Do You every have ?

Spider_Lily · 02-28-2006, 12:43 PM

Do you ever have days where you don,t give a flying flip .Well its been one of those days don,t know why just depressed.Haven,t cheated feel ok I guess.Just sitting here crying for no reason man I hate this.I feel all alone sometimes.Have no real friends to talk to .Life just gets me down sometimes .But its been a really good day .Just don,t know whats wrong with me .Sorry guys I just had to let it out.

nisha_mommy2one · 02-28-2006, 12:45 PM

I get a lot of those days as well.....I have depression....Lots of

to you!!!

Tylar_Connar · 02-28-2006, 12:58 PM

do u guys stay home?? like, w/kids or just husband works?

i know i stay home and i have friends but only ocassionaly talk to them. I need more than my dh and dk and dmom to talk to. I need more interaction and to do more things. But I am a SAHM and have two younger children and they are my priority but I to at times just get all depressed!!

beachlvr58 · 02-28-2006, 01:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Spider_Lily

Do you ever have days where you don,t give a flying flip .Well its been one of those days don,t know why just depressed.Haven,t cheated feel ok I guess.Just sitting here crying for no reason man I hate this.I feel all alone sometimes.Have no real friends to talk to .Life just gets me down sometimes .But its been a really good day .Just don,t know whats wrong with me .Sorry guys I just had to let it out.

I am rarely like this but since LCING i have found if I don't get enough carbs I get this way..hang in ther kid this too shall pass as they say..lots of love, Lisa

Yellobrix · 02-28-2006, 01:05 PM

Hey there Spider Lily -- I am familiar with your part of the world. I grew up in Tuscaloosa, met my DH @ Auburn, he's from Dothan, and we have family in Prattville.

Anyway, I'm sorry that you feel down! And I'm sorry you feel like you don't have any real friends. Are you shy? Is it a matter of circumstances, like you recently moved? Just think of your accomplishments and what a nice person you are and how lucky someone would be to have a friend like you! Now you just need to figure out a way for that lucky person to get to meet you! :-)

luckyduck · 02-28-2006, 01:13 PM

Well, depression can be caused by physical stuff as well as mental stuff. Are you drinking plenty of water, getting moderate excercise, and some fresh air and sunshine every day? These things can help alot (plus they're great for weight loss as well).

As for the mental stuff, getting involved in your community/school/church can really help. You get to meet all sorts of people, which gives you a chance to practice your social skills.

gotogirl · 02-28-2006, 01:39 PM

Exercise definitely helps. Take a long walk outside and see if that doesn't brighten up your mood. I know...walking is the last thing you want to do when you're down but try it.
You know you have lots of friends here.

Spider_Lily · 02-28-2006, 01:45 PM

Thanks everyone don,t know whats wrong.Life is great I have a dh and 2 wonderful kids or young adults.I have lived here in this area all my life.Well this is what started it .I was thinking about last Jan.my stepdad passed away and on March the 9th my house burned to the ground while I went to school to get my son got back in time to see the roof fall in thats an awful thing.And on March 23 my dh and I took the kids to the beach while we were there for abot 45mins my sister called where are you somethings wrong with Mom.So we left in a hurry and before we got half way home Mom passed away had a massive heart attack thats the longest ride I have ever been on and haven,t been back to the beach yet.Yes I stay at home alone most the time but I gotta get out .Got to find something to do I do alot of flower gardening but still need someone besides the computer to talk to .Thanks again guyz I do feel better just had one of them moments I guess.Sorry for putting you through it .

SugarBabi · 02-28-2006, 01:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Spider_Lily

Do you ever have days where you don,t give a flying flip .Well its been one of those days don,t know why just depressed.Haven,t cheated feel ok I guess.Just sitting here crying for no reason man I hate this.I feel all alone sometimes.Have no real friends to talk to .Life just gets me down sometimes .But its been a really good day .Just don,t know whats wrong with me .Sorry guys I just had to let it out.

I feel your pain. I can't get out much myself and I feel exactly the way you do a lot of the times.

