this might be a bit TMI

nina_2021 · 01-22-2007, 08:14 PM

Ok so ive lost quite a bit of weight in the last year. in that time ive made some new friends and one of them is a guy that i find good looking. in fact all the women i know think hes hot. ive never seen him go after a women they always go after him. this past weekend he propositioned me. all of my girlfriends think i should pursue this and that i should be flattered that hes interested in me.
now ive gone from a large 20 to a 14. i have a belly-rolls which i am having a hard time getting rid of. i can hide them well and i look good right now better than i have in a long time. in any case this guy didnt know me when i was bigger. in any case the only thing stopping me from getting together with him is the fact that my body is-in my opinion-terrible right now.
this is so pathetic but i had to get it out and talk with people that i know might understand. i know that worrying about this is crazy but such is life.

statelady-polly · 01-22-2007, 08:18 PM

go for it!

xfatchik · 01-22-2007, 09:59 PM

Go for it!!!

If he propositioned you then he is definitely interested and likes you the way you are!

cristikarina1 · 01-22-2007, 10:04 PM

Nina: You don't have to be skinny to be beautiful…
He obviously knows and sees you are not a size 2... and yet he accepts and admires your luxurious curves and is attracted to you, to YOU. If he wasn't attracted to you, your beautiful face, your sexy hips, your self-confidence, he wouldn't have asked you out in the first place... but he IS attracted to you. He knows what he's getting in to...

Do you know what IS SEXY for a man??

SELF-CONFIDENCE.. IN AND OUT of the bedroom.

Think about it.

So don't hide yourself, even if you are shy and are thinking negative thoughts, because he's not thinking what you are thinking! He's too busy enjoying time with you.

Sharon1 · 01-22-2007, 10:26 PM

Go for it! And be the envy of every woman you know.

If he's a jerk about something associated with your body, he's not worth your time anyway!

lovinlee · 01-22-2007, 10:50 PM

maybe it's just me.....but if a bloke is confident, it doesn't matter that he's not hot. women will still be attracted to him.

and i think it works both ways

look at the bodies on the beach in summer. some girls have big butts and bellies but they are strutting their stuff in bikinis with lovely tans and in my opinion look better than some skinny girl that keeps trying to cover herself cause she's self conscious about what people think.

if you get out there with a big smile and a big laugh no one really cares if you have a big dress size (and at size 14 i bet you aren't the biggest girl in the room anymore!)

t'ann · 01-22-2007, 11:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cristikarina1

Nina: You don't have to be skinny to be beautiful…
He obviously knows and sees you are not a size 2... and yet he accepts and admires your luxurious curves and is attracted to you, to YOU. If he wasn't attracted to you, your beautiful face, your sexy hips, your self-confidence, he wouldn't have asked you out in the first place... but he IS attracted to you. He knows what he's getting in to...

Do you know what IS SEXY for a man??

SELF-CONFIDENCE.. IN AND OUT of the bedroom.

Think about it.

So don't hide yourself, even if you are shy and are thinking negative thoughts, because he's not thinking what you are thinking! He's too busy enjoying time with you.

I more than second these thoughts. He is asking you, not the size 2 around the corner. He knows what he's looking at. I say show him what it's all about girl.

Ntombi · 01-23-2007, 12:43 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cristikarina1

Nina: You don't have to be skinny to be beautiful…
He obviously knows and sees you are not a size 2... and yet he accepts and admires your luxurious curves and is attracted to you, to YOU. If he wasn't attracted to you, your beautiful face, your sexy hips, your self-confidence, he wouldn't have asked you out in the first place... but he IS attracted to you. He knows what he's getting in to...

Do you know what IS SEXY for a man??

SELF-CONFIDENCE.. IN AND OUT of the bedroom.

Think about it.

So don't hide yourself, even if you are shy and are thinking negative thoughts, because he's not thinking what you are thinking! He's too busy enjoying time with you.

I LOVE LOVE LOVE this post!

Go for it!

01-22-2007, 08:14 PM	#1
nina_2021 MAJOR LCF POSTER! Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Upstate New York Posts: 1,007 Gallery: nina_2021 Stats: 18-20plus-size/14-misses/10 WOE: low carb Start Date: 2/20/2006	this might be a bit TMI Ok so ive lost quite a bit of weight in the last year. in that time ive made some new friends and one of them is a guy that i find good looking. in fact all the women i know think hes hot. ive never seen him go after a women they always go after him. this past weekend he propositioned me. all of my girlfriends think i should pursue this and that i should be flattered that hes interested in me. now ive gone from a large 20 to a 14. i have a belly-rolls which i am having a hard time getting rid of. i can hide them well and i look good right now better than i have in a long time. in any case this guy didnt know me when i was bigger. in any case the only thing stopping me from getting together with him is the fact that my body is-in my opinion-terrible right now. this is so pathetic but i had to get it out and talk with people that i know might understand. i know that worrying about this is crazy but such is life.

01-22-2007, 10:04 PM	#4
cristikarina1 Senior LCF Member Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Yakima, WA Posts: 326 Gallery: cristikarina1 Stats: 270/242/140 (lowest on atkins was 219) WOE: Atkins Start Date: 01/02/07	Nina: You don't have to be skinny to be beautiful… He obviously knows and sees you are not a size 2... and yet he accepts and admires your luxurious curves and is attracted to you, to YOU. If he wasn't attracted to you, your beautiful face, your sexy hips, your self-confidence, he wouldn't have asked you out in the first place... but he IS attracted to you. He knows what he's getting in to... Do you know what IS SEXY for a man?? SELF-CONFIDENCE.. IN AND OUT of the bedroom. Think about it. So don't hide yourself, even if you are shy and are thinking negative thoughts, because he's not thinking what you are thinking! He's too busy enjoying time with you. __________________ ~~cRiStI~~

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01-22-2007, 08:18 PM	#2
statelady-polly Junior LCF Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: OZ Posts: 39 Gallery: statelady-polly Stats: I am not sure I want to share this yet! WOE: Atkins Start Date: 1/14/07	go for it!

01-22-2007, 09:59 PM	#3
xfatchik Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Viva Las Vegas! Posts: 15,460 Gallery: xfatchik Stats: size 22/4/4 WOE: Atkins ( 126 lbs gone! ) Start Date: June 9, 2003	Go for it!!! If he propositioned you then he is definitely interested and likes you the way you are!

01-22-2007, 10:26 PM	#5
Sharon1 MAJOR LCF POSTER! Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Finding Myself :) Posts: 1,318 Gallery: Sharon1 Stats: 194/???/135 WOE: Low Carb Start Date: 10/25/07 (again...)	Go for it! And be the envy of every woman you know. If he's a jerk about something associated with your body, he's not worth your time anyway!

01-22-2007, 10:50 PM	#6
lovinlee Senior LCF Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Sydney, Australia Posts: 281 Gallery: lovinlee Stats: 158/156/132 WOE: eat well and exercise	maybe it's just me.....but if a bloke is confident, it doesn't matter that he's not hot. women will still be attracted to him. and i think it works both ways look at the bodies on the beach in summer. some girls have big butts and bellies but they are strutting their stuff in bikinis with lovely tans and in my opinion look better than some skinny girl that keeps trying to cover herself cause she's self conscious about what people think. if you get out there with a big smile and a big laugh no one really cares if you have a big dress size (and at size 14 i bet you aren't the biggest girl in the room anymore!)