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This is a journal to help me learn LC tactics and to record LC success as 2007 draws to an end and 2008 looms large and hopeful ahead of me.

Wish me luck! Luck?

Ah, luck is the residue of design.

Found that in a fortune cookie, ages ago.

Fits into the LC mantra about how failing to plan is planning to fail. So my plans start out each day with a hot slosh of WPP+cocoa+espresso+VCO so that I start off feeling like a LC success. Yay, me!
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Adrenal fatigue/exhaustion?

Posted 01-21-2008 at 03:27 PM by Zer
Updated 01-21-2008 at 03:29 PM by Zer
What if a life of stress has worn out my adrenals? http://thyroid.about.com/cs/endocrin...nalfatigue.htm suggests that this is a condition that is not often caught before a serious medical condition exists.

http://www.womentowomen.com/adrenalf...words=adrenals suggests ways in which adrenal fatigue can be repaired or reversed. Impaired adrenal function can exist and cloud an otherwise healthy life.
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The effects of adrenal dysfunction can be profound: fatigue and weakness, suppression of the immune system, muscle and bone loss, moodiness or depression, hormonal imbalance, skin problems, autoimmune disorders, and dozens of other symptoms. ...

...The basic task of your adrenal glands is to rush all your body’s resources into "fight or flight" mode by increasing production of adrenaline and other hormones.

When healthy, your adrenals can instantly increase your heart rate and blood pressure, release your energy stores for immediate use, slow your digestion and other secondary functions, and sharpen your senses.

Let’s emphasize two points about this healthy stress response.
~First, it takes priority over all other metabolic functions.
~Second, it wasn’t designed to last very long....

...Every challenge to the mind and body creates a demand on the adrenal glands. And the list of challenges is endless: lack of sleep, a demanding boss, the threat of losing your job, financial pressures, personality conflicts, yo-yo dieting, relationship turmoil, death or illness of a loved one, skipping meals, reliance on stimulants like caffeine and carbs, digestive problems, over-exercise, illness or infection, unresolved emotional issues from our past or present and more. The result is adrenal glands that are constantly on high alert.
http://www.womentowomen.com/adrenalf...words=adrenals
Seems worth paying attention to this aspect of my health as I learn about LC tactics for reducing my weight and raising my energy level. I am taking steps to reduce stress NOW!

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Oh, wow, this is me to a cow's thumb! Stressors galore!
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It’s important to emphasize the role of emotional factors. Guilt, pain from past hurts, self-destructive habits, unresolved relationship problems — your past and present emotional experience may serve as an ever-present stressor. Dealing with these problems directly is much more beneficial than trying to compensate for the stress they create, in the same way that "an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure."
http://www.womentowomen.com/adrenalf...words=adrenals
Posted 01-21-2008 at 04:06 PM by Zer Zer is offline
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Good stuff. Wish I'd had this info some time back...sounds a lot like Fibromyalgia symptoms, too. I wonder if there's a connection? Having been diagnosed with the Fibro, I kind of wonder if it's not in my best interests to have my adrenals tested. Something to look into. Thanks, Lady!
Posted 01-24-2008 at 09:59 PM by kuukuu kuukuu is offline
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Ah, we both owe a debt to Lisa-in-Sweden for sharing what she is learning from MDs in her WAY-medically-advanced part of the world.

Lady Stardust has most recently reported reiki as a pain-reducing treatment for her achy body.
Posted 01-25-2008 at 07:42 AM by Zer Zer is offline
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Hi Zer,

I'm not too happy with doctors right now. I had such a terrible reaction to my medication (for the bronchitis and possible asthma) and the doctor was quite nasty about it.

I did get a dx for Dercum's after three and half years, though. I wish I had someone who took an intrest in me and helping me obtain the best quality of life, plus keep an eye on possible problem areas like diabetes, too high sediment levels, and even too high homocysteine levels, but nope ... not such luck. Sorry ... just in a dumpy mood about doctors right now.

On a happier note, I am going for my second Reiki treatment on Monday morning and most of the benefits I felt from the first one I still feel like the pain free ankles and my shoulders having less pain, but the reduced tensions in the neck and shoulders disappeared a few weeks ago.

I am also taking the first level class weekend after next. I am so excited of what I will be able to do for myself and my family.