One thing that helps me...is to go shopping. You don't have to spend any money, but go shopping and make it a point to say hello to a couple of "strangers"...you don't actually have to talk to them, just say hello and it doesn't matter if they are men or women or what age. Just someone saying hello back will perk ya up a bit. It's even better if you go to the grocery store and "play dumb"..(do I sound like a pro here? LOL)...go to a section where you see someone who looks friendly and ask a question...like even the produce guy --ask what the heck this funny looking fruit/vegetable is and how do you cook it, etc. It really does help, just the interaction with other people.

Another suggestion to make friends is to join a hobby class, etc. that you are interested in. They are generally inexpensive and you will make friends there--or at least people that share some of your interests.

I hope you feel better soon. Sometimes very near TOM, I just break out in bouts of crying and I feel doomed and I can't just snap out of it unless I get busy doing something.

SugarBabi · 02-28-2006, 01:54 PM

Oh, I just read your second post here (I was posting at the same time). I'm so sorry to hear about your troubles.

I am thinking maybe you could join a garden club. We have one around here that only meets once a month, but it's something all the ladies/gents look forward to. Some places they meet more often. You can check with the chamber of commerce and see what kind of clubs they have there in your area.

Spider_Lily · 02-28-2006, 05:15 PM

Our little town don,t have nothing to do unless your one of the hotshots in town and thats not me.

Sleek · 02-28-2006, 10:08 PM

Hobbies, continuing to learn and realising that life's pleasures are found in small measures keeps me on an even keel.

Spider_Lily · 03-01-2006, 02:09 PM

Sorry guyz I just don,t know what was going on yesterday shouldn't of sent those messages.So sorry to put all of you through that.Feeling lots better today.I just wanted to say I,m sorry

Topazz · 03-01-2006, 04:45 PM

So glad you are feeling better today. I hate those "I don't care" sort of days. I had several of them myself just recently.

I hope you are all cried out for awhile and things look alot better for you.

02-28-2006, 12:43 PM	#1
Spider_Lily MAJOR LCF POSTER! Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Alabama Posts: 1,188 Gallery: Spider_Lily Stats: 224/198/150 WOE: Atkins Start Date: recommit 5-5-08	Do You every have ? Do you ever have days where you don,t give a flying flip .Well its been one of those days don,t know why just depressed.Haven,t cheated feel ok I guess.Just sitting here crying for no reason man I hate this.I feel all alone sometimes.Have no real friends to talk to .Life just gets me down sometimes .But its been a really good day .Just don,t know whats wrong with me .Sorry guys I just had to let it out.

02-28-2006, 12:58 PM	#3
Tylar_Connar Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 12,439 Gallery: Tylar_Connar Stats: 198177150 WOE: 27 lbs to go for now Start Date: 10/14/06-165, 11/23/07 180	do u guys stay home?? like, w/kids or just husband works? i know i stay home and i have friends but only ocassionaly talk to them. I need more than my dh and dk and dmom to talk to. I need more interaction and to do more things. But I am a SAHM and have two younger children and they are my priority but I to at times just get all depressed!! Last edited by Tylar_Connar : 02-28-2006 at 01:02 PM.

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02-28-2006, 12:45 PM	#2
nisha_mommy2one MAJOR LCF POSTER! Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Canada Posts: 2,808 Gallery: nisha_mommy2one Stats: 180/???/130 WOE: LC Start Date: Nov 9/08 (Restarted) April 8, 2005	I get a lot of those days as well.....I have depression....Lots of to you!!!

