I need a hug

BigBravesGirl · 06-10-2005, 10:32 AM

Last weekend, I got sick on Saturday evening with severe stomach cramps/pain. I went to the ER. They drew blood and gave me pain meds. They couldn't come up with a diagnosis - thought maybe it was gas

or an ulcer. Sent me home with pain meds and told me to buy some Prilosec. Sunday I started passing blood clots. Went back to ER. I had a miscarriage.

My husband and I have been married for less than 2 years. We've been wanting a baby since we got married. I'm almost 37, he's almost 42. It's the first marriage for both of us. Neither of us have children. I didn't even know I was pregnant. The ER doc said I was just a few weeks along. This just makes me so sad. I know we can try again. I know there's a 'reason' this baby didn't make it. But I'm still sad. I need a hug.

Thanks

Terilynn · 06-10-2005, 10:42 AM

to you
sorry this happened

Mushmush · 06-10-2005, 11:12 AM

Hugs. I had an early miscarriage at about 6.5 weeks along, and I knew I was pregnant. It sucked big time. The good news: I got pregnant again two months later and it stuck

I was 33, dh was 46.

Sasha

faemajik · 06-10-2005, 11:14 AM

((((((((((((((((((massive hugs))))))))))))))))

my baby sister just lost hers on my neices BD( 5/5)

keep faith honie

~another hug~

melantine · 06-10-2005, 01:06 PM

I've been there too.

Skinnymocah · 06-10-2005, 01:10 PM

Aw, honey!!!! If the miracle of conception happened once, it will happen again!

Mootzee · 06-10-2005, 01:21 PM

Give yourself plenty of time and TLC. You're going through mourning. That baby was just as real as if you knew all along that you were pregnant.

fatbottomgirl · 06-10-2005, 01:22 PM

I was there too, then got pregnant with my beautiful daughter 6 weeks later!

Wife of a Vet · 06-10-2005, 02:27 PM

I'm sorry to hear it.

LibraEssence · 06-10-2005, 02:29 PM

((((((((((

))))))))))

sleuthfan · 06-10-2005, 02:34 PM

I'm so very sorry for your loss

I'll pray the next chapter in God's plan for you is a happy & healthy full term pregnancy.

FitinCO · 06-10-2005, 03:00 PM

I'm so sorry for your loss. hug

daisyblue · 06-10-2005, 05:52 PM

I'm so sorry.

beckyb17 · 06-10-2005, 07:20 PM

I'm so sorry!

mzmawissa · 06-10-2005, 07:39 PM

soo sorry for your loss

gettingstrength · 06-10-2005, 08:26 PM

I'm sorry

silkandsand · 06-10-2005, 09:20 PM

Give yourself time to mourn the baby.

prayers for you to conceive again. And many hugs because you need them.

caramel · 06-10-2005, 11:19 PM

after I had my second miscarriage when I was 33 years old I was told by doctors that I needed to have a hysterectomy because of the huge fibroids in my uterus that made my uterus to warped to carry a baby full term. well I made peace with my plans to ever have children again(had a boy and girl at the time) wouldn't you know it I got pregnant at age 35 and was so excited and to scared at the thought of losing this baby. At around 9 weeks I started spotting which was about the time of my other miscarriages. I told my husband and sat on the bed and waited, waited, waited. Nothing happened I ended up having a beautiful baby girl. all was well with my life my daughter had a sister and wouldn't you know it at 37 I was pregnant again and the exact same thing happened, gave birth to another little girl. God is Good! I wrote all that to say give yourself time don't give up on your dreams of having a child my prayers are with you.

LunaAshling · 06-11-2005, 07:31 PM

{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}

makeup · 06-11-2005, 10:59 PM

Hugs God is with you always

Love
Makeup

Dawns40 · 06-12-2005, 11:18 AM

I'm so sorry for your loss. I have had 5 miscarriages altogether (three before my first son was born). It's a scary time and so tragic. Get your rest and stay positive. I now have three beautiful, healthy sons. The last born when I was 41.

