why do i feel neglected

Mibashful · 07-28-2005, 01:26 PM

i have no reason why i feel so badly neglected maybe its just my hormones i have no idea but i do litterly feel like crying

JuliaL · 07-28-2005, 01:36 PM

Awww Shelly, sorry you're having a down day. We love you!

We all have days like that, and hormones can certainly cause them. Remember, eating will not cure your problems, so stick to your plan. Do you exercise? I often find that 30 mins. of cardio can really lift my spirits when I'm feeling down. What about a walk?

godsbeloved79 · 07-28-2005, 01:38 PM

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Originally Posted by JuliaL

Awww Shelly, sorry you're having a down day. We love you!

We all have days like that, and hormones can certainly cause them. Remember, eating will not cure your problems, so stick to your plan. Do you exercise? I often find that 30 mins. of cardio can really lift my spirits when I'm feeling down. What about a walk?

I ditto what Julia said. Been there done that, and the end result was me gaining weight......... Not a good feeling. I pray that you are lifted up.

wcsis · 07-28-2005, 01:39 PM

Shelly, I feel this way often also. I think it has to do with my hormones. I am going though premenopause. My periods only visit me once every 3 or 4 months but I am still experiencing pms symptoms which have been worse over the last year. I too feel like crying for no reason at many times.

I have days I wake up feeling totally depressed and feeling left out, ignored, pushed aside and useless. My doctor has me on Zoloft which I am still in the early weeks of taking so I am not sure yet it is helping.

Your not alone Shelly feeling the way you do.

Acura · 07-28-2005, 01:51 PM

we all have bad days like that, believe me we all do !
It was just last week I was in tears one day, just for waking up and being alive. We all have days like this, *HUG* you arent alone

Dallas1 · 07-28-2005, 02:19 PM

I get that way a few days before tom. Its the hormones.
Hope you start feeling better.

summerfun · 07-28-2005, 02:38 PM

Just wanted to say hi and hope you feel better tomorrow.

Puppy · 07-28-2005, 02:42 PM

Go ahead and cry if you want there is nothing wrong with letting it out. You may feel better afterward. Thank goodness I don't feel down too often anymore but at one point in my life I felt as you do today. I used to get in my car and drive and when I was in a less populated area, with the windows up, I would scream and scream and scream. Other than the sore throat, I felt so much better. Hope this passes soon!

brilliant100 · 07-28-2005, 02:49 PM

A good hard cry helps me in situations like this. Sometimes I watch a sad movie to really get the tears going. Its ok to cry it out.

Hoops · 07-28-2005, 02:55 PM

Shelly and wcsis~ I am sorry anyhow feels this way. I really don't know what to suggest, although that is probably not what you're looking for anyway. Maybe just knowing we all care and want your spirits lifted will help.

The time will pass.

Oh wiat, I just thought of something. My all time favorite movie, Dumb and Dumber, would be excellent in a down time. I bring it to watch when I fly and use the headphones. I forget people can hear me laughing and have to quiet myself down. Oh, it is so funny. Although, I am a giggle box who comedians love to have in their audience.

nisha_mommy2one · 07-28-2005, 03:11 PM

aww we all have one of those days

angelsinthegarden · 07-28-2005, 03:55 PM

Lots of hugs

Mibashful · 07-28-2005, 05:08 PM

thank you all i love you all so much i did go work out at my local curves and i do feel some what better i love you all. shelly.

mom2fourboyz · 07-28-2005, 05:13 PM

Your not alone. I called my mom this morning in tears over something pretty mini in most worlds and in 5 mins she was at my door unexpectedly and all she said was " I came to give you a hug" and left....she lives 5 miles from me! I wish there were ways of not having these kinds of days. I too think it is hormomal. Got my TOM this morning. I had myself a really good cry and now I feel much better. You know what movie makes me cry? Terms of Endearment....when she is dying and her little boys comes in to say good bye her...how heartbreaking. But is does induce and excellent cry and helps me to see that my life really isn't so bad.

I'm sending you my biggest hug and hoping that tomorrow is brighter.