Have a great one,
Lisa
Posted 01-25-2008 at 08:23 AM by Ldy Stardust Ldy Stardust is offline
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So glad you are pursuing Reiki. I too shall, as soon as I think I can handle lying on a shaky table (as I recall those massage tables being a thrilling challenge for a hefty person to manage getting aboard). Keep us posted on how your Reiki treatments affect pain signals. I do not understand how it's done, but I have had my own pain signals affected appreciably by a chiro mashing fiercely into my inner knee and thigh. Still have some pain, but not nearly as bad as before the treatment. Not Reiki, but it helps me until I can locate my own Reiki practitioner here.

Sorry about the failure of medical folk. They don't begin to comprehend what true healing is about. Not their fault. It's their training.
Posted 01-25-2008 at 09:26 AM by Zer Zer is offline
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Scary stuff. Just called a friend - a sibling - to say I am letting go of the hope that we can reach a place of emotional availability that I have been hoping for so many years we would reach. It's just not going to happen. I'm 64. She is 61. We are pretty much who we can be.

So I am taking steps to let go, to say that I shall not be calling on her (probably a relief to her) and that I shall be looking for support from people who are emotionally available.

Sent her an apology for today's drama and a link explaining just how adrenal exhaustion is related to stress. I hope this will explain that I am really hopeful of mending my body and becoming a less needy person as I do what I need to do to reduce stress. Agh!

Do I feel relieved? Sort of. Also sad. A lot.

Hope dies hard.

I am encouraged to know that she has two healthy daughters who support her and who will always be at hand to help her when she needs help. I can let go. I can. I am. (sob)
Posted 01-28-2008 at 10:30 AM by Zer Zer is offline
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Hugs Zer.

I sending you postive thoughts and hoping you get this easily and are better for your decision.

I had my treatment today and it was so great. I'll write it up later when I feel up to it. I feel like a limp noodle right now.

Catch ya later,
Lisa
Posted 01-28-2008 at 01:45 PM by Ldy Stardust Ldy Stardust is offline
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Ah, yes, and I too must begin to hunt up a Reiki practitioner who might be able to help me lose some aches that stem from old baggage. Nice if I can resolve this hinky hip, get it to set free that tissue that got caught so badly in Aug.2006 and that is now probably being chewed to scar tissue as I do anything that puts weight on that joint. Agh!

I'd also like to find someone to help me address adrenal issues. Meanwhile, I'm on my own here to manage stress. Uh, we all know that stress is not an event, right, but how one reacts to events. I can de-stress myself by stepping back from the firing line, by accepting that Stuff Happens. It's not always (probably hardly ever) up to me how events happen or how they get resolved.

Let go... and let god. Handy 12step mantra.
Posted 01-28-2008 at 05:07 PM by Zer Zer is offline
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Food for thought, from a writer who knows a lot about adrenal (dys)function and (dis)repair:
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The adrenal glands signal the storage, release and utilization of carbohydrates and fats, the conversion of fats and proteins into energy, and influence the distribution of fat on the body. Their output is involved in blood sugar regulation, cardiovascular function, digestive function, and in controlling blood pressure. The adrenals are further involved by playing a part in sexual interest and response – so poorly functioning adrenals can really put a damper on things by increasing fat storage on your belly while making you disinterested in the whole process altogether!

The following are some natural suggestions for nourishing and rejuvenating adrenal health: We'll start with an easy one: an adequate intake of water. This is a must in all natural health, wellness and fitness programs as it helps keep the kidney flushed and cleanses the body so it has less toxins to deal with, hence less stress. I use the formula .6 x body weight = ounces of water per day for my clients. This is a number that should be moved towards over time. For example if you weigh 150 pounds your daily water intake would be 90 ounces. .6 x 150 = 90 ounces. If you are currently drinking 40 ounces of water per day and your (ideal) daily ounce intake is 90 ounces, increase gently to your ideal ounces of water over the next month or two.

Next is slowing down the pace of things at least a few minutes a day. It's so easy to get wound up in all the day's work, errands and other pressures that we rarely take a moment to sit quietly without distraction and simply release these things from our mind. Take a walk if you can; moderate exercise can be a supportive factor in lowering stress levels. But while doing so, try to 'be present', rather than letting your mind drift to all those tasks ahead of you - this will allow the greatest regeneration.

Diet plays a huge role in any natural health, wellness and fitness program, and is crucial in proper adrenal gland function. You've heard it before, but I'll say it again! Reduce your sugar intake – sugar is a poison to the system, inducing stress whenever eaten. Cut out stimulants to the best of your ability. If you have a caffeine addiction, take it moment to moment, Do you really need that next cup? Will it make you feel better? Often after the first one or two in the morning, the answer is no. And cutting them out all together will give you more energy than you thought possible in a week to 10 days.