London · 06-12-2005, 11:28 AM

silentkate · 06-12-2005, 06:52 PM

Windchimes · 06-12-2005, 07:46 PM

BigBravesGirl · 06-13-2005, 01:58 PM

Thanks everyone.

lynnjp · 06-13-2005, 03:05 PM

(((Lisa)))
I know exactly what you are going through -hopefully your DH and you will soon be blessed with another child to share you lives with

06-10-2005, 10:32 AM	#1
BigBravesGirl Plastic Wrap Ninja Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: not quite sure... if you find me, will you let me know? Posts: 20,253 Blog Entries: 1 Gallery: BigBravesGirl Stats: fat, but working on it WOE: My way! Start Date: 01/04/08	I need a hug Last weekend, I got sick on Saturday evening with severe stomach cramps/pain. I went to the ER. They drew blood and gave me pain meds. They couldn't come up with a diagnosis - thought maybe it was gas or an ulcer. Sent me home with pain meds and told me to buy some Prilosec. Sunday I started passing blood clots. Went back to ER. I had a miscarriage. My husband and I have been married for less than 2 years. We've been wanting a baby since we got married. I'm almost 37, he's almost 42. It's the first marriage for both of us. Neither of us have children. I didn't even know I was pregnant. The ER doc said I was just a few weeks along. This just makes me so sad. I know we can try again. I know there's a 'reason' this baby didn't make it. But I'm still sad. I need a hug. Thanks __________________ Lisa . . . . I baseball! Chubalump's PG Mama

06-10-2005, 11:19 PM	#18
caramel Senior LCF Member Join Date: Apr 2004 Posts: 132 Gallery: caramel Stats: 180lc /173-JUDDD/169/135 WOE: JUDDD Start Date: reinducted lc 11/10/08 12/9/08- JUDDD	after I had my second miscarriage when I was 33 years old I was told by doctors that I needed to have a hysterectomy because of the huge fibroids in my uterus that made my uterus to warped to carry a baby full term. well I made peace with my plans to ever have children again(had a boy and girl at the time) wouldn't you know it I got pregnant at age 35 and was so excited and to scared at the thought of losing this baby. At around 9 weeks I started spotting which was about the time of my other miscarriages. I told my husband and sat on the bed and waited, waited, waited. Nothing happened I ended up having a beautiful baby girl. all was well with my life my daughter had a sister and wouldn't you know it at 37 I was pregnant again and the exact same thing happened, gave birth to another little girl. God is Good! I wrote all that to say give yourself time don't give up on your dreams of having a child my prayers are with you. __________________ sunshine Last edited by caramel : 06-10-2005 at 11:26 PM.

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06-10-2005, 10:42 AM	#2
Terilynn Very Gabby LCF Member!!! Join Date: Dec 2000 Location: Parker, CO USA Posts: 3,497 Gallery: Terilynn	to you sorry this happened

06-10-2005, 11:12 AM	#3
Mushmush MAJOR LCF POSTER! Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: NJ Posts: 1,272 Gallery: Mushmush Stats: 172/135/132 WOE: WW Start Date: 1/7/2007 (Start WW)	Hugs. I had an early miscarriage at about 6.5 weeks along, and I knew I was pregnant. It sucked big time. The good news: I got pregnant again two months later and it stuck I was 33, dh was 46. Sasha

06-10-2005, 11:14 AM	#4
faemajik Very Gabby LCF Member!!! Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 4,095 Gallery: faemajik	((((((((((((((((((massive hugs)))))))))))))))) my baby sister just lost hers on my neices BD( 5/5) keep faith honie ~another hug~

06-10-2005, 01:06 PM	#5
melantine Stacy's Mom Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: BFE Nebraska Posts: 8,366 Gallery: melantine Stats: 178/140 (ugh holiday weight)/ 130 WOE: strict l/c Start Date: July 5, 2004	I've been there too.

06-10-2005, 01:10 PM	#6
Skinnymocah aka Miss Latte Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Gone. Posts: 41,456 Gallery: Skinnymocah Stats: WOE: Start Date:	Aw, honey!!!! If the miracle of conception happened once, it will happen again!

06-10-2005, 01:21 PM	#7
Mootzee Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: West Virginia Posts: 11,085 Gallery: Mootzee Stats: A Tight Size 22/12/8 (5'2") WOE: Glycemic Index Start Date: Jun 2008 (restart)	Give yourself plenty of time and TLC. You're going through mourning. That baby was just as real as if you knew all along that you were pregnant.

06-10-2005, 01:22 PM	#8
fatbottomgirl Hawtie in charge of mischief Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Olathe, KS Posts: 6,180 Gallery: fatbottomgirl Stats: 157/115 5'3" WOE: Low carbin again Start Date: March 15	I was there too, then got pregnant with my beautiful daughter 6 weeks later!