*knock-knock* who's there? ~ Duane. Duane who? *Duane the bathtub I think I'm drowning! That always makes my boys smile!

JennyKitty · 07-28-2005, 06:52 PM

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Originally Posted by wcsis

I have days I wake up feeling totally depressed and feeling left out, ignored, pushed aside and useless.

Sue1975 · 07-29-2005, 07:48 AM

Hope you feel better soon.

Countrygirl · 07-29-2005, 01:09 PM

I can relate to you, they put me in the century forum. I'm not quite sure why. Hopefully I can get moved back to the main forum sooooon.

Mibashful · 07-29-2005, 03:20 PM

thank you all for careing and the strong support.

07-28-2005, 01:26 PM	#1
Mibashful Senior LCF Member Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Arizona Posts: 931 Blog Entries: 1 Gallery: Mibashful Stats: as of know it is 195 WOE: im following the lowcarb and/low cal way of eating Start Date: 4 days ago	why do i feel neglected i have no reason why i feel so badly neglected maybe its just my hormones i have no idea but i do litterly feel like crying

07-28-2005, 01:39 PM	#4
wcsis Senior LCF Member Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Washington Posts: 594 Gallery: wcsis Stats: 259/></153 WOE: LowCarb Start Date: 7/20/05 (@ 237 lbs)	Shelly, I feel this way often also. I think it has to do with my hormones. I am going though premenopause. My periods only visit me once every 3 or 4 months but I am still experiencing pms symptoms which have been worse over the last year. I too feel like crying for no reason at many times. I have days I wake up feeling totally depressed and feeling left out, ignored, pushed aside and useless. My doctor has me on Zoloft which I am still in the early weeks of taking so I am not sure yet it is helping. Your not alone Shelly feeling the way you do. __________________ Marie A strong woman has faith that she is strong enough for the journey ... but a woman of strength has faith that it is in the journey that she will become strong. Goal 1: 225 (august 11 - 223.5) Goal 2: 213 Holiday Hotties Nov 1: 220.5 -- START WEIGHT Current Weight: 220.5

07-28-2005, 02:55 PM	#10
Hoops Very Gabby LCF Member!!! Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Las Vegas Posts: 4,035 Gallery: Hoops Stats: 5'9" goal size 8/10	Shelly and wcsis~ I am sorry anyhow feels this way. I really don't know what to suggest, although that is probably not what you're looking for anyway. Maybe just knowing we all care and want your spirits lifted will help. The time will pass. Oh wiat, I just thought of something. My all time favorite movie, Dumb and Dumber, would be excellent in a down time. I bring it to watch when I fly and use the headphones. I forget people can hear me laughing and have to quiet myself down. Oh, it is so funny. Although, I am a giggle box who comedians love to have in their audience. __________________ Laura~ 37 yo.... I the San Antonio Spurs!

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07-28-2005, 01:36 PM	#2
JuliaL Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: May 2003 Location: Louisville, KY Posts: 17,325 Gallery: JuliaL Stats: 190/145/140 16/8/6, height 5'8", age 48 WOE: Atkins/BFFM Start Date: 4/22/03	Awww Shelly, sorry you're having a down day. We love you! We all have days like that, and hormones can certainly cause them. Remember, eating will not cure your problems, so stick to your plan. Do you exercise? I often find that 30 mins. of cardio can really lift my spirits when I'm feeling down. What about a walk?

07-28-2005, 01:51 PM	#5
Acura Senior LCF Member Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Rockledge, Fl Posts: 579 Gallery: Acura Stats: 5'9 Start BMI 53.3 310 7/22/2007 WOE: RNY exercise, lots and lots of cardo Start Date: 7/22/2007	we all have bad days like that, believe me we all do ! It was just last week I was in tears one day, just for waking up and being alive. We all have days like this, HUG you arent alone

07-28-2005, 02:19 PM	#6
Dallas1 Junior LCF Member Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 17 Gallery: Dallas1	I get that way a few days before tom. Its the hormones. Hope you start feeling better.

