theres a bad chance that I am going to run into him the end of this month at a night club we were both regulars at (they are having a classics party) and it happens to be 2 of my close friends bdays and so i have to go (they both came to mine and we already have tickets) There is no way in hell He can see me, and i'm not as hot as I use to be! I'm only 18lbs more then I was when we were dating, I wonder if its possible to atleast lose 10lbs by the end of the month if i'm really strict? the party is the 29th. I know this is tmi, but im so nervous my stomach is in knots, and I feel the squirts comming on any imput? XOXO Kerry

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09-13-2007, 04:12 PM	#2
Mrs.Johnson Senior LCF Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Western Canada Posts: 678 Gallery: Mrs.Johnson Stats: 210/185/125 WOE: Atkins & Exercise Start Date: restart - Aug 5 07	being happily married, having a child and only being up 18 lbs since that time are Great Great things, Give your self a big pat on the back .... seriously... you've shown great determination and success with your life you should be very proud! if you could try to be happy for him, Maybe he'll be happy for you too... stranger things have happened... cut your self a little slack You Look Beautiful!

09-13-2007, 04:28 PM	#3
SwitzBride Senior LCF Member Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: Wisconsin Posts: 308 Gallery: SwitzBride Stats: 205.5/?/145 WOE: Atkins Start Date: Original achievements 207/173.0	...and who says his MySpace pic is really current anyways?? Be brave, be Bold - And show off that wedding ring!! And baby too... Smile like you're the happiest thing on earth and KNOW he'll always regret he ever let you go! :P

09-13-2007, 05:21 PM	#4
LadyJulieAnn Senior LCF Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Richmond, VA Posts: 424 Gallery: LadyJulieAnn Stats: 265/not where I was before/150 WOE: lower carb, whole foods Start Date: re-focusing	He's an "ex" and you have moved on in your life. Why work yourself up over the past and how he would view you now?

09-13-2007, 05:48 PM	#5
~Christy~ Senior LCF Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Tuscaloosa, Alabama-Roll Tide Roll! Posts: 457 Gallery: ~Christy~ Stats: 24012-12-07/240/160 5'7" WOE: Atkins Induction Start Date: Ive restarted too many times to count	You are gorgeous! I wouldnt worry about being 18 pounds heavier since you last saw him.

09-13-2007, 07:25 PM	#6
fourbeaglesmom Senior LCF Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Calgary, Alberta, Canada Posts: 302 Gallery: fourbeaglesmom Stats: 193/180/140 WOE: Atkins NDR 2002 Start Date: Restarted November 15/07	Girl, you have so much to be proud of. If you squirt anything, let it be bleach on his pants (accidentally of course). Hugs to you!

09-14-2007, 09:52 PM	#7
angelo212 Junior LCF Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: New Jersey Posts: 30 Gallery: angelo212	He's an ex and your gorgeous. Who cares.

09-15-2007, 01:04 AM	#8
Debralynn MAJOR LCF POSTER! Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: AZ Posts: 1,698 Gallery: Debralynn Stats: 222/147/135 WOE: Atkins, chasing after my 2 and 4 year old boys! Start Date: (1997, 2002, 2005) re-start June 1, 2007	Treat yourself to a new outfit, and go out there as proud and confident as you can be. You look great, nothing can beat that!

09-15-2007, 08:51 AM	#9
CRosie Senior LCF Member Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 770 Gallery: CRosie Stats: 266/186/150 WOE: my own low carb/sometimes lowfat plan Start Date: May 21, 2007	If I were you, I would try reading some of the other posts here on this board for perspective. It might help you feel a lot better about your situation. Best wishes, Rosie