hello

neverbefatagain · 04-30-2005, 08:48 PM

my name is ronda i am 34 and engaged to be married. I have been battling my weight for 16 years now and depression has real taken hold of me. there are time i feel i do not deserve to be happy or even loved. i feel everthing i do or say is worng and i can not please anyone even my self. i try so hard to work on my woe and work out but i can be defeted at the same time. i hate this. there is a part of me that beleives if changes are not made with in me soon my future husband might leave me. i know it is hurting him to see me like this. i know he loves me. well any support and encourgement twould be helpful. thanks for listening
ronda

BigRed · 04-30-2005, 09:44 PM

Love is patient,
love is kind.
It does not envy,
It does not boast,
It is not proud.
It is not rude,
It is not self-seeking,
It is not easily angered,
It keeps no record of wrongs.

Love does not delight in evil
but rejoices with the truth.
It always protects,
always trusts,
always hopes,
always perseveres.
Love never fails.

1 Corinthians 13:4-8

Bubbles · 05-01-2005, 01:39 PM

You need to work on your self esteem or your marraige will never last. A mate can only be so supportive.
Your stats look great you have obviously worked hard so far and should be proud of yourself. Most of us hate to exersize but do not beat yourself up if you skip a few days. Just think about what you can do today and not yesterday.

04-30-2005, 08:48 PM	#1
neverbefatagain Junior LCF Member Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Texas Posts: 11 Gallery: neverbefatagain Stats: 300/238/115 WOE: Adkins Start Date: Oct 2003	hello my name is ronda i am 34 and engaged to be married. I have been battling my weight for 16 years now and depression has real taken hold of me. there are time i feel i do not deserve to be happy or even loved. i feel everthing i do or say is worng and i can not please anyone even my self. i try so hard to work on my woe and work out but i can be defeted at the same time. i hate this. there is a part of me that beleives if changes are not made with in me soon my future husband might leave me. i know it is hurting him to see me like this. i know he loves me. well any support and encourgement twould be helpful. thanks for listening ronda __________________ I will win this Battle 300/238/115

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04-30-2005, 09:44 PM	#2
BigRed MAJOR LCF POSTER! Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: East Coast Posts: 2,896 Gallery: BigRed	Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, It does not boast, It is not proud. It is not rude, It is not self-seeking, It is not easily angered, It keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. 1 Corinthians 13:4-8

05-01-2005, 01:39 PM	#3
Bubbles Way too much time on my hands! Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Live Free or Die Baby!!!!! Posts: 10,100 Gallery: Bubbles Stats: 140 lbs of flabby fun WOE: All the time Start Date: Feb 2003	You need to work on your self esteem or your marraige will never last. A mate can only be so supportive. Your stats look great you have obviously worked hard so far and should be proud of yourself. Most of us hate to exersize but do not beat yourself up if you skip a few days. Just think about what you can do today and not yesterday.