For a soothing, regenerating treatment, take an Epsom salt bath to pull out fatigue and acidity from the body. Again, let your mind go and release the worries of the day, and try to incorporate this into your regular routine. Consider adding a few drops of lavender essential oil to your bath and allow the aroma to help you relax and refresh. A favorite essential oil bath blend: 4 drops Lavender essential oil, 1 drop Rose essential oil. These oils are well known for their uplifting and relaxing qualities. Other aromatherapy bath salt blends are available for this purpose – just make sure they use all natural ingredients, as synthetic aromatics can actually cause more stress!
Okay, add lavender oil to my list of essential items. Rose oil too. Yummy!
Posted 01-29-2008 at 03:51 PM by Zer Zer is offline
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Guess what ... your adrenals are covered under your root chakra. Funny how things go hand in hand.

Where do you want me post about my latest Reiki treatment?
Posted 01-30-2008 at 03:39 AM by Ldy Stardust Ldy Stardust is offline
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Let's do the Reiki stuff right here, shall we? As comments on ADRENAL RESTORATION as a way of coping with adrenal fatigue/exhaustion.

Reiki addresses chakras? Golly, what a lot for me to learn as I open myself to searching out a circle of people who are emotionally available and who want to know me, as I am.
Posted 01-30-2008 at 06:07 AM by Zer Zer is offline
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I went for my Reiki session yesterday and was interesting as expected. Had less tingling and more intense, comforting warmth and I just soaked it in. She worked extra on my sinuses and lungs this time. My coughing had pretty much stopped before seeing her, but after the session my chest felt even lighter and relaxed. She spent some time on my arms and shoulders, too. I told her how much better they felt after she worked them last time and I showed her the mobility I had after the treatment. She worked her way down my body and just happened to touch my lower ribcage and lower abdomen. When her fingertips rested there, she asked me was was going on with my ribcage and first I told her nothing, because I couldn't feel anything, but it came to me that I have a little, pesky tumor there that just gives me fits sometimes when I am bending over at the waist or even getting everything hard in that hard and hurting way without doing anything. I know she couldn't physically feel it, because I would have flown up all the table because of the pain, so that impressed me a little. She felt something in my knees and legs, too, which is quite possible as I do have problems with them sometimes, but she was more concerned that to her I felt like hard, cold steel everywhere, especially my legs. It's so true too, because you bounce a quarter off of me everywhere but my bodacious tahtahs and lower tummy. I'm taunt. I started shivering during the session even though I wasn't cold and felt so weird, because I couldn't stop it. I just had to let it happen. She told me she thought that is was possibly something my body trying release, like the tension. When she got to my ankles, I was saying, "Ah!!!" I told her it was my favorite part. It was so warm and good. My ankles had not started hurting again since the last time, but it was still wonderful and today my feet are even pain free.

When I closed my eyes this time I had a light show again. Starting with green and flecks of purple going mostly over to purple and gold. She asked me how I was seeing the colors, were they pulsating or in tunnel vision. I told her last time it was a big mass of pulsating colors, but now it was tunnel vision with the edges being blurry and dark. She thought that was great. She said her experience has been that most people don't have the tunnel vision until they have become Reiki practioners and the colors I was seeing were highly spiritual of nature, which I already knew from reading. She is quite excited to see what happens over the weekend when I become a practioner. Me, too!

We talked about my goal of wanting to get better, helping myself and others. She herself has overcome Arthritic Psoarsis and thinks I can definitely improve the quality of life. I do, too, just from how I feel after having a session and soon I do them on myself in between. I not setting my heart on a cure ... I just want a better quality of life.

She is also taking a class on past life regression and told me that she needs people to practice on before she starts charging for it. She asked if she could practice on me and I'm like heck yes!

I went to bed after being home for an hour, because I felt tired and I started the shivering again and it would not stop. I went to sleep and slept for five hours. I only woke up because Mats woke me to eat dinner and see if I was living. I was so exhausted, but energized. Crazy, I know.

I told Mats yesterday that I just felt like the weight of the world was lifted off my shoulders and I felt so good mentally and better physically. It's like this constant pressure pressing down on me was lifted. I'm still feeling pretty good today. My shoulders are complaining, but I still have my mobility there and I'm looking at it a bit like a healing crisis.