06-10-2005, 02:27 PM	#9
Wife of a Vet Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Having Fun in Killeen/CopperasCove/Kempner - ish (TX) Posts: 13,802 Gallery: Wife of a Vet Stats: Highest 280/LC start-222/210 (grr)/145 5'8" WOE: Low Carb (Diabetic) Start Date: 8/26/03	I'm sorry to hear it.

06-10-2005, 02:29 PM	#10
LibraEssence MAJOR LCF POSTER! Join Date: May 2004 Location: Moreno Valley, CA Posts: 2,349 Gallery: LibraEssence Stats: 5'10"- 206 as of Oct 2007 WOE: ...Induction Start Date: back at again Since August 2007	(((((((((( ))))))))))

06-10-2005, 02:34 PM	#11
sleuthfan Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: Boston area Posts: 10,292 Gallery: sleuthfan WOE: Atkins - no frankenfoods Start Date: Started 09-01-99	I'm so very sorry for your loss I'll pray the next chapter in God's plan for you is a happy & healthy full term pregnancy.

06-11-2005, 07:31 PM	#19
LunaAshling Queen of the Planet of Redheads Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: Here, no really. Posts: 3,685 Gallery: LunaAshling Stats: 2??/???/130-ish @ 5'5 WOE: Atkins/Weston Price Start Date: 3rd times the charm! 11/08	{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}

06-10-2005, 03:00 PM	#12
FitinCO MAJOR LCF POSTER! Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Denver, Colorado Posts: 1,679 Gallery: FitinCO Stats: 270/220/125 WOE: Atkins Start Date: Dec 2, 2003	I'm so sorry for your loss. hug

06-10-2005, 05:52 PM	#13
daisyblue Senior LCF Member Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 192 Gallery: daisyblue	I'm so sorry.

06-10-2005, 07:20 PM	#14
beckyb17 Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: Boilermaker Country Posts: 12,858 Gallery: beckyb17 Stats: 60 pounds ago WOE: Yo~Yo diet	I'm so sorry!

06-10-2005, 07:39 PM	#15
mzmawissa Blabbermouth!!! Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: My heart is in Afghanistan Posts: 7,159 Gallery: mzmawissa Stats: 190/185/150 WOE: low carb my way for sure Start Date: ohh brother	soo sorry for your loss

06-10-2005, 08:26 PM	#16
gettingstrength Big Yapper!!!! Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: Tennessee Posts: 9,523 Gallery: gettingstrength Stats: 184 / 170 / ? WOE: atkins Start Date: 6 / 1 / 2002	I'm sorry

06-10-2005, 09:20 PM	#17
silkandsand Big Yapper!!!! Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Lake Chapala Posts: 8,507 Gallery: silkandsand Stats: 150/141/125 sizes:10/8/6-4 WOE: Atkins/Low carb Start Date: 2/2/2003	Give yourself time to mourn the baby. prayers for you to conceive again. And many hugs because you need them.

06-11-2005, 10:59 PM	#20
makeup MAJOR LCF POSTER! Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Los Angeles CA Posts: 2,059 Gallery: makeup	Hugs God is with you always Love Makeup

06-12-2005, 11:18 AM	#21
Dawns40 Senior LCF Member Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: Colorado Posts: 431 Gallery: Dawns40 Stats: Uncomfortable/Confident/Comfortable WOE: Just LC Start Date: April 2004	I'm so sorry for your loss. I have had 5 miscarriages altogether (three before my first son was born). It's a scary time and so tragic. Get your rest and stay positive. I now have three beautiful, healthy sons. The last born when I was 41.

06-12-2005, 11:28 AM	#22
London Very Gabby LCF Member!!! Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Earth Posts: 4,647 Gallery: London WOE: Atkins Start Date: 1/06/03

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06-12-2005, 07:46 PM	#24
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06-13-2005, 01:58 PM	#25
BigBravesGirl Plastic Wrap Ninja Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: not quite sure... if you find me, will you let me know? Posts: 20,253 Blog Entries: 1 Gallery: BigBravesGirl Stats: fat, but working on it WOE: My way! Start Date: 01/04/08	Thanks everyone.

06-13-2005, 03:05 PM	#26
lynnjp Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: Jun 2002 Location: Rhode Island Posts: 11,383 Gallery: lynnjp Stats: 273/154/140 WOE: low carb Start Date: 4/28/2001	(((Lisa))) I know exactly what you are going through -hopefully your DH and you will soon be blessed with another child to share you lives with