07-28-2005, 02:38 PM	#7
summerfun Senior LCF Member Join Date: Jul 2003 Posts: 288 Gallery: summerfun Stats: F, 5'9, PCOS	Just wanted to say hi and hope you feel better tomorrow.

07-28-2005, 02:42 PM	#8
Puppy Big Yapper!!!! Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: Charlotte, NC Posts: 9,388 Gallery: Puppy	Go ahead and cry if you want there is nothing wrong with letting it out. You may feel better afterward. Thank goodness I don't feel down too often anymore but at one point in my life I felt as you do today. I used to get in my car and drive and when I was in a less populated area, with the windows up, I would scream and scream and scream. Other than the sore throat, I felt so much better. Hope this passes soon!

07-28-2005, 02:49 PM	#9
brilliant100 MAJOR LCF POSTER! Join Date: Oct 2000 Location: Western, USA Posts: 2,444 Gallery: brilliant100 Stats: 266/194/169 WOE: Atkins/M&E Feast, Lower fat & Lower calorie Start Date: restarted 6/1/05 M/E, back on the wagon 8-21-07	A good hard cry helps me in situations like this. Sometimes I watch a sad movie to really get the tears going. Its ok to cry it out.

07-28-2005, 03:11 PM	#11
nisha_mommy2one MAJOR LCF POSTER! Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Canada Posts: 2,808 Gallery: nisha_mommy2one Stats: 180/???/130 WOE: LC Start Date: Nov 9/08 (Restarted) April 8, 2005	aww we all have one of those days

07-28-2005, 03:55 PM	#12
angelsinthegarden Senior LCF Member Join Date: Jul 2003 Posts: 570 Gallery: angelsinthegarden Stats: 215/175/135 WOE: Atkins Start Date: which time	Lots of hugs

07-28-2005, 05:08 PM	#13
Mibashful Senior LCF Member Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Arizona Posts: 931 Blog Entries: 1 Gallery: Mibashful Stats: as of know it is 195 WOE: im following the lowcarb and/low cal way of eating Start Date: 4 days ago	thank you all i love you all so much i did go work out at my local curves and i do feel some what better i love you all. shelly.

07-28-2005, 05:13 PM	#14
mom2fourboyz MAJOR LCF POSTER! Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: South Dakota Posts: 1,232 Gallery: mom2fourboyz Stats: 277/225/135 WOE: Atkins Start Date: Oct 28,2004	Your not alone. I called my mom this morning in tears over something pretty mini in most worlds and in 5 mins she was at my door unexpectedly and all she said was " I came to give you a hug" and left....she lives 5 miles from me! I wish there were ways of not having these kinds of days. I too think it is hormomal. Got my TOM this morning. I had myself a really good cry and now I feel much better. You know what movie makes me cry? Terms of Endearment....when she is dying and her little boys comes in to say good bye her...how heartbreaking. But is does induce and excellent cry and helps me to see that my life really isn't so bad. I'm sending you my biggest hug and hoping that tomorrow is brighter. knock-knock who's there? ~ Duane. Duane who? *Duane the bathtub I think I'm drowning! That always makes my boys smile!

07-29-2005, 07:48 AM	#16
Sue1975 Senior LCF Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: United Kingdom Posts: 388 Gallery: Sue1975 Stats: 261/170.5/117 WOE: Atkins Start Date: March 11, 2005	Hope you feel better soon.

07-29-2005, 01:09 PM	#17
Countrygirl Senior LCF Member Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Abilene, Texas Posts: 70 Gallery: Countrygirl Stats: WOE: Calarie Counting/Eating Healthier Start Date: March 2005	I can relate to you, they put me in the century forum. I'm not quite sure why. Hopefully I can get moved back to the main forum sooooon.

07-29-2005, 03:20 PM	#18
Mibashful Senior LCF Member Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: Arizona Posts: 931 Blog Entries: 1 Gallery: Mibashful Stats: as of know it is 195 WOE: im following the lowcarb and/low cal way of eating Start Date: 4 days ago	thank you all for careing and the strong support.