I'll Know it when...

[kayceez]

I don't have a particular goal weight in mind. I'll know it when I get there. To be able to wash my back in the shower & manuever my legs. Paint my toenails without going into spasms. When my arms don't get tired from washing my hair. When I don't have to suck in anything to wear jeans.
When I can feel firm instead burdened with extra. When I enjoy appreciative glances, instead of intolerant glares.
From my fat experiences I've learned to never be calloused with anyone. Never forget to find something good to say to someone. I have been stunned by unexpected nasty comments. Never criticize out loud or in my heart. Never forget to be kind. Look at a person's eyes instead of at their tummy. I truly know a lil bit of kindness goes a long way. I would not be a slim snob. I know that truly excessive weight indicates a deeper problem. I will care about that. I truly have no desire to be thin, I'm not made that way. I carry a reasonable amount of weight well. My goal is to be as fit as I possibly can be. I love genuine smiles & strong hugs, I give these as well, so ya'll line up! God Bless

[Reginawes]

, great post
Regina