02-28-2006, 01:05 PM	#5
Yellobrix Senior LCF Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Kentucky Posts: 899 Gallery: Yellobrix Stats: 199/174/145 WOE: Atkins + CO Start Date: Over & Over... 'Til I Get It Right!	Hey there Spider Lily -- I am familiar with your part of the world. I grew up in Tuscaloosa, met my DH @ Auburn, he's from Dothan, and we have family in Prattville. Anyway, I'm sorry that you feel down! And I'm sorry you feel like you don't have any real friends. Are you shy? Is it a matter of circumstances, like you recently moved? Just think of your accomplishments and what a nice person you are and how lucky someone would be to have a friend like you! Now you just need to figure out a way for that lucky person to get to meet you! :-)

02-28-2006, 01:13 PM	#6
luckyduck Senior LCF Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 438 Gallery: luckyduck	Well, depression can be caused by physical stuff as well as mental stuff. Are you drinking plenty of water, getting moderate excercise, and some fresh air and sunshine every day? These things can help alot (plus they're great for weight loss as well). As for the mental stuff, getting involved in your community/school/church can really help. You get to meet all sorts of people, which gives you a chance to practice your social skills.

02-28-2006, 01:39 PM	#7
gotogirl MAJOR LCF POSTER! Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Texas Posts: 2,142 Gallery: gotogirl Stats: 148/116/120 5'3" WOE: Atkins for Life Maintenance Start Date: August, 2005	Exercise definitely helps. Take a long walk outside and see if that doesn't brighten up your mood. I know...walking is the last thing you want to do when you're down but try it. You know you have lots of friends here.

02-28-2006, 01:45 PM	#8
Spider_Lily MAJOR LCF POSTER! Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Alabama Posts: 1,188 Gallery: Spider_Lily Stats: 224/198/150 WOE: Atkins Start Date: recommit 5-5-08	Thanks everyone don,t know whats wrong.Life is great I have a dh and 2 wonderful kids or young adults.I have lived here in this area all my life.Well this is what started it .I was thinking about last Jan.my stepdad passed away and on March the 9th my house burned to the ground while I went to school to get my son got back in time to see the roof fall in thats an awful thing.And on March 23 my dh and I took the kids to the beach while we were there for abot 45mins my sister called where are you somethings wrong with Mom.So we left in a hurry and before we got half way home Mom passed away had a massive heart attack thats the longest ride I have ever been on and haven,t been back to the beach yet.Yes I stay at home alone most the time but I gotta get out .Got to find something to do I do alot of flower gardening but still need someone besides the computer to talk to .Thanks again guyz I do feel better just had one of them moments I guess.Sorry for putting you through it .

02-28-2006, 01:54 PM	#10
SugarBabi MAJOR LCF POSTER! Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 2,263 Gallery: SugarBabi WOE: My Own Type Of Low Carb Start Date: 2/12/2005	Oh, I just read your second post here (I was posting at the same time). I'm so sorry to hear about your troubles. I am thinking maybe you could join a garden club. We have one around here that only meets once a month, but it's something all the ladies/gents look forward to. Some places they meet more often. You can check with the chamber of commerce and see what kind of clubs they have there in your area.

02-28-2006, 05:15 PM	#11
Spider_Lily MAJOR LCF POSTER! Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Alabama Posts: 1,188 Gallery: Spider_Lily Stats: 224/198/150 WOE: Atkins Start Date: recommit 5-5-08	Our little town don,t have nothing to do unless your one of the hotshots in town and thats not me.

02-28-2006, 10:08 PM	#12
Sleek Senior LCF Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Posts: 245 Gallery: Sleek Stats: Goal 115 Tiny Frame - 5'5 WOE: My Own Way & Hoodia Start Date: Variable	Hobbies, continuing to learn and realising that life's pleasures are found in small measures keeps me on an even keel.

03-01-2006, 02:09 PM	#13
Spider_Lily MAJOR LCF POSTER! Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Alabama Posts: 1,188 Gallery: Spider_Lily Stats: 224/198/150 WOE: Atkins Start Date: recommit 5-5-08	Sorry guyz I just don,t know what was going on yesterday shouldn't of sent those messages.So sorry to put all of you through that.Feeling lots better today.I just wanted to say I,m sorry

03-01-2006, 04:45 PM	#14
Topazz Guest Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Central Florida Posts: 5,600 Gallery: Topazz	So glad you are feeling better today. I hate those "I don't care" sort of days. I had several of them myself just recently. I hope you are all cried out for awhile and things look alot better for you.