Update from today:
I'm really thinking that my Reiki practioner got into deeper levels with me this time around. I'm on my third day of a healing crisis. I've experienced this with herbs and such and it's interesting that something like this can affect a person physically like this. It's all for the good, in with the good and out with the bad.

First day I had the shivers and slept long and hard during the day.

Second day, I got extremely achy in one of my big problem areas, my arms and shoulders. They throbbed, pulsated, and ached. Ouch. I used lots of heat on them, but it didn't stop. I still had mobility though.

Today my arms and shoulders are feeling pretty good. There is a sore point in my left shoulder, but I always can feel it, even on my best after Reiki treatment days. Instead, today I cannot stay out of the bathroom. I'm getting rid of something toxic.

My legs are viritually pain free, my feet and ankles are pain free and some of the hardness in my body seems to be lessening. I notice it most in the backs of my calves.

On top of all this, TOM struck yesterday. I was out on Monday for just a couple minutes, yesterday for 30 minutes and 40 minutes of walking today with hardly any coughing and just a few moments of chest tightness. Much better than last week.
Posted 01-30-2008 at 09:03 AM by Ldy Stardust Ldy Stardust is offline
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Glorious report. What a wonderful experience this is. I'm eager to hear about regression too.

Thank you for sharing your Reiki with me.
Posted 01-30-2008 at 09:50 AM by Zer Zer is offline
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I am too! I hope I can do it. lol I have had a reading where someone told me about past lives and some future things that have come to being, like I was going to have a daughter within 1½ years (even though my husband was sterile) and I was pg with my daughter within that time. Also she said I was going to be mentoring a very spiritual girl and later said she was my daughter. Alexandra has had a meeting of angels in her room right before Christmas and last week she was visited by her deceased relatives, Swedish and American each on their one side of the room speaking in their mother tongue, and one of her angels was there telling her not to be afraid.

I asked if she recognized anybody and she said to me that my little brother was there, my maternal grandparents, my dad and her paternal grandfather was there, plus all the others. I asked how they looked and she said they looked like they did before they passed away. I asked her what they were doing and she said they were talking about her and to her. Interesting, huh!

I've done nothing to get this started. She been seeing things and telling about them since she was two.

I just don't think I can see anything to compare with what I've been told. I guess I'm just afraid I'll draw a blank. I guess we'll see soon.

I hope I didn't hijack your blog entry.
Posted 01-31-2008 at 12:39 AM by Ldy Stardust Ldy Stardust is offline
Updated 01-31-2008 at 01:08 AM by Ldy Stardust
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Nope. Comments just sort of 'grow' as we go. I'm so glad you are open to Alexandra's youthful visions, that she can talk about what she sees - and I hope you are transcribing all for her. From what I've read, this ability is a window that may close as a child grows older and realizes that it is not 'normal' to see and hear such things. With support, we may allow a child to experience and to grow into a deeper experience of a world that exists on a different plane.

Adrenals surely will profit from knowing less stress about stuff on this plane - if we can be sure we are Not Alone.

I'm just now reading a bit about Edgar Cayce's use of castor oil packs to activate a body's defenses - lymph and T-11 cells and such - and am not sure if it belongs here at ADRENALS or if I should start a CASTOR OIL topic.

For now, it's about supporting my adrenals, so it's here.

See http://www.baar.com/castoroilinstruct.htm and
http://www.annieappleseedproject.org/castoroiluses.html
http://www.annieappleseedproject.org...roilpacks.html

Maybe I need a NATURAL HEALING topic? We'll see....
Posted 01-31-2008 at 06:01 AM by Zer Zer is offline
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Not sure where this comment fits in, but figure it's about adrenal function, so here it is. I'm kind of surprised at how calm I feel on the eve of my 64th b'day. Apparently, I did the right thing in pruning some deadwood from my life - although I wept a lot at giving up the dream of family closeness. Hard to give up a dream. But I sure feel as if I have created space in my life for more viable relationships with people who WANT to spend time with me, know me just as I am, maybe cherish my friendship and support me in becoming more than I am. That's what I hope for now. I hope to build energy and strength and to strike out in a search for positive people, people whose energy can support my growth and who I can support with more enthusiasm than I felt as I sought common ground with people who seemed alien to me in some pretty basic ways. Core values really count for a lot, as people grow older and build common goals. I shall be on the lookout for people who share core values, as I look for friends and build a support system.

So, today is feeling pretty good. I'm stoked with protein - only 20g, but it will have to do until more WPP appears. Meanwhile, I have salmon on hand. That will fuel me today. I am thinking going meat and egg might not be amiss as I prepare for the arrival of my scales in a week or so. Who knows how many pounds I can drop before I must step up to see my true weight?

Not panicking. Just considering some alternatives. Life is full of such choices - and I am feeling COMPETENT just now to make good LC choices. Nice feeling. I like it.

I wonder at how many years I missed knowing this feeling in any aspect of my life except my craft, my career. No wonder I clutched that to my breast. No wonder I felt bereft without a work identity. So much joy in feeling COMPETENT. Nice that I can do it with a chug of WPP to nourish my cells with protein at day's beginning - and wonderful to think that living a truly LC life might be a way to preserve this feeling of COMPETENCE all day long. Chances are I shall find others who live with a sense of being COMPETENT. What a delightful prospect!
Posted 02-04-2008 at 10:16 AM by Zer Zer is offline
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Had a chance recently to reply to a thread by a LCFriend asking "Can you unsay something that you said?" as she decided to give up a workfriend who had gone off on her and then said 'no hard feelings' and expects to still be tight friends.

It made me think of my own decision to give up on a relationship that seems doomed to be no more than a frustrating experience. This is what I wrote:
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What you wrote touches on a decision I made not too long ago, after reading a bit about adrenal exhaustion and how our body may suffer for frustrations in our life. I took a stand and told a sibling that we may be causing each other damage as we struggle to find common ground without sharing common values.

I wept at the idea of giving up a hope I've cherished for 60yrs, but I know that I am not changing MY core values. At 64 I am just finding my own rhythm and I am liking the person I am growing myself up to be. She is 61 and not likely to change her willingness to accept bad behavior from a twin whose behavior is shocking and abusive and who is estranged from me for very good reasons. So I gave up an pursuing a hope that my sibs and I will grow close and share our golden years. It's not going to happen. Sibling rivalry, I guess, gets in our way and I do not know how to bridge the gap without burning myself up, wasting a lot more years and costing my health dearly.

I think I've made great strides in the 3mos since I informed a weak friend (a truly good good woman, but a doormat for dastardly users/abusers - one of whom is her twin - and thus not a dependable friend for me to rely on) that I am cutting her loose and will not be calling her, calling on her, seeking support where it cannot be found. I think we will not meet again, although we live 80miles apart. For the past few years, we have seen little of each other and I have pestered her with phone calls - several times a week. I just gave up on going back to a dry well for what I thirst for. We do not share core values. My efforts to find common ground leave me frustrated, and I deal with frustration by engaging in destructive behavior. Eating is my recourse. Sigh.

Since admitting that the relationship is not working for me, I see less frustration in my life. Sure, I miss her. I miss the hope that I had of having a friend in a sibling, an ally in a world that is so often confusing for me.

My weight program has improved.
My support of myself has improved.

Am I sad not to hear from her? You bet.
Am I sorry that we are not tight? You bet.
Am I sure that I did the right thing in losing my dream we were friends?

Almost.

Anyway, I hope you [OP who started the thread that prompted this writing] are doing all right with your own decision to cut loose someone who goes off on you and then decides that you two can rock on as if she did not blow off steam and say hurtful things to you.

Oh, I'm Aquarius, a generally forgiving person, just recently learning to set limits and boundaries as a result of learning what a LC program can teach me about fueling myself and dodging carbs offered by friends who seem to want to sabotage my LC efforts. The sib I just let go of was in the habit of gifting me with carby stuff, in spite of the fact that she and I are both fat - me being vastly fatter and severely impaired by my obesity. She still brought me all sorts of candy and baked goods. I ask you - WHY? I asked her - WHY?

Finally, I asked myself WHY DO I ASSOCIATE WITH FOLKS WHO DO NOT SUPPORT MY CORE VALUES? And I could not find a healthy answer to that.

Thanks for this thread. Helps me to write out my stuff. Helps me a lot.
As I am finding out, lots of the threads at LCFriends lead me to examine aspects of my life that are related to eating and overeating. Thanks to all who post at LCFriends and who engage in an exchange of ideas that clear the way for a healthier way of thinking and eating. Yay, us!

Note please, how my stats show improved LC activity in the past 3mos. Coincidence? I think not. More like a payoff for taking a stand that supports me, that shows I am my own Best Friend - at last. It's been a long time coming!
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Stats: 5'10"; 64; 508.7/402.4/199
WOE: Atkins+ALGittleman
432.4(2/8); 426.2(3/8); 413.2(4/8) 402.4(5/